The ancient army of gay lovers

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In the fourth century BC, a fearsome army named the Sacred Band of Thebes was formed, and it was made up entirely of gay couples.

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Lawmakers in countries across the world have been banning LGBT+ people from their militaries for more than a century, from America’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and trans military ban, to the UK’s ban on LGBT+ people in the armed forces, which was only lifted in 2000.

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While the US insisted during the era of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” that LGBT+ service members “would create an unacceptable risk to the high standards of morale, good order, discipline and unit cohesion that are the essence of military capability”, history tells a very different story.

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The Sacred Band of Thebes was formed in Ancient Greece by a general named Gorgidas in 378 BC. In forming the 300-strong army, Gorgidas took an unusual approach; he personally chose each member based on merit and ability, rather than social status, and only selected gay couples. What at first seems like a strange decision makes perfect sense when explained by Plato.

“Even just a few such men, fighting side by side, could conquer practically the entire human race,” he theorized. “For surely the last person a lover could bear to see him abandoning his post or surrendering his weapons would be his boyfriend—he would sooner die many times over!”

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Football player’s love for his boyfriend sparks joy ❤️

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Ignacio “Nacho” Lago, a winger with Argentine second-tier club Colón, is being commended for his courage after what appears to be an unusual ‘coming out’ moment in professional football.

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Professional men’s football in Argentina appears to have its first out player after a resurfaced video clip went viral on social media. Ignacio “Nacho” Lago is a 23-year-old winger for Club Atlético Colón, the biggest team in the northeastern city of Santa Fe. Colón are currently joint top of the second-tier Primera Nacional league.

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After Lago scored the final goal in the team’s 3-0 home win over San Miguel on Saturday, he became the subject of heightened interest from fans. An in-depth interview, which he gave to a local radio station last year, formed part of that focus. During his chat with the show’s hosts, Lago reacts warmly to a surprise video message from his boyfriend.

🔴⚫ El desahogo de Nacho Lago tras la lesión y el cariño del hincha | Sangre y Luto 🔴⚫

The interview clip has since gone viral on social media, alongside images of the couple from Lago’s social media accounts, including an “I love you” post. Several Argentine politicians and prominent journalists are among the many well-wishers praising Lago for his courage and recognizing the moment’s significance. South America has never previously had an active out gay or bi player in men’s pro football. Colón attract crowds of around 30,000 to their home games.

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Viktor Orbán, Hungary’s far-right authoritarian prime minister, has been ousted by the opposition leader Péter Magyar in a landslide victory.

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U.S. Supreme Court rules in favour of conversion ‘therapy’ torture

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The Supreme Court issued its ruling in Chiles v. Salazar this week, the conversion therapy ban case. In the 8-1 decision, the Court found that therapists’ speech is subject to First Amendment protections and that laws that curtail that speech have to be examined with strict scrutiny.

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The majority, in an opinion written by Justice Neil Gorsuch, sent the case back to lower courts to reexamine it in light of this ruling, and now the bar for the conversion therapy ban to be found constitutional is much higher. This decision will likely lead to conversion therapy bans in 27 states being overturned.

Supreme Court sides with therapist challenging Colorado ban on conversion therapy

LGBTQ+ advocates denounced the ruling. “The Supreme Court’s decision to treat the dangerous practice of conversion therapy as constitutionally protected speech is a tragic step backward for our country that will put young lives at risk,” said Trevor Project CEO Jaymes Black in a statement.

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“These efforts, no matter what proponents call them, no matter what any court says, are still proven to cause lasting psychological harm. LGBTQ+ youth subjected to conversion therapy are more than twice as likely to attempt suicide compared to their peers. That’s why protections have been enacted in more than 20 states, and are supported by every major medical and mental health association in the country. To LGBTQ+ young people everywhere, please know this: Regardless of today’s decision, or any other headlines you read, you belong. You are worthy, you are loved, and there is nothing wrong with being who you are.”

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Coach at top-flight football club comes out as gay

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Christian Dobrick, a member of the coaching staff at German Bundesliga football club St Pauli, has come out publicly as gay. The 29-year-old has been the coach of the Under-19 team at the Hamburg club since June 2025.

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Dobrick grew up in the town of Flensburg, in northern Germany near the border with Denmark, and previously coached at Holstein Kiel and TSG Hoffenheim in his homeland, and Red Bull Salzburg in Austria.

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St. Pauli and its fans are known for being progressive and queer-friendly

It’s the first time that a coach from a Bundesliga men’s club has spoken in the media about being a gay man, with Dobrick sharing his truth in a sit-down interview with the German TV outlets NTV and RTL. The journalists involved worked for around three months with the coach to help him tell his story.

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Anti-masturbation app exposed sensitive user data

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According to 404 Media, which was tipped by an independent researcher, a misconfiguration in an app development platform is the root cause of a leak of highly sensitive information from the users of an “anti-masturbation” app, including their age, masturbation habits, emotional struggles, and the kinds of pornography they were watching.

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According to the researcher, the issue allowed anyone who could authenticate as a user to potentially access the backend database, where user information for more than 600,000 users at the time was stored, of which 100,000 were identified as minors.

The app, Quittr, claims to be the “#1 Porn Addiction App to Quit Porn Forever” on its website. It apparently blocks porn websites on one’s device, as well as tracks one’s “abstinence” from porn. Quittr also has community features like groups, a “panic button” for “emergency nofap help” and even an AI therapist. (Experts warn against using AI for therapy.)

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“Porn addiction” is a myth that has no basis in science. While porn-viewing can be compulsive, like other behaviors, research suggests that perceived porn addiction predicted distress over actual porn use itself. Yet, the idea of “porn addiction” persists in the U.S., which lacks comprehensive sex education requirements in many states; only 37 percent of states require sex education to be medically accurate, according to Boston University.

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Survey shows homophobia is still a very common sentiment in the US

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Thirty-nine percent of U.S. adults still believe homosexuality is “morally unacceptable,” according to a new report from the Pew Research Center published last week.

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Pew researchers surveyed a representative sample of 3,605 adults in the U.S. last March, as part of a study about moral attitudes in 25 different countries, according to the report. Respondents were asked whether they believed certain behaviors — including homosexuality — were morally acceptable, unacceptable, or not a moral issue. (In U.S. surveys, the word “unacceptable” was changed to “wrong.”)

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Within the U.S. sample, 39% viewed being gay as morally wrong. That placed the U.S. ninth among all countries surveyed by rate of anti-gay sentiment, between Israel (47%) and Hungary (34%). There was a slight net shift upward compared to Pew research from 2013, which found 37% of adults in the U.S. believed homosexuality was immoral.

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A Republican lawmaker has once again revived a bid to overturn same-sex marriage protections in the US, claiming it threatens the stability of “society as a whole”.

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Joey Mills talks about his kinky career path ahead

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“Honestly, I’ve just always been kinky,” says Joey Mills, famed gay adult film star in productions from Helix Studios and men.com and notorious twink.

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At the age of 27 years old though, Mills is getting on a bit. He is, in the words of his, erm, mother, approaching “twink death”, whereby a young, slim, hairless gay man is no longer all three of those things in blissful conjunction. It’s a sort of no-mans-land for queer men who look 23, but are actually 32, and have responded by calling the novel, pitiful sproutings on their chin a “beard”.

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To be fair to him, on Zoom from his home in St. Louis in Missouri where he grew up, Mills’ beard looks admirable. As does the Grindr logo-shaped award behind him – it’s easily twice the size of his head – which he won in December after being named the ‘Porn Star of the Year’ by the dating app’s users.

Clearly, twink Mills still has his fans. But this year, he’s going from twinky to kinky. In May, he will turn 28, and mark 10 years since he entered the gay adult industry as a fresh-faced 18-year-old. 2021, the halfway point, “was probably like the peak of my career so far,” he says.

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That year, he won his fourth Gay VN Award (he has six in total). “I don’t want to say it’s been downhill [since then] but it’s just been, like, plateau. You can’t do much better than the elevator video unfortunately,” he says wryly, referencing a very viral, very NSFW video of him from 2019, donning a sapphire suit and getting rimmed while trapped in a lift.

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9% of Americans identify as queer

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Data from 2025 telephone interviews conducted by Gallup with more than 13,000 adults in the United States revealed that around 9% of Americans identify within the LGBTQ+ community.

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The percentage remains unchanged from the year before, but remains more than double of 2012, the first year Gallup measured the LGBTQ+ population. Between 2021 and 2023, Gallup recorded readings of roughly 7%.

The results followed respondents being asked whether they identify as heterosexual, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or something else. A majority of 86% said they are heterosexual, while 9% said they identified with one of the LGBTQ+ identities. 5% gave no response. Notably almost a quarter (23%) of Americans aged between 18 and 29 identify as LGBTQ+.

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The largest share of LGBTQ+ adults said they are bisexual, representing about 5% of the entire US adult population. Meanwhile, 17% of LGBTQ+ adults identify as gay, 16% as lesbian and 12% as transgender, each representing between one and two percent of all US adults.

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