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I recently read a very well written book, Seeking Shelter by Jeff Hobbs, the story of a woman who found herself and her children homeless for a time. And at a time in her journey to find a home and stability, she was led to a place in LA called Door of Hope. The book also shared the journey of a woman who was once homeless, finding help from Door of Hope, and she eventually ended up working there, helping others to get off the path of being homeless.

I decided I wanted to learn more about Door of Hope and was impressed at what I found on their website. It is much more than just a shelter. They offer therapy, help to find employment, and the search for a hopefully permanent residence. And staff also follow up with “graduates”, offering help in many ways to stay safe, secure and provided for. So I decided to send a small donation, very impressed with their ways of helping those we often think of as hopeless.

Well imagine my surprise when I get a phone call from Wendi at Door of Hope, thanking me for my donation and that’s all, just thanks, not asking for anything more. I told her how I discovered this wonderful place and turns out she is one of the people talked of in the book, the one who now works there. And she was so happy that to hear how reading this book led me to help in my way, telling me that the author hoped it would make a difference. And how brave for all those who told their stories, helping to wipe away any judgments that we might have.

The thing that I’m reminded of in all of this is that so often, it’s the seemingly little things we do in life that make the biggest difference. A kind word, a smile, sharing what we can to help others goes such a long way in bringing more love and kindness to this world

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It’s hard here in this place when we no longer have with us all that we cherish, be it people or items of a material nature. Grief is not just about the death of a loved one but can also be about the loss of something precious to us. And that needs to be recognized and respected.

As I’ve been following the sad unfolding of the recent wildfires in the LA area, I’m starting to notice a recurring theme from those so adversely affected. Yes the loss of lives certainly cuts deep and yes losing one’s home and all it held, material or otherwise, is incredibly tragic. But what I hear from quite a few Angelenos is perhaps the hardest thing to lose is the community, the neighbors, the neighborhood itself.

The emptiness of what was once a thriving community, full of familiar faces and places, is a hurt that will be slow in healing. And how will that be rebuilt? The sad reality is that of monumental change, that it might not be quite the same, in fact it may be very different from what was. Those of us watching from the outside tend to focus on the brick and mortar rebuild, but there is an emotional component of rebuilding a neighborhood that can’t be overlooked.

As humans we are strong, and history points to events of devastation and destruction where fortitude rebuilt what was taken down. The people who have lost so much because of these fires will come together in a different form of community, one where people work together to rebuild that sense of home. And those of us watching from afar can send what we will, in donations, in blessings, in trust that they will be strong enough to recreate joy once again.

A poem to start the week

When I first started writing in earnest, I started off with poems. Some rhyme, some don’t. And I realized that they could be exactly as they flowed from me. And they also became a kind of healing as well as sharing some wisdoms I started to gain along the way. One of the most important concepts I have learned that helps me to stay in a better place is this one, and I hope it helps you too.

Saving Grace

Present moment, saving grace

For me it is a sacred place

The past no longer haunts my mind

And what’s ahead I’ve yet to find

This brings a peace beyond compare

When thoughts stay here instead of there

My soul knows where it longs to be

The place of Now, a place so free

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Cedar Lake shoreline, Annandale, Minnesota

I loved your book!

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One of my favorite activities is reading and when I have a good book, life is great! It also makes me want to share with others the good books I’ve read but my book reading family and friends have somewhat different reading tastes than myself. And that’s perfect, something for everyone. Now there is the sharing that is the book club but that just didn’t work well for me. Having to make my way through too many books I really didn’t enjoy was tedious and reading for me needs to be enjoyable! I could also post reviews online in some fashion but there are so many reviews out there. So I found another way to share a good book.

I have discovered that many authors not only have social media sites these days but some still go the more “old fashioned” route of a website. That’s perfect for me, I’m not on any type of social media but hey I’ve got email. So if at all possible I will write a short email message to an author who has written a book I really loved. And if offered, I sign up for any newsletters they may have also.

And how fun when I get a response and more times than not, I do! Especially with up and coming authors who may have only a debut novel under their writing belt, but many times a debut work is really quite good. I like to feel that they appreciate hearing from their readers and every response I’ve received thus far has been very happy and grateful.

Now most of the books I read are from female authors, but I recently read a really good book by a male author, Jeff Zentner, who wrote a book titled Colton Gentry’s Third Act. I loved it! I’ll admit I was a bit stereotypical, would a man write back to my praise of his book? Well of course, how judgmental of me to think otherwise. I received a very nice and grateful reply from Mr. Zentner, who is at work on another book I look forward to reading.

It’s always fun to share with others the joys that we find in our lives, and now I find my best way to share the joy in a book that I loved.

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As a card carrying member of the Baby Boomer generation, I waver between what was in younger years and what is now, in regard to aspects of technology and how it has changed our lives. Those who are generations following us “boomers” have a natural feel for all the tech gadgets and social media. For them it is second nature. I recall my own children on computers in kindergarten, yikes is what I thought at the time.

But I must say that has turned out to be a good yikes, and all of that tech stuff has helped us to connect and live easier. I for one enjoy the ease of online shopping, and Zoom meetings with groups I participate in allow people from all over the world to join in, pretty cool.

I feel I can safely say that the majority of people in my generation have come to find their way with phones and tablets and computers, but it has been a learning process, sometimes met with frustrations. But hey, I think we’ve got a handle on it now, less help from kids and even grandkids.

But here’s something I’ve noticed as of late. In many of the books I read or things I watch, there is a marked presence of characters using cell phones, tablets or computers. These items seem to be important props if you will in the storylines. And in books I find that often a good share of dialogue between characters is written as text messaging. I’ll admit at first reading text messages in a novel felt a bit odd, but I’ve come to accept it and at times enjoy it as part of the story.

And so it goes, our changing world. As one who is part of an older generation I intend to stay current and not be a grumpy old person about “new fangled gadgets”. Instead I discover that all these tech tools are not meant to overwhelm me but rather help me enjoy my golden years even more.

A New Word

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Oh how I love words, and I recently learned a new word, Protopia. It is a word coined not many years back by a man named Kevin Kelly, a co-founder of Wired magazine. This word relates to a way of being in human society that comes from small thoughtful steps that really help to best anchor better ways of being. Yet from what I understand, it does not denote perfection across the board but is steeped in energies of optimism, hope and trust that as humans we can make the changes needed that benefit all of us.

This concept of Protopia seems to me to be a perfect example of Aristotle’s concept of the Golden Mean, that balance in life of moderation and thoughtful ways. In relation to Protopia, the scales of the balance would achieve that Golden Mean as much as possible.

But if we tip the scales too far in one direction, we may have the aspect of Utopia, a world where everything is perfectly in place, utter perfection. This is what we call the realm of Heaven, one that is really not meant to be in place for humans in this earthly realm.

Now tip the scales in the extreme of the other direction and we have Dystopia, a world of utter chaos. This is the favorite world of our drama spinning, all hope is lost ego, whirling about in endless circles that are the worst of human behaviors. One might call this Hell on earth.

Of course my idealistic, optimistic, rose colored glasses self really likes this idea of Protopia, what a great concept and all that it can create! But my impulsive impatient side says oh, this might take too long. Yet better ways of being don’t happen overnight, if we are truly striving to make these ways of being become second nature. “Patience attains all it strives for”, words from a passage by St. Teresa of Avila.

Is this the perfect solution to all of society’s current ills? Not sure that I want to hand it all over to Protopia but it sure sounds better than Dystopia or even Utopia and maybe we should give it a try.

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sunrise at the lake

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A Minnesota lake by my home, ice free on 12/29/2023

It’s such a cliche, talking about the weather whenever there seems to be a lack of topics to discuss. But those of us who have lived many decades in Minnesota just can’t seem to stop talking about the weather from this past winter. Christmas came and went, snow free and temperatures relatively pleasant for winter here. But then it carried on, no snow, unseasonably warm weather, trees budding ahead of schedule. Yet there’s more to it than just an topsy-turvy weather report just about every day. Here in the upper Midwest, winter activities are welcomed with open arms, as well as a source of income for many. It was sad to walk by the local outdoor hockey rink with no ice save for a couple of weeks. And ice fishing tournaments and events got cancelled left and right, my son-in-law and grandsons not very happy campers. And this was the scenario in other states that count on snow and cold in the winter months to provide skiing, snowmobiling and other winter activities.

In a broader sense, the imbalances in our climate affect many other aspects of life here. In the midst of wildfires, record rainfall, and patterns of storms that seem to play out over and over, this touches our homes, our lives we have created in places we love, and cultural ways also.

Another sector of life here on Earth being affected by climate change is agriculture. I’ve taken great notice of certain foods that have gone up in price when I grocery shop. When I research the reasons for these food prices soaring, it often harks back to some weather event that either ruined a crop or is throwing a wrench in the continued production of whatever food item it may be.

And some places on Earth are dealing with water supplies that are drying up or becoming unusable due to increased salinity, factors that can be traced back to the effects of climate change. This also ties into water that is needed for agriculture, once more a factor that increases our food prices and availability.

So what to do? How do we right the imbalances that are playing out in our climate? There are some actions of adaptation that can and are being put into place, but those actions are really just a kind of bandaid. And talk of geoengineering schemes seems to be the quick fix so we can carry on with life as we know it. But that’s the problem, life as we know it needs to change. The continued use of fossil fuels, agriculture being practiced as it has been for decades, deforestation, these and other ways of being will need to be revised if we want a more pleasant, abundant, and healthy world to live in.

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In my never ending quest for good books, I recently discovered that the well known music producer, Rick Rubin, has written a book entitled The Creative Act: A Way Of Being. My assumptions about the content is that it would be all about his journey in the land of music, as a music producer and maybe some stories about all the artists that he has worked with. Well, not quite that at all, as I started to read what I found was more the telling of his spiritual journey, and sharing the wisdoms he has gained along the way.

And who would have thought that someone so steeped in the very down to earth world of the music industry would have such wise words to share about living an enlightened life? My misguided judgments about those deemed “authorities” on such topics went right out the window, as I found myself relating to and resonating with the whole of this book. So much that I ended up buying my own copy and returning the library book I had borrowed.

I applaud Rick Rubin for being brave enough to publicly share his journey, and all he has gained from “waking up” to what is beyond our human selves. In being who he is, well known, respected and having worked in music of many genres, he just might have the advantage to reach through to those who would otherwise not read a work such as this.

It just goes to show that our spiritual teachers can be anyone! A book about living from higher consciousness does not have to be written by only those we might label as spiritual “gurus”. We can all be spiritual gurus and isn’t that what we should be striving for? Not perfection but being so much better. And in that sense, this book helps to show how we can better tap into the creative selves that we all are, letting go of any misguided notions that creativity has a strict definition, it truly doesn’t as Rick Rubin so wisely shares with us. We are all amazing creative beings…

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I recently read a good book, entitled A World Without Ice by Henry Pollack. The subject matter was just as the title says, imagining a world without ice due to the fast and furious melting of the Earth’s polar regions. Will it come to that, a world without ice?

It’s hard to say if our world will come to that, even with the predictive abilities of advanced climate modeling. It has happened before on Earth, a time of no frozen regions like we have now. But this occurred many thousands, even millions of years ago. And the difference between those eras of ice age shifting to ice free is the evolution of those changes took place very slowly and without any human influence. But now we see a rapid change in the polar regions that is artificially taking place, not the slower natural course it would normally be.

For most of us who live many miles from the poles, those frozen places seem quite inert and not a concern. But as I learned from this book, the Arctic and Antarctic regions play a very important and significant role in the balance of life of Earth in a healthy way for all of us, not just humans either. Those important polar effects range from how our climate is all over the Earth, to the way that ocean currents are meant to help balance things, to the important balance and flow of our atmosphere.

So maybe it’s time for us humans to wake up and pay more attention to the extreme importance of ice at the poles, because a world without ice would be a world we don’t want to or maybe could not even inhabit.

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A winter scene in Minnesota

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In this world of so much stuff out there, I try not to get pulled into buying this or that next great thing. But after careful research, opinions from others and consideration, I am now the proud owner of many colorful and comfortable Bombas socks.

Now this is not a promo for their product, as much as I love these socks. But rather a story about some great customer service and very great mission statement. You see, for every Bombas item purchased, this company pays it forward and donates the same item to a non-profit. I’ll admit, that swayed my decision to purchase these yes, rather costly socks.

And I recently had a chance to test out their replacement policy, a no matter what happened we will replace your item. So after doing laundry one day and finding only one yellow sock, let’s see if they walk their talk. And they do! I wrote about my dilemma and was happily and quickly sent a pair of replacement socks, wow!

Well the other day as I put on a pair of pants, out pops the missing yellow sock, of course! And in my mailbox was the brand new replacement pair, hmmm, what to do? Do I keep an extra pair of socks I really don’t need?

No, I decided in that moment to follow the Bombas example and pay it forward. Our local coffee shop has a donation box for items that go to young people needing a bit of help, new clothing, toiletries, that kind of stuff. So I shared and payed it forward and now I once more have a complete pair of bright and beautiful yellow Bombas once more. And hopefully some lovely young person will enjoy their pair of socks as much as I do.

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