I am sitting on a swing. I have to use my body parts to swing it. I may take help from others but I have to rely on myself for control. Others’ intentions may be hidden negatively. It may be hazardous to me. If others intend to add enjoyment to my swinging, I may have satisfactorily responded to my control. My life is mine. It begins with me. I have to have control over it. At the same time, I have to interact with others. I have to react to others’ views and thoughts. These interactions and reactions are like two wheels controlling my life. These may be situational and intentional. Then comes the role of the mood of individuals. I think mood plays a great role on either side. The mood has psychological inferences controlling the contents of life.
I am sitting at the end of a see-saw. I am touching the ground. I am in need of someone heavier than me to lift me. I think my ego, attitudes and all bad qualities are heavier and instigate me to understand myself above all. I lose my arrogance and adopt humbleness to keep myself in a balanced position touching the ground. These qualities are my controller in my sailing the boat of life in this judgemental world. I know that I am not ready to sacrifice my life but I have to acknowledge others for situational compromise to avoid untimely devastation. The slow rise in a balanced manner may make life colourful with self-made senses.
I have seen wavy movement on the serene water surfaces when a thin piece of stone is thrown to glide on it. Waves may not last for long due to deep water’s effectiveness. The depth always matters. No turmoil may deviate from targets. Others may be like stones. But inner strength matters in everyone’s life. Patience in all weather is important.
Life is like a swing. Life is like a game of see-saw. Emotions are silent in everyone’s hearts like deep water bodies. Others matter a lot in life to know the existence of inner emotions. Others may not be ignored in life. They are important in one’s life. Others streamline the way of life in society. Others give momentum in life.
The awakening of internal strengths is essential for social and professional lives. That is not alone possible. Others are essentially required. Relationships with others not only rescue us from many psychological problems but also generate problems. In such cases, experience and analytical power are required. Here, inner strength plays a role. If it is positive, happiness prevails. Otherwise, loneliness or sorrow takes over to give way to negativity.
Influences of others are substantially observed in beauty competitions around the world. God has not made standards for beauty measurements and selections. He has given natural beauty to every creature without any type of distinction. But all norms in concern to beauty for males and females are fixed by humans for contests at various platforms. Though it is not the act of God, humans have made their rules. The arrival of its basis and reasons are not known. This has a psychological influence. We should be thankful to members of the jury that they do not give heed to skin colour or region or religion what we see elsewhere mainly in case of social developments or human rights or shelter or in assisting or at different stages concerning humanity. Everywhere others influence from outside with predefined and predetermined intentions of the business. We may witness the rat race for a beautiful appearance in the name of zero figure and satiating the norms of assigned beauty. This is affecting the world over the increasing market of beauty products. We forget that natural beauty may not be ignored at the end of the day and we are changing food habits weakening our bodies. We are inviting many diseases due to the lack of proper nutrients in our diet. Because of such psychological influences, beauty has been judgemental and lacking originality in many cases. These are happening because of others. Others have developed a concept of beauty in society and have enforced it in a concerted manner. Such examples may be found in every walk of life in one or another form, only because of others.
Profession determines our attitudes and defines our behaviours. But the demand for every profession is to be useful to others.
Others are important but with due consideration should get a place in life to develop inner strength and generate happiness for self and humanity.
Pain
I am learning about my pain.
I remember the pain given by you all.
But –
Some pains are invited.
Some pains are inevitable.
Some pains are jealous.
Some pains are treacherous.
Some pains are sweet.
Some pains like love are lovely.
Some pains give God’s gift.
Some pains are God-gifted.
Depth of pain matters.
Effect of pain charges.
The outcome of pain influences.
My collected pains are my treasure.
They give lessons.
They show paths.
They reflect life’s journey.
They are teachers.
They may be supporting.
They may be creative.
They may be reactions.
Pains are realities.
Pains invoke efforts.
Pains should not be ignored.
Pains are important aspects.
Pains may not be forgotten.
Pains may not be loved.
Pains may not be hated.
Pains should be dealt with.
Love erodes pain.
Love is prayer.
Love grows.
Love is dynamic stagnation.
For you
For you-
My thoughts have indulged me into
thinking.
My thinking has changed into
persuasion.
My persuasion has converted into
attraction.
My attraction has flourished into
affection.
My affection has grown into
love.
My love has thrown me into
dreams.
My dreams have submerged me into
You.
Now –
I hold fire in hand.
I dare to fire my wills.
I care to fire my wits.
I share to quench my thirst.
I shrug to avoid deviation.
Only you are in my memory.
I am in self analysis with you.
I have forgotten myself.
I have been streamlined.
I have seen entirety.
I have relationships with sacrifice.
I have relationships with reliability.
I have relationships with submission.
I have relationships with liberation.
I have relationships with you only.
I have attachments.
My soul is yours.
My body is your attire.
My life is your gift.
You are my –
Destiny.
Devotion.
Destination.
My almighty-
Your love is my guide for life.
I have overcome the insecurity.
Warnings
I think that warning of any kind has two types of benefits. One is obvious and the other remains concealed. Both are interrelated and go hand in hand. The obvious one is always loud and attracts the utmost attention to reap the benefits. But the concealed benefits have long-term continuity as repercussions.
There are many kinds of warnings present for humans. Some of them are because of nature. Nature gives warnings in many forms in the world. Natural warnings may be through a change in the activities of its creatures or a change in the normal course of natural processes usually witnessed on a regular basis. If we analyze nature’s warnings, we may conclude that barring a few uncontrolled processes, most of the warnings are because of human activities. The best examples may be climate change and environmental conditions in the world. The ultimate result of such warnings may be the extinction of life from the earth.
Human-made warnings are very interesting. They are made by humans after long analysis, experience and correlation of several reasons. At the same time, they are turned futile and detrimental to human life, ignoring the harmful bearing for the sake of pleasure. We, for example, may consider nature to ignore the warning printed on cigarette packets or tobacco products. For them, smoking is not injurious to health and chewing tobacco does not cause cancer. Such warnings are useless because these items give a short time convenience to satiate nerves. Habits overlook dangers. Eyes remain open but closed.
I think that it is human nature to ignore the warnings, though they take a toll on life. We repeatedly do the same things everywhere and face problems. While driving, we ignore warnings written for our safety.
Warnings, barring obvious benefits, have concealed benefits for humans in the interest of the family, society, nation and the world. These benefits may be both physical and fiscal. Following those warnings, we may utilise resources to make life more comfortable and progressive.
I think that we take warnings as challenges or thrillers. We ignore the warning of heights and depths. It should not be commercialised or for whimsical reasons.
I think that it is inherent to take a chance on warnings. Spiritually, we have done it from the very beginning of the human race by ignoring the warning given to the first man and woman not to eat an apple. Now it is said that an apple a day keeps the doctor away though the same apple is the root cause of all problems. May God help us.
Darkness
In the darkness,
Ears become alert.
Eyes open to imaginations,
Send signals to the brain.
Fear emerges.
Silence kills.
Darkness is better.
Darkness is sweeter.
Darkness teaches.
Darkness creates.
Darkness begets.
Darkness hides.
Darkness absorbs.
Darkness is pure.
Darkness is a way.
Darkness has light.
Darkness has dawn.
Darkness follows dusk.
Darkness invites us to sink.
Darkness instigates to explore.
Darkness wishes to be only one.
Darkness eradicates distinctions.
Close your eyes,
Darkness will appear.
Open your mind,
Darkness will disappear.
Alert yourself,
Darkness will be subdued.
Come together,
Darkness will be shared.
Help others,
Darkness will be shattered.
Compromise to serve.
Promise to be better.
Fight from self to enlighten.
Darkness will be withstood.
Knowledge will empower.
Darkness has hidden treasure.
Everyone’s shadow is in the darkness.
The universe is in the darkness.
Do not ignore darkness.
It has dormancy but known and unknown creativities.
Nothing changes
When there is election,
There will be lobbying.
When there is lobbying,
There will be bullying.
When there is bullying
There will be trolling.
When there is trolling,
There will be prosecution,
When there is prosecution,
There will be repercussions.
When there are repercussions,
There will be memes.
When there are memes,
There will be memories.
When there are memories,
There will be stories.
When there are stories,
There will be history.
When there is history,
There will be many twists.
When there are twists,
There will be many interpretations.
When there are interpretations,
Their history will be written.
When there is written history
There will be impacts.
When there are impacts,
There will be repetitions.
When there are repetitions,
There will be no change.
Finally, history will be written,
Interpreted,
Manipulated
With new fervour
And new spices.
Nothing changes
With time.
There is no waiting time in nature.
Geography may change.
Movement
I think that movement is the innate quality in nature. Whatever knowledge we have acquired is because of this eminent feature. We know that the whole universe is not static and it is changing every moment. Its main outcome is the earth and its location in the universe, along with many subsidiaries capable of making the origin of life possible on her lap. When we talk of life, it also starts through movement from invisible to visible creatures.
This movement has played a vital role everywhere. I have enjoyed movement in childhood in clouds. Their changing shapes with mobility instil many thoughts about life and the world. Clouds are also not permanent. They bring water for existence and sustainability of life on earth. Our lives are meant to follow the same principles for earth. Here, we may face many questions on forgetting our duties towards earth. We are the questioners, and nature is replying in her style of calamities, disasters, and extinctions of creatures from time to time.
Earth, our home, moves both ways by rotation and revolution at the same time for our sustainability. We are neglecting her. We are deserting this planet by cutting trees for making our nests. Earth is weeping, and birds and animals are moving in our dwellings. We are missing the link of interdependence and jeopardising the existence of all creatures. This is a kind of our movement. We move ahead first and think of later for redressal to stop its result.
We may cite many types of movements in the universe. Whatever a movement may be but it looks nice when it follows discipline. When it crosses the threshold, it creates havoc.
In the case of humans, movement has different stories at different stages and times. There are many types of movements in humans. There are movements from the brain to many parts of the body. A stage of childhood remains static in humans. But brain moves and thinks. When a human starts moving, the brain plays a vital role in controlling activities. Assumptions and imaginations are among key factors in human activities. Slowly but continuously, due to progressive attitudes, human movements are affecting many types of other movements in nature. In fact, their movements are deteriorating nature and interrupting in natural cycles. Because of those movements in humans, many civilisations flourished and perished.
Still, nothing is normal, but movements are going on with both normal and abnormal changes. Change is a movement. We may think of any kind of change but with movement. Movement is an intrinsic element in creation and destruction in nature and the universe. Movements basically exchange forms in many ways. Any movement is continuity. It should be controlled.
We should not think of only movements changing regimes and other issues against odds.
Search
Do you know me? Who am I? I think you are an intruder, that’s why you don’t know me. Ones questions do not belong to him or her because they are not new to everyone staying in this world. Similar questions are being asked by outsiders since time immemorial. Why? We all are outsiders.
I have the same features as he has. I have the same skin. I have a difference in nature. My behaviour may be different because of my bringing up. I am cruel to myself. I am kind to others. I am losing to the unseen. I know that you only try to know others but you don’t know your real self. Here I am also like you. I am wandering in search of myself. I think you may be a medium. You may be a path shower. I have gathered a plethora of knowledge with several questions but missing the real one related to self and truth. This search is making me a stranger in the world of one creator. My question is existing and his questions are persistently hammering and strengthening my quest. We all are ignorant. All questions will continue. We may touch the pain but the truth is to be practised and realised.
We always accept someone on the familiar’s list after procreation. For rest, we pick and choose as per our convenience to fit into the esteemed systems of necessities. However, when we face deviation in line of benefits, we have a policy of discarding in the name of discipline. This discipline has given me the tool of choice. This discipline even gives narrow space to restrictions.
The fact is that no one is meant permanently to others. Everyone has an independent entity and identity. The only relationship has a prevalence for worldly affairs. However, peace is to be searched through them.
The search never ends. Search has a series of different relationships. Search is a solution to any problem. Any finding in search may lead to peace or otherwise.
Happy New Year
Our needs are not changing.
Honour, respect, responsibility, and emotions are at places.
Nature’s energy needs channelling.
Situations are always challenging.
We will succeed through –
Cooperation,
Competition,
Constructive attempts,
Well wishes.
I wish all my friends a very Happy New Year-2026.
Mine is for all
I have belief in my own thoughts – a faith.
I do not have a hangover.
I am not superstitious.
I love and worship.
I worship the Sun.
A source of energy and life.
I worship trees.
I worship animals.
I worship nature.
Responsible for our origin.
Taking care of our continuity and sustainability.
I respect and accept their roles.
But I am not superstitious.
Mine is for all.
We have increasing knowledge.
We have questions.
Questions for reasons.
Questions for not to demean others.
Questions for not to prove ridiculous others.
Questions for not to boast of self only.
Mine is for all.
It is progressive.
It is dynamic.
It is flexible.
It is accommodative.
It is flowing.
It thinks for the welfare of the world.
It hails roles of all entities of universe.
It counts the importance of all relationships,
Whether human-made or natural.
I live with it.
But I am not superstitious.
Mine is for all.
It is a way of life.
It has passion.
It has compassion.
It has tolerance.
It has exploration in detail for truths of life,
For humanity.
I do not feel insecure.
Because I am not harmful to others.
Mine is for all.
It has options.
It has one and many.
It makes many to one.
It has recognition.
It has celebrations.
It has zeal and zest.
I enjoy my faith.
But I am not superstitious.
Mine is for all.
It has science in festivals.
It prepares for natural changes.
It has facts and incidents.
It has a vision and mission.
It teaches us conservation of all.
I adore life with my faith.
But I am not superstitious.
Mine is for all.
It is just not a preacher.
It is acceptor also.
It accepts changes.
It prepares for changes.
It gives way to others.
It is not a competitor.
It is a facilitator.
It is not rigid.
It has branches like a big tree.
It has diversion.
It has liberties.
It has continuity.
But it does not make fun of others.
I live with my faith.
But I am not superstitious.
Mine is for all,
Mine is for love and peace,
In behaviours,
In thinking,
In nature,
In conclusion,
In every creature.
It has no discrimination.
It has no colour vision.
It has one family.