9th Child…My walk

U be the judge……… December 17, 2008

Once upon a tym in the land of the Tutsi there lived a gal, her name was Batamuriza she grew up to be such an adorable young lady, not far away from where she lived there lived a young man, his name was Mupenzi.

The two grew up to be real friends, Batamuriza wanted more than friendship but Mupenzi wasn’t havin any of it maybe coz he knew she adored him too much and assumed she would always be there wen he need her or wen he wanted to take things to the next level.

As tym went on the two of them grew apart once in awhile Mupenzi would send an email and Batamuliza would reply, she went on to Uni and he went on to start his on business……She had moved on and found herself a man who seemed to love her more than she had ever imagined. She and Babycakes were happy till they started openin up abt their past. He told her all he thot she needed to know and she in return told him abt Mupenzi and how she still had a soft spot for him but could never have him the fact he had been a round with many gals and she suspected that he had probably been with her lil’ sis…….

Tym goes by wen u r in love……so one day they meet Mupenzi and Batamuriza was happy to see him only that she had forgotten wat she had told Babycakes(the soft spot and all…..). Babycakes decides to move abroad and tym comes for Bata to go visit…..in her note book she had a couple of phone numbers and Mupenzi’s was the only male number she had put down. That nyt Babycakes would ask her if she and Mupenzi had ever been together to which she said no…”i liked him but he never liked me in that way and besides i think he’s been wit my lil sis” he didn’t push it further but he was mad as can be…….the relationship was strained even wen she told him nothin ever happened between the two of them……

Batamuliza and Babycakes continued in their relationship until Mupenzi got wind of the fact she was seein some guy and started makin trouble for her………he happened to have friends who knew Babycakes so he startin spreadin rumors that he and Batamuriza had slept together. First tym Babycakes heard abt it he told her and ofcourse she thot he was tryin to get her to confess to the act to which she said nothin had ever happened…..2nd tym same thing.

The third tym was wat got Babycakes pissed coz this gal seemed not to take him serious……a good friend of his this tym was the one who brought the rumor so in his mind he was now sure it had happened. He confronts her and she still denies it and she swears on a few graves……..he’s so mad that he tells her if its not true how come she’s never confronted her so called friend abt it…to which she replies “there was no need for me to do that coz i know nothin happened”………..NEEDLESS to say Babycakes is very possessive. He said to her “its one thing to spread rumors but its another for some guy to be out there disrespectin me and my relationship……..Better do somethin abt it and i hope its the last tym i hear of it or we r goin to ve a major problem up in here”.

So my question is how do u prove a rumor is wrong………..go after the person spreadin it (won’t that cause mo problems u being in touch with the person?).

We are all responsible/accountable for our actions BUT we are not prisoners of our past. What i did yesterday does not necessarily define who i’ll be tomorrow even tho it may have an effect on me.