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Psycho-Emotional Support Team at UNIMAS December 28, 2014

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Hello everyone,

How are you? I reckon it’s not too late to wish my dearly Christian friends a very Merry Christmas.

I was thinking to write earlier, but due to the flooding, I have been involving in Psycho-Emotional Support Team for students. Though Kuching or Sarawak doesn’t affect directly, but psychologically, emotionally and mentally, do effect. Esp for the students who are originally from the effected states especially from Pahang, Kelantan, and Terengganu. It is not easy for any human beings on earth to be apart from loved ones, especially our parents and siblings. Students’ final exams are just around the corner! I guess you can imagine the symptoms or signs of depression, anxiety, stress, panic attack that may lead to physical problems such as sleep problem, heart problem..u name them.

This is part of crisis intervention. I know our part at university is tiny but we hope we can ease a bit of our students’ worriness and anxiety. We have came out with a flowchart for counselors and counseling session. If you are interested, please contact me personally? I tried to copy and paste here, unfortunately, I was unable. 🙂

Just this afternoon, another world’s sad news- Air Asia from Indonesia was found missing. Oh Lord! Please forgive us for our wrongdoings. Give us the greatest strength and patience to the family members.

Oh Lord! Please guide us to the right path. Please protect us, Ya Allah! In this situation. Please ease our ways to search for Your blessing.

Amin yarabala’lamin..

All right guys..write more later. Please take care of yourself. Drink clean and more water. Please see counselor if you have abnormal signs or psychological symptoms.

Don’t forget to take care for our children and teenagers 😉 They need us!

Remember..love from me ~ Emma xx 🙂

Cameron Highlands~ My First Trip July 20, 2011

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Hello my bloggers 🙂

How are you doing?  I am feeling ‘zombi’ as still knackered from my Cameron Highlands trip.  I got home before 9 last night.   I did enjoy myself and honestly, my mind was really free. I didn’t think about my works at all.  The fresh air, the sun, the morning, the green, the mountain, the waterfall, the company…Praise to God for giving me this opportunity for me to witness the miracle of His creations!  I told my friends, I definitely come back and stay there for at least 3 days. 

I don’t like to rush when I am on my holiday 🙂   For instance, on the first day, after a long journey, I prefer to stay in. Enjoy my hotel room and the service.  Enjoy the luxurious time.  then go for dinner. hopefully to have a different cuisine from the city and relax.  Have a lot of mocktails, listen to live music 🙂  That’s normally my first night.  A romantic one, I’d say 😉

Then after well-rested, the next day then, I like to explore the area and sight seeing.  Try this and that!  🙂  The next day, I am ready to go home. Not in the morning, but later in the afternoon.  That’s me!  It would be nice if my company is great! 

I don’t like to tolerate with stressful company..  My purpose to go for holiday is to relax, anti stress, anti conflich, anti dilemma, anti etc…hehehehe.. 🙂  If happened to be in this group, I think it’s better for me to go by myself!  But one thing I know, I don’t like to be alone anymore when I am on my holiday.  I don’t like to eat alone and bring my book.  I had enough and I enjoyed the moments.   Don’t get me wrong- I love my privacy.  But this time, at the age of 33, I want to be with someone 🙂 

Anyway, my trip to Cameron was great. Esp the waterfall.  I loved it so much.  I almost drowned but I swam back!  I know how to swim, but I am afraid. I need to face my fear of water and I did.  But still need to improve myself in the water 😉 The water was great! 

So, that’s a recap of my trip.  Now, I am in Tanjung Malim, Perak.  I have a paper presentation at Universiti Pendidikan Sultan Idris.  I am thinking to stay here until Friday.  I am really really exhausted from the driving 😉  I hope to have a good sleep tonight and rest well. 

All right then, take care and have a great evening ahead.  Will update you with my life.  Pray for my safety, my phd journey, and my life.  thank you and God bless!

Love ~ Emma xoxo.   

 

 

Peace, Love & Interlok April 10, 2011

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Good evening my bloggers! 😉

How are you?  This is my second column for today;)  I am not sure whether I mentioned you about I got this book- Interlok (Interlock) in my previous blog.  Anyway, I finally got this book from MPH, Alamanda last Thursday afternoon. I was eager to read this book so much. When I tried first to find this book before, it was sold out! I was pretty frustrated though.  This book did ‘sparked’ our politic in Malaysia.   It was a big issue back in January this year. 

This book, to me, is brilliant!  While reading it, I was moved and I could imagine the ‘situation’ back then (in 1930-1940s) in Penisula Malaysia.  Back then, there were only native people which was the Malays.  The Chinese and Indian people came from the own mainland to work here.  To me, the author has written the book beautifully. 

The first part in this book that I read about the Malay family.  I was really upset after I finished reading it.   I don’t know whether this is ‘the Malay’ way of thinking and that’s what going on in the real world now.  I don’t like people say Malay people this and that by other race.  Same goes with the Chin Huat’s family and the Maniam family.    Every family has their own way of life and belief.  How people perceive something and belief what important to them is really forced by the situation at that time.  Who to blame? 

Let’s put in this way.. try not to point our fingers to others.  No need for us to find other weaknesses while we hardly to see our own weaknesses.  The worst thing is we know our weaknesses but we don’t want to change it, but hide it!  That’s so sickening!  Really.. To me, these people are hypocrete.  They cover their weaknesses by sacrificing others.  How sad is that? 

I’d prefer to go back to the question: “Why are we here in this world?”   My next question will be, “What’s the main purpose for us to live?”  and the last question (may be), “How are you going to live and die in peace?”  Please answer this question without considering our negative feelings. 

My dear bloggers, like I said before, I like win-win situation.  We are here not for a long time.  If you think you can live until 90 and that’s long, you are wrong.  What’s the point if we could live to 90 or 100, but no happiness or peace in our life?  Anyway, what I am trying to say here is.. please don’t judge book by its cover.  I wonder out there, how many of us read the book- Interlok before we decided to get upset after we heard the news?  How many of us here understand the content and the purpose of the book?  

Yes, I do admit. The stories are really reflected to our races’ weaknesses, and also reflected the strength of each race.  We need to take the good lessons, not the other round, right?  That’s what we should do.  Psychologically, why do we have to dwell in some negative feeling and thought when we just know little about something?  Don’t you think it’s a waste? 

I have my own thoughts after read this book.  Now, my theory is getting stronger- when someone feels insecure, there are many reasons.  Four reasons that I can give you are jealousy, greediness, and selfishness.  Ironic, isn’t it?  Sorry guys, just want to share my thought and feeling about the effect of Interlok. Anyway what I meant here is when we have lack of information, and just listen to one side, and we easily believe what’s going on, without our own investigation, our judgment has influenced by other words, no matter whether how high or low our education is, we are in this ‘group’.  God creates us with a great brain.  He gives us wisdom to analyze.  Have you heard how some people can influence others?  My advise to you is think first, before you act.  Definitely, we don’t want to regret in the future for what we had done today, right? Honestly to me, for those insecured people, they are actually want something that they cannot or hard to get what they want, so they need to create something.   No matter who we are, the most important is our intention.   It’s always personal matter.  Little number of people who will think of others’s sake first, then himself or herself. 

Oh my bloggers..I know this issue has passed.  But I am sure there are many unfinished businesses.  I hope we still have rationality in our life.  I want to live in peace. I want to live in happiness with good people around me.  Malaysia is a harmony country and one thing that I really treassured when I was in the overseas, I was grateful being a Malaysian woman because Malaysians respect each other although we have so many races and ethnics, but respect is important.  Doesn’t matter whether they curse you inside or behind your back (hopefully this won’t be happening though! But I know it’s happening!), as long as we respect each other..we are in a good position.  I want my next generation lives better than us now.  I want my next generation to proud of what we do today.  Today will be history for future.  It’s us to create our generation’s school of thought in the future. So, think now, what actually you want for yourself and your family and your future family? 

One thing I’d like to share.  The concept of 1Malaysia does work in the overseas.  Why? Because we don’t ‘see’ other Malaysians as Malay, Indian, or Chinese. We see ourselves as Malaysian.  When my friend asked my originality, they would think I was from China.  So, why can’t we see ‘this’ in our country? 

Let’s pray for our happy country and of course, pray to other countries that fight for their revolutions.  Please, no war!

Love is in the air.  Catch the love.  Treassure the love before love changes to hatred.. Oh Lord..please protect and guide us to the right path..amen… Love always ~ Emma xoxo.

p/s: I think this book is brilliant because it can trigger us to rethink what’s going on in our history.  Sometime we just forget 😉 

Cikgu’s favorite poem ;) Let’s read together (ahak..) November 10, 2009

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Good morning Malaysia, Good evening UK and America 😉

How are you guys doing today?  I am still working on my phobia paper work. Hope I can finish it by today.  This morning, I haven’t started my writing yet as I needed to do some tasks before sit down and focus.  Having a huge cup of coffee and a red bean bun.  Mom just called and asked how was I.  I am truly a princess – Princess Emma.  😀 

Checked my email and recieved an email from Cikgu in Florida.  She’s my truly friend who understands me and one of my friends who always advise and give me support.  I prefer a friend who can speak to me straight forward.   My brain hardly process information that has double meaning.  hahahah.. I am quite systematic. That’s why I need to learn how to be ‘cheecky’. hahahha 😀  Anyway, Cikgu has given me her favorite poem.  I’d love to share with you all. 

Robert Frost (1874–1963). Mountain Interval. 1920. 1.

The Road Not Taken

TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; 5

Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, 10

And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. 15

I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. 20

So, what do you think?  I read many times because I need to understand the message for each line 😉  

To cikgu, thank you for this poem.  Take care and I always miss you.  Hope to see you again one day.  This is my little poem for you, Cikgu: –

Though we apart by sea and time zone,

 and yet, we still have a piece of love to each other. 

Emma, Kota Samarahan.

XOXOXOOXOXOX

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