Our last hoo-rah of the summer was to San Antonio for our family vacation! Chance and I learned A LOT about parenting on this trip and we have already planned out our vacation next year, keeping in mind the lessons that the kids taught us.
Day One:
We learned that that the Snake Farm in New Braunfels has become 1. Much less scary than it was when I was growing up and 2. Home to baby cougars. So, we thought this would be an excellent first stop on our trip.
Unfortunately, while waiting for the baby cougars to come out, Cade was heckled and pecked by a chicken. My un-suppressed laughter did not help his hurt pride and pecked leg, and his mind was made up that the Snake Farm was a terrible place. The cougars were very cute and it was very interesting to watch them climb all over one of the workers before she gave them their breakfast of raw chunks of meat. Chance and I would have loved to have played with them!
The Snake Farm houses much more than snakes, and it was fun (for most of us) to see the peacocks, wolves, monkeys, lions, and more. The petting zoo included some very friendly goats, but both kids were very ready to move on by then. 45 minutes is not exactly the amount of time we planned on staying at a surprisingly-expensive place, but it was TIME TO GO.
Parenting lessons learned: Stay away from chickens. Do not laugh when your son gets attacked by a chicken.
After a somewhat successful lunch at Taco Cabana (love it when we don't branch out at all while on vacation), we headed to the Natural Bridge Wildlife Ranch. We've been here a couple of times before and it has been super fun. Since Annie was little and slept through most of the visit last time, we were just sure that the kids would love to go again. In hindsight, we kind of remember the kids telling us before we left that they were not interested in seeing the animals on the drive-thru, but we knew that we knew best, so we made the plans and bought the tickets anyway.
Well, we have never been to the drive-thru in the middle of the day in July. It was hot. It was crowded. The animals were about as energetic as we were, and we could not coax very many to come eat food from our car. Even the monkeys that performed acrobatics in their cage last time were just laying down.
We had a long talk with the kids when we got out of the car at the visitor center. Both of them were whining about heat, complaining about being in the car, and NOT displaying the amazing enthusiasm that we expected. I'm pretty sure Chance was very close to driving back to College Station! We needed an attitude adjustment for all of us, and things turned around when I called the hotel and learned that our room was ready early.
Parenting lessons learned: Listen to your kids when they voice opinions about things they are interested/ not interested in. Do not buy 4 bags of food for the drive-thru in the middle of the day in July. Do not buy the pricey field guide when you go through the drive thru in the middle of the day in July. Do not go to the drive thru in the middle of the day in July.
We got to our hotel quickly and the kids were completely entertained by exploring the hotel room and setting up their beds. We threw out our plans of going out to dinner in favor of spending time at the pool and ordering pizza for the kids. The hotel provided free hamburgers and drinks for the adults that night.
Parenting lessons learned: Request an early check-in. Do not make any stops on the way to the hotel. Stay in a hotel that gives each person/ couple their own sleeping space. Get to the hotel pool as quickly as possible. Do not make any plans after this.
We decided that night to listen more closely to the kids and honor (as best we could) their requests. Even as teachers, our time during the summer with our kids is not limitless, and we want all of us to have happy memories. And on the first day of vacation, those happy memories were made while swimming in a small pool and eating Dominos. It also does not hurt that we bought the kids ice cream and that the parents got free drinks. Late bedtimes but smiles on faces got us ready for the next day!
And now I'm going to honor a different kind of parenting lesson that I've learned... don't parent on too little sleep. I'll continue this post tomorrow!