Optimize parallel jest using jest metadata
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In !25104, jest is parallelized by simply splitting the test files evenly across CI nodes.
We could optimize this further by using jest's original `TestSequencer` which takes into account metadata from past tests to determine how tests are ordered.
To do this, we need to:
- [ ] cache and combine metadata from jest jobs
- [ ] use `TestSequencer`'s sort in the custom sequencer `parallel_ci_sequencer.js`
- [ ] ensure that **no test files** fall through the crack between ci nodes due to the allocation logic
More context: https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/25104#note_290010970
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