Marriage is considered a sacred system and means the union of two families, not just two. In the West, people usually move after marriage, but in India the shared family system is still prevalent and parents have more say about their children's marriage. The arranged marriage system is still very popular in India and its basic principle is strict adherence to caste rules. Hindus prefer to get married in the caste. For example, Brahmin marries Brahmin and Rajput marries Rajput's family. Marriage also tends to be widespread among Muslims and Sikhs within its subsection. For example, Jat Sikhs does not marry the Ramdasia family. Sunni Muslim families traditionally find partners within the Sunni community, and Shiites find them within their own community. Jains, Christians, and Parsians are also married within their community. The relationship between the cast is believed to bring many difficulties and challenges to the couple and their families. One of the main disadvantages of pagan marriage is the fear of social ridicule and ostracism, which discourages people from deviating from the norms of marriage within the community. Plus, the partners find it difficult to adapt to each others culture. Adherence to strict norms in different castes raises concerns over discord in the marriage. One may be meat eaters while the others refrain totally; one may believe in a certain style of dressing which is a big nono in another. Adjusting to the others lifestyle is seen as a huge hindrance. Perhaps the families will not be involved with each other, etc The strain on the family name, honor and reputation, also diluting the pure race in case of intercaste marriage is a concern for many. Honor killing is a rampant phenomenon in Indian states like Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh and Haryana which discourages couples belonging to different castes from getting married There is also the concept of Gotra that prevails in most parts of north India. Sharing common ancestors is termed as Gotra and many believe that if they share the same gotra somewhere the children are related by blood and hence a marriage between them can be incestuous and lead to genetic deformities in their offspring By rejecting intercaste marriages, the evils of the caste system still get validation and carry on. The world is becoming global and we cannot let something that was made centuries ago divide people and communities. But everything said and done even though we may not feel these differences as we fall in love with people from different castes while pursuing our higher studies or in our jobs, turning those relationships into a serious commitment like marriage will have bearings because at the end familiarity does bring a sense of comfort and hailing from different castes is bound to topple that. Intercaste marriages will bring their unique issues and we present them to you here. Since intercaste marriage is not well accepted in Indian society, the couple has to face a lot of societal pressure. While renting apartments, landlords create issues because of the intercaste marriage badge. The couple may have no friends or relatives who come forward to extend any help. Essentially, your world gets reduced to just your partner and vice versa. Given that humans thrive on social interactions, this can turn out to be one of the major intercaste marriage issues. If you dont have friends or extended family who are supportive of your decision, life after an intercaste marriage can become immensely isolated and stressful. One of the partners might think that his/her caste is superior to that of the partner. This will create attitudinal and behavioral issues. One may treat the other disparagingly or be dismissive of their opinions and suggestions because theyre unable to shake off years of deep-seated “I am superior” conditioning. Over time, this may lead to resentment and create a deep divide between the couple. This is one of the biggest problems of intercaste love marriage. Differences in how things are done can be a huge factor that can lead to fights and arguments as well. This could lead to decreasing love and care for each other, eventually adding to the stereotype that intercaste marriages have a lower success rate of survival.
Long awaited: 31 Dec 2021
You know, I am a very basic, simple
person at heart. If I like you, I like you a lot. And if I don’t like
you, then I absolutely don’t like you. So it should make my
life simple and transparent. But that’s not the case. Things
always mess up. And I am not saying that it’s always their
fault. It has been my fault too. I just think no one
understands me. Some try, but they fail. Maybe, they go by
my image or the things I say in fun. Maybe, I feel too much.
And people don’t do that anymore. They want to touch the
water. But they are scared to dive deep into the water. And
am ocean deep. I keep most people at hi-hello. But when I
make you my person, I want it to be pure and real. Are you
getting me? It’s not only about a lover. Even in friendship, I
want it to be genuine and heartfelt. I value the time I give to
someone. I value when I call you my own person. It matters
to me what you have said to me or promised to me. I take
most things casually. But if I am serious about you, then you
have to show the same level of commitment and priority.
Otherwise, things pinch me right in the heart. And I can’t
pretend to be fine. It will show. It will show on my face and in
my words. And you won’t even find that thing significant for
it to matter. But they matter to me. The little things mess up
my head big time.
I show as if I am the coolest and most savage soul in town.
But the truth is that I am very tender in my heart. I get
attached too much. I get too much involved. I fill my head
with our imaginary scenarios. I imagine. I plan. I dream. I
expect. And that’s how I create my own disappointment in
people. I expect you to mean your words and not change
with time. But people don’t understand that. They start to
judge me as a problematic person. They think I overthink.
They think I overreact. But they never notice that I over-
gave, that I over-cared, and that I over-loved too. They fail
to see my rainbow. They just complain about the storm.
They just see the water. They don’t feel its depth. And I
think that’s what I will always be, an ocean too deep for
them to ever understand.
Warrior
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Loneliness is not a bliss
I may have a lot of bad habits which I know not possible to fix in this birth. I know this too I’m not the right person of your choice but I always tried to become one. I live my life with purpose, always want to see happy faces, Never wanted to someone in pain because of me. it’s beautiful when someone cares about you when someone like you notices that you have not been yourself. a person keeps asking you until you finally share what’s bothering you. It’s wonderful to have someone like you who gets worried for you. When things get heavier in my heart, I get rude in my tongue, I withdraw from people. I get irritated too soon. I hide things. I run away. I try to escape from everyone and everything. and then people start calling me a mad, arrogant, crazy psychopath. It just gets worse, so I just stop explaining. I just simply accept all, soak it all in, walk away I get too involved with people. I’m a difficult person to know because I keep hiding behind my smile I get too much attached. I feel too many emotions too soon. I don’t doubt people once I like them. it’s very rare when you can call someone your, you feel sure in your heart. It’s once in a lifetime kind of rare. I focus so much on giving that what I am getting in return doesn’t even matter to me. I have always been the one trying to do more.
I stop thinking about my wishes, my plans, and my dreams. It all becomes about other people in my life. And I still stay a happy fool until these people stay with me. I keep adjusting. I keep doing things for them. I wake up only when they leave me. Only then do I realize what pain I have caused to myself.
one problem with me that I adjusted myself too much Now I forget how to smile. I keep going into my silent zone from time to time. I cut off from people, no calls, no texts. I am not angry with people. I don’t get my heart broken or anything like that. It’s not always about relationships. It’s about so many little things that my heart keeps accumulating over some time. I keep ignoring these things with my smile and laughter. But suddenly, my soul screams that it’s getting too much to handle. And at this sign, I give up. I give up on trying to be happy all the time. My acceptance comes in the form of my silence. I try to just soak it all in. I don’t go to people and share my problems. What to share, anyway? I don’t know the exact thing that’s bothering me. But so many things come together and make it one big, complicated mess. How can I explain it to you when I don’t understand it? So I just give time to my soul to breathe, to heal.
Raghavendra Raghuvanshi
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Jamia Millia Islamia
Double and multi-faceted character of Jamia University (JMI)
These days, especially teachers, students and intellectuals of Jamia University (JMI) don’t get tired of calling for the constitution on the issue of CAA and NRC. On the issue of secularism and inclusiveness, the present central government and the law system are questioned. But an observation of the double character prevailing in this university will show how the Dalits and the tribal community are treated as bad as the displaced and the self-proclaimed intellectuals take icy dead silence.
Jamia Millia Islamia is a central university formed by the Act of the Indian Constitution. According to the 7th Article of the Jamia Act 1988,
“In Jamia, there will be reservation for Scheduled Caste (SC), Tribe (ST) Dalits, Divyang people and women as per Government of India rules.”
From 1988 to 2011 it was also followed in admissions and recruitment of jobs.
However, in 2011, the then Manmohan Singh government of the Congress formed a new National Minority Educational Institution Commission (NCMEI) separately to persuade the minorities to vote, with a decision that made the Jamia University (JMI) a Muslim minority. Made the university and abolished the reservation of Scheduled Caste (SC), Tribe (ST) and Dalit students in Jamia University (JMI) forever. Indian This decision is still under consideration in Delhi High Court.
But today the teachers’ union and university administration of this university, which has been calling for the Constitution, abruptly removed the reservation based on the Government of India without losing a moment and gave 50% Muslim reservation in admission with immediate effect. Despite this, the minority decision has been challenged in the Delhi High Court and is under consideration, eliminating the reservation for Dalit students altogether in the admission process.
The extent was reached when the Jamia administration in 2014 abolished the reservation of Dalits provided by the Government of India from both their jobs and promotions.
Some point which shows the double attitude of the Jamia administration and the university.
Reservations were given to Dalits at Jamia University (JMI) from the year 1988 to 2011 on the basis of the Government of India… whereas Scheduled Castes (SC), Tribes (ST) and Dalit Reservation since 2011 have not adopted the inclusive approach. Abolished.
Not only at Jamia University (JMI),
Those Dalits who have got jobs on the basis of reservation in teaching and other posts before 2011 also adopt a partisan attitude, like they do not get any preference in the allocation of houses.It is worth noting that…
The Ministry of Human Resource Development (MHRD) still considers Jamia University (JMI) a central university, not a minority. The Ministry believes that the case of religious minority is under consideration in the High Court.Till date Jamia University (JMI) has not even been notified in the Government of India gadgets of minority universities.
At the same time there is no amendment in the Jamia Act, 1988 … Therefore, reservation of Scheduled Castes (SC), Tribes (ST) and Dalits given in para 7 is bound to be done according to the Government of India, which is Jamia University (JMI) administration deliberately refuses to give.
For any university or institute to be a minority, there are 2 essential things – the first is made by minorities and the second should be run by the minority whereas the Jamia University (JMI) is created by the Constitution of India and is also governed by the Government of India ( JMI Act 1988) and is fully funded by the Government of India.
So tell me, did the Jamia University (JMI) and its teachers, students and intellectuals who are sympathetic to it, not cheat the Scheduled Castes (SC), Tribes (ST) and Dalits and opportunism is not being used under politics? If these people really care about Dalits, then why don’t they give Dalits rights? Why do Jamia University (JMI) and its teachers, students and intellectuals with their sympathies do not give Dalits their reservation under the constitution created by Dr. Babasaheb Ambedkar, under the constitution of Babasaheb Ambedkar? Why Congress, SP, Mayawati, Owaisi, Lalu Yadav, Kanhaiya Kumar, Left parties who are advocating Dalit-Muslim unity today, do not raise voice on the right to education to the oppressed, deprived, exploited Dalits and backward in Jamia University (JMI)? Why don’t these people take to the road to give reservation to Dalits and backward in Jamia University (JMI) as per the constitution made by Dr. Ambedkar. Are these people not insulting the Dalit society and identity by depriving the Dalits and backward of education in world-renowned government universities like Jamia University (JMI)? Are Muslims not exploiting them politically by not giving reservation to Dalits and backward in Jamia University (JMI)? The Muslim who uses Dalits and backward for his political agenda, why does the Muslim step back from giving reservation to Dalits and backward in Jamia University (JMI)? Do not you think that Muslims are using Dalits and backward?
It is a matter of thinking and deciding…
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CAB Amendment Bill
I was thinking where to start first,
from article 370 or 35A or Ayodhya verdict.
Lets start with CAB 2019,
Now the picture is clear that this is totally pre planned attack by mob on Indian citizen and on there properties too.
These few people who belongs to few party and community trying to provoke Hindu vs Muslim behind CAA 2019.
There has been a misinformation campaign. “The Citizenship (Amendment) Act or CAA does not affect any Indian citizen, including Muslim citizens,” on the controversial legislation that has led to violent protests in almost every parts of the country, including the national capital.This is not going to affect any citizen of India in any way , The Indian citizens enjoy fundamental rights given by the constitution of India including Muslim citizens .
CAA 2019 for , Hindu, Sikh, Jain, Buddhist, Parasi and Christian foreigners who have migrate from Pakistan, Bangladesh and Afghanistan into India up to 31.12.2014, on account of persecution faced by them due to their religion they are not enjoying their freedom due to minority .
What the fuck people doing on road pelting stone on police official , wake up man, there is nothing wrong in nation interest, people are lemming. Few bloody asshole saying they lost their freedom ,not able to study , not able to go to college , Internet service is down. Ask yourself What is the reason? Why you are taking law & order in your hole. Police is not designed for Dance on street . They had not received Lathi and Gun to Fire on their wedding they will perform their duty.
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“Catalyzing India’s Ascent: Strategies for Global Leadership and Power”
India’s ascent to becoming a global leader and one of the most powerful countries in the world is a journey that requires a strategic and comprehensive approach across various domains. some key steps for India to reach this status:
India, with its rich history, diverse culture, and immense potential, stands on the cusp of a transformative journey towards becoming a global leader and one of the most powerful nations on the planet. To achieve this ambitious goal, India must harness its strengths while addressing its challenges in a systematic and strategic manner.
At the heart of India’s rise lies its economic prowess. Continued economic growth, driven by innovation, entrepreneurship, and investment in critical sectors, is paramount. Structural reforms, support for small and medium-sized enterprises, and a focus on sustainable development can further boost the Indian economy.
India’s IT sector has already showcased its capabilities. To maintain a competitive edge, India should invest heavily in research and development, emerging technologies like artificial intelligence and biotechnology, and foster a culture of innovation and entrepreneurship.
well-educated and skilled workforce is the backbone of any global leader. India must prioritize education, vocational training, and upskilling to ensure its population is equipped to meet the demands of a rapidly evolving global economy.
infrastructure, including modern transportation networks, energy grids, and digital connectivity, is essential for economic growth and attracting foreign investment.
India should continue strengthening its diplomatic ties with key nations, forming strategic alliances, and playing a proactive role in international organizations. Diplomacy will help shape global policies and norms in India’s favor.
India should lead the charge in addressing global challenges like climate change, public health, and poverty alleviation. Sustainable practices not only enhance its global standing but also benefit its citizens.
India’s cultural influence, from Bollywood to yoga, is a valuable soft power asset. Leveraging this cultural appeal can foster positive international perceptions and strengthen people-to-people ties.
India must navigate complex geopolitical relationships with care, balancing its interests with those of other nations, and seeking peaceful resolutions to regional conflicts.
As India advances on this path towards global leadership, it must remain agile, adaptable, and open to change. The journey is not without its challenges, but India’s history is a testament to its resilience and capacity for transformation. With determination, strategic planning, and a commitment to its values, India has the potential to shape a more prosperous and equitable world as a global leader.
Superpower countries have the ability to significantly influence and shape global politics due to their substantial political, economic, military, and cultural capabilities. Here’s how they play a crucial role in global politics Superpowers typically have the world’s largest economies. They can use their economic power to shape international trade policies, negotiate favorable trade agreements, and provide financial aid to other countries. Their economic stability and strength can attract foreign investment and drive global economic trends. military is a hallmark of superpower status. Superpowers can project military force globally, which can deter potential adversaries and influence the outcome of conflicts. They often play key roles in international peacekeeping efforts and alliances, providing security and stability in regions of strategic importance.
Superpowers can allocate resources to address international crises or provide humanitarian assistance. Their contributions to disaster relief, development aid, and peacekeeping missions can have a substantial impact on affected regions.
A superpower is a term used to describe a country that has significant global influence and power on various fronts, including political, economic, military, and cultural. Superpower status implies that a nation has the capability to exert its influence and shape events on a global scale. The United States is often considered the world’s sole superpower due to its economic, military, and cultural influence. It has the world’s largest economy, a powerful military, and a substantial global diplomatic presence.
China’s rapid economic growth and increasing global influence have led many to consider it a rising superpower. It has a large and dynamic economy, a substantial military, and is involved in various global initiatives.
It’s important to note that the concept of superpower can be fluid, and the designation may change over time as countries’ capabilities and influence evolve. Additionally, there can be regional powers with significant influence in their respective regions without reaching the status of a global superpower.
influence of superpowers can vary over time and may face challenges. Other emerging powers may contest their dominance, and international dynamics can shift. Nonetheless, superpowers remain central actors in global politics, with the ability to impact the world’s trajectory in significant ways.
Becoming a superpower is a complex and multifaceted process that involves economic, political, military, and social factors. India has been on a trajectory towards becoming a global superpower, and there are several key factors contributing to its rise:
India has experienced significant economic growth over the past few decades. Its large and youthful population provides a robust workforce, and economic reforms have attracted foreign investment. Key sectors like information technology, pharmaceuticals, and renewable energy have seen substantial growth.
India’s young and growing population is an asset. A large workforce can drive economic productivity and innovation. However, effective education and skill development are crucial to harness this potential fully. strengthened its diplomatic ties with both Western and Asian powers. Developing strategic partnerships with countries like the United States, Russia, and Japan has bolstered its global influence. India has been investing in modernizing its military capabilities. This includes the acquisition of advanced weaponry and technology, enhancing its defense capabilities in a region with complex security dynamics. India’s space agency, ISRO, has made significant strides, including successful missions to Mars and the moon. This enhances India’s technological reputation on the global stage.
culture, including its film industry , yoga, and cuisine, has a global appeal. Soft power can be a significant asset in shaping international perceptions and building relationships. India has a thriving startup ecosystem, with a focus on technology and innovation. Companies like Infosys, Tata, and Reliance have become global players.
Investment in infrastructure, such as highways, ports, and smart cities, is crucial for sustained economic growth and improving the quality of life for citizens.
India’s participation in addressing global challenges, like climate change and cybersecurity, showcases its commitment to international cooperation.
It’s important to acknowledge that India faces significant challenges, including poverty, inequality, and political complexities. Addressing these issues will be essential for its continued rise.
In conclusion, India’s journey towards superpower status is a dynamic and ongoing process. While it has made substantial progress, there are still hurdles to overcome. Continued economic growth, strategic diplomacy, and investments in human capital and infrastructure will play a vital role in India’s quest for superpower status.
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Feminist not pseudo
Such countless individuals accept that ladies are sub-par compared to men and it’s an overall insight concerning Indian culture. It is relied upon from a man to work for the house, to procure and make the family run. The hypothesis of women’s liberation discusses fairness and freedom. Likewise, numerous lawful arrangements are there to shield their freedoms yet abuse of these privileges is frequently seen by the ladies in the general public, be it counterfeit cases on individuals for the charges of abusive behavior at home, conjugal assault, share, and so forth It is seen that society has a to some degree gentler corner for ladies all things considered. From a Delhi police report, it was observed that out of the all out no. of cases announced of abusive behavior at home and endowment, 60% cases were accounted for to be phony and were documented only for certain blessings. It is relied upon from a man to be a sole bread worker of the family while the ladies are accepted to see the family mayhem. There is a more noteworthy mental strain on a man than a lady with regards to building a vocation.
Women feel comparatively more secure if they even fail in their career then they can still get married and settle down for the rest of life but it’s not in the case of men. Many women expect privilege everywhere just because they are women. Be it desire for special treatment at every public place and social gatherings which nullify the theory of feminism which means equality. There arises equal responsibility of a woman as that of a man to make society more gender-neutral and promote the real feminism.
The women are crying everywhere for fair rights, but don’t waste a minute telling a guy sitting on a Ladies Reserved seat to vacate it.
Although they are in the minority, some men are also subjected to sexual crimes that are crystal-clear truth. The statistics of cases reported to the police are on the lower side as most people do not report such a crime for fear of being mocked, not believed, and facing the charges themselves instead. Men are often abducted for illicit sexual activity, forced marriages, prostitution, and so on. The number of such victims is really low but we can not ignore that fact.
we can say that Incomplete translation of an idea is something unsafe and in numerous ways, we have seen this, not simply women’s liberation. Half-information is more hazardous than the very obliviousness. Few out of every odd man out there is an attacker, following or gazing at a lady out there. Women’s liberation is a type of equivalent treatment; pseudo-woman’s rights is a type of pettiness. There is no benchmarking and no challenge.
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Raghuvanshi – Powerful lineage of Hinduism and Hindu king
रघुकुल रीत सदा चली आई प्राण जाए पर वचन न जाई
King Raghu was son of King Dilip. King Raghu known as a great donor of him time. He was passionate to keep people happy that all promises and demand of Praja must be fulfilled . Demand of common people whoever visited his place no one returned back empty – hand. Sages and Sadhus were regarded as protector of the land and held with the high esteem in the palace.
The meaning of given above famous line ,
The Legacy of Raghukul continues ; words and promises are kept even to the extent of giving live to fulfill it.
Raghuvansh , The glowing lineage of solar dynasty
Clash of King Dilip with Indra on completion of Yagna.
Only Indra ( King of God) had been completed 100 Yagnas with proper Vedic principles under guidance of Sages. King Raghu’s father Dilip was a very pious king and devotee of Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh. He performed as many as 100 Yagna and only Indra was successful to do so. King Dilip was nearing to competition of his 100th Yagna, Indra felt jealous and he forced so many hurdle breaker in the path of ongoing 100th yagna, but King Raghu with his piousness , devotion and bhakti helped him to complete his 100 yagnas. He achieved that. The most celebrated of all, Raghukul dynasty was thus born. Pious karma of his forefather of king Raghu and then his future sons that made it possible for Vishnu to take Avtar as Lord Ram so as to eventually make the end of Treta Yug more dharmic filled with prosperity , piousness and free for Asur(demon).
Kingdom of King Raghu
King Raghu was blessed by so many Sages and Sadhus and their guidance to rule the Kingdom. He was very soft spoken , kind hearted and intelligent ruler. He was ardent devotee of vedic Gods, very brave king and knew rightful way to treat enemies . To establish Dharma and avoid invasion and make this world peaceful place-pious and free from enemies adharmis, Anti Vedic people. King Raghu showcased his great warrior skill when he marched towards central Asia. King Raghu made them aware of the Vedic Science, Principle and peaceful way of leading life. He was successful in defeating local kings. The Kingdom of Raghu extend from his capital AYODHYA (Awadh) to the Bay of Bengal, then south along the eastern shore of india to Cape comorin , Then North along the Western shore until the region surrounded by the Sindhu River (Indus Vally) , and East through the tremendous HIMALAYAN range of ASSAM.
The various nations were also covered when King Hindu made Mlecchas- Persians , Greeks and white huns- all submit either with or without fighting. When the Hindu King Raghu reached the Oxus river , he battled the Mlecchas . The Mlecchas/Hephthalites were defeated ,and expanse of peace ,prosperity of Raghuvansh kingdom spread across central Asia.
After crossing the Oxus river, Raghu and his army encountered the Kambojas (Indo-Scythian people) The Kambojas submitted to the glory of King to Raghu and offered him gift and treasure , treating him with guest of honor. The Kambojas then spread over in the vicinity of the Pamir mountain range under astute guidance of King Raghu. Even then the region was popular for the cultivation of Walnut trees for the upkeep of the local people and this legacy was properly maintained by King Raghu and Kambojas.
On his safe return to Ayodhya , Raghu offer a great yagna and gives away all his wealth for the benefits of people and kingdom.
“जय श्री राम“
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Reminiscences of the Nehru Age
M.O.Mathai, who had served as Nehru’s special assistant (Personal Assistant – PA) for almost a decade & a half (between 1946 & 1959), it gives the reader some first hand information on several anecdotes, facts & historical references. It is an engaging read in which Mathai effortlessly takes the reader back in time and narrates his encounters & experiences with different leaders in a very blunt & unforgiving style. Neatly divided into isolated chapters, he speaks out his mind (personal opinions along with anecdotes & some facts) about each leader per chapter.
chapter on Mahatma Gandhi:
On Lal Bahadur Shastri:
On Sardar Patel:
Nehru is pretty much evident throughout the book but at the same time, he is not hesitant to talk about some intimate matters like Nehru’s platonic love with Edwina, affairs with Sarojini Naidu’s daughter( Padmaja Naidu ), Mridula Sarabhai and others.it helps the reader understand the psychological impact of such affairs on Nehru which in turn would have affected his decisions the national front.
Chapter 29 “She” was withdrawn by the author in the last minute due to the contents being “intensely personal”.
Nehru’s affair with Padmaja Naidu can actually be related to Gandhi family dynasty politics. Although Nehru had promised his wife Kamala that he will do everything possible to stop Indira from marrying Feroze (Nehru was also against her marrying Feroze), Indira was aware of Nehru’s affair with Padmaja and hence cleverly blackmailed Nehru into agreeing to her marriage with Feroze who was renamed Feroze Gandhi which triggered the the tryst with dynasty.
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भोले की नगरी काशी
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हर हर महादेव |
इन थोड़े से शब्दों में काशी को परिभाषित नहीं किया जा सकता , परन्तु बनारस की एक झलक प्रस्तुत करने की मैंने अपनी नाकाम कोशिस है, तो चलिए —
बनारस ५००० वर्ष से भी पुरानी नगरी, विश्व के सबसे प्राचीन शहरों में एक और अलौकिक शहर बनारस का वृतांत एक बनारसी से अच्छा कौन कर सकता है , जो थोड़ी जानकारी मुझे ज्ञात है वो मै वर्णित करने की कोशिस करता हु, कोई त्रुटि हो तो क्षमा कीजियेगा,और नहीं नहीं किये तो का उखाड़ लेंगे , ये जिन्दा शहर जो बनारस है , यहां सब काम लौ….. ड़े से होता है ,और भोसड़ी के तो अभिवादन है। लगभग २४ हज़ार से भी ज्यादा मंदिरो का शहर है बनारस।
बनारस शहर नहीं घर है , अपनापन कूट कूट के भरा है। आत्मा की शांति और शुद्धि भी अगर कही है तो वो बनारस में ही है.
अवीमुक्ता जमीन के नाम भी जाना जाता है जिसका अर्थ जमीन जो कभी शिव से रहित नहीं है।
रुद्रवास भूमि जहां रुद्रा शिव का एक अभिव्यक्ति रहता है ,
यह वह शहर है जहां भगवान बुद्ध ने अपने ज्ञान के बाद अपना पहला समारोह उपदेश दिया था।
वर्तमान में, इसे सारनाथ के नाम से जाना जाता है।
वाराणसी नाम वरुणा और असि असी नदियों के नाम से लिया गया “वाराणसी” नाम है ,जो इस शहर में यहां संगम है।
वाराणसी को महाशमशान के शहर के नाम से भी जानते है क्युकी यहां चिताये कभी बुझती नहीं है।
भारत की सांस्कृतिक राजधानी के बारे में आपको बताते है बनारस की प्रसिद्धि किन किन वजहों से है —
१ – रामनगर पांडव रोड पर स्थित 8 वीं शताब्दी दुर्गा मंदिर, पास के पेड़ों में रहने वाले सैकड़ों बंदरों का घर है।
२- एक और लोकप्रिय मंदिर संकोमोचन मंदिर है, जो सिमियन-देव हनुमान को समर्पित है।
३- वाराणसी का भारत माता मंदिर शायद भारत का एकमात्र मंदिर है जो ‘मदर इंडिया’ को समर्पित है। 1936 में महात्मा गांधी द्वारा उद्घाटन किया गया, इसका संगमरमर में नक्काशीदार भारत का एक बड़ा राहत मानचित्र है।
४-पूजा के अन्य महत्वपूर्ण स्थानों में भगवान गणेश का साक्षी विनायक मंदिर, काल भैरव मंदिर, नेपाली मंदिर, नेपाल के राजा द्वारा नेपाली शैली में ललिता घाट पर बनाया गया, पंचगंगा घाट के पास बिंदू माधव मंदिर और ताल्लंग स्वामी मठ
५- एक और नया मंदिर 1964 में भगवान राम के सम्मान में तुलसी मानस मंदिर दुर्गाकुंड नामक स्थान पर बनाया गया था, जहां तुलसीदास ने रामायण के महाकाव्य के सर्वव्यापी संस्करण रामचरितमानों को बनाया था। इस मंदिर की दीवारें भगवान राम के शोषण को दर्शाते हुए दृश्यों और छंदों को सजाती हैं।इसके अलावा
६-काशी विश्वनाथ मंदिर, वाराणसी में अन्य प्रसिद्ध मंदिर हैं। भगवान शिव को समर्पित प्रसिद्ध काशी विश्वनाथ मंदिर में एक लिंगम-शिव का भौतिक प्रतीक है जो महान महाकाव्य के समय वापस जाता है। स्कंद पुराण ने वाराणसी के इस मंदिर को शिव के निवास के रूप में उल्लेख किया है, और इसने मुस्लिम शासकों द्वारा विभिन्न हमलों के हमले को रोक दिया है।
यह दुनिया के सबसे पवित्र शहर के लिए जाना जाता है जहां लाखों आगंतुक गंगा नदी में पवित्र स्नान करने के लिए जाते हैं।
ऐसा माना जाता है की काशी भगवान शिव और देवी पार्वती का घर था और प्रचलित मत है कि यदि मृत्यु के बाद यहां व्यक्ति का दाह संस्कार किया गया हो तो वह मोक्ष प्राप्त कर लेगा। सुप्रसिद्ध हरिश्चंद घाट और माणिकर्णिका घाट हैं जहां दैनिक कई हज़ार मृत शरीर को दफनाया जाता है।
मकर संक्राति शिवरात्रि और होली बनारस के प्रमुख त्योहार है. मकर संक्रांति और महा शिवरात्रि के अवसर पर लाखों तीर्थयात्री अपने पापों को धोने के लिए दुनिया भर से आते हैं, गंगा जी में स्नान करके भगवान् की उपासना करते है।
दूसरी तरफ, प्राचीन काल से आज तक एक धार्मिक शहर होने के अलावा यह प्रमुख शिक्षा और सांस्कृतिक केंद्र है। शहर में बनारस हिंदू विश्वविद्यालय कई देशों के छात्रों के लिए शिक्षा का मुख्य स्रोत है।
संस्कृत की शिक्षा बनारस की प्रमुख शिक्षा हुवा करती थी , आज भी विदेशी मेहमान बनारस में कई वर्षो तक रहकर संस्कृत का अध्ययन कर रहे है।
काशी योग साधना और संस्कृत विद्या का ज्ञान केंद्र रहा है ,यह वह शहर है जहां आयुर्वेद और योग प्राचीन के लिए प्रमुख स्थान ले लिया गया था.
हजारो साल पहले से बनारस व्यापार और वाणिज्य का प्रमुख केंद्र रहा है ,
यहां हिंदी के विश्वप्रसिद्ध लेखक मुंशी प्रेम चंद का भी घर है जिसने हिंदी साहित्य में एक महान नाम अर्जित किया। महान कवि कबीर दास, और संत रवि दास जी जैसे महान विभूतिओं से भरी हुइ नगरी का नाम काशी है। वाराणसी ने सभी सांस्कृतिक गतिविधियों को विकसित करने के लिए सही मंच प्रदान किया है।
यह लिखते हुवे मेरे ह्रदय में जो भाव है वो मै यहाँ परिभासित करने में असमर्थ हूँ।
बनारस बुनकरी और हथकरघा उद्योग में सबसे आगे रहा है.
नरेंद्र मोदी जी जो २०१४ से भारत के प्रधानमंत्री है , उनका संसदीय क्षेत्र काशी ही है , तो उन्होंने वाराणसी में व्यापार और वाण्जिय के प्रोत्साहन के लिए अनेको कदम उठाये है।
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| सारनाथ: बौद्ध स्थल |
“Banaras is older than history, older than tradition, older even than legend and looks twice as old as all of them put together”- Mark Twain
और BHU बनारस हिन्दू यूनिवर्सिटी कैसे भूल गए , यहां का पिया मिलम चौराहा और मधुबन पार्क तो इश्क़ फरमाने के लिए प्रसिद्द है।
यह वर्ष २०१५ में भारत में नंबर एक विश्वविद्यालय था, वैज्ञानिक आइंस्टीन अमेरिका महान वैज्ञानिक अल्बर्ट आइंस्टाइन अपने देशवापसजाने से पहले अपने प्रारंभिक दिनों में यहां पढ़ाना चाहता था ,उन्होंने पंडित मालवीय जी को एक पत्र भी लिखा लेकिन किसी भी तरह से उन्हें समय पर यह नहीं मिला। भौतिक विज्ञानं के महान ज्ञानी नील्स बोहर ने 1962 में भौतिकी विभाग में अतिथि व्याख्यान लिया। भारत के स्वतंत्रता संघर्ष में भारत छोड़ो आंदोलन और नागरिक अवज्ञा आंदोलन को बीएचयू के छात्रों द्वारा भारी समर्थन दिया गया था और कक्षाएं इन दिनों के दौरान बंद थीं। अब आप बीएचयू के आसपास हवा में राजनीति के पीछे कारण जानते हैं।
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| बनारस हिन्दू विश्वविद्यालय परिसर |
अब आते है काशी के कोतवाल के बारे में तो ऐसी प्रसिद्धि और मत है कि उनकी अनुमति के बिना कोई भी काशी (वाराणसी) में नहीं रह सकता है।
बनारस में अपना कार्यभार सँभालने से अहले कमिश्नर ,डीएम, आईजी या कोई भी अधिकारी हो, सबसे पहले कालभैरव मंदिर जाते है , क्योकि वह काशी के संरक्षक है।
काशी के कोतवाल भगवान कालभैरव मृत्यु के प्रतिक भगवान शिव का भयानक रूप है।
काशी में ऐसी कई चीजें हैं जो आश्चर्यजनक है पृथ्वी पर सबसे पुराना निवास स्थान, भारत की आध्यात्मिक राजधानी,विश्व का सबसे का पवित्र शहर, ज्ञान और सीखने का शहर ..और सबसे अच्छी चीज़ यहां की संस्कृति है , एक ऐसी संस्कृति जो लोगो को आपस में प्यार से जोड़े रहती है , यहां हर काम भाईचारे और आपसी सद्भाव से होता है ,
वाराणसी में अपना कदम रखते ही आप स्थानीय संस्कृति से प्रभावित होंगे और एक चीज़ है हो आप जीवनपर्यन्त नहीं भूलेंगे वो है घाट पर बिताये गए पल ,चाहे सुबह हो या शाम, सुबह – ए – बनारस तो सुप्रसिद्ध है परन्तु शाम को मनमोहक आरती हर किसी का दिल जीत लेती है.
आमतौर पर जब भी मै बनारस जाता हू , अपनी शाम गंगा किनारे ही गुजारता हू , मुझे नहीं पता कि मुझे वहां इतनी शांति क्यों महसूस होती है , ये मेरा कुछ अनुभव है जो मैंने आपके साथ साझा किया है।
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| एक शाम बनारस के नाम |
काशी वह जगह है जहां आप अपने जीवन की सच्चाई को बहुत ही आसानी से पा सकते है।
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| सुकून के पल |
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| नंबर वन यारी : छायाचित्र २०१३ की यादो से |
Raghavendra Singh 
