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How psychology’s classic studies misled us about the self

Milgram, Zimbardo and recent priming studies suggested we’re highly malleable. They underestimated how stable we really are

by Jack W Klein & William B Swann

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‘Heroes work here’: why I quit being an ER nurse

Spitting, swearing regulars at a Chicago ER opened my mind. Then came the COVID-19 deniers

by Anita Lambert

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When giving up teaches you more than persevering ever could

Grit is all well and good, but sometimes abandoning your goals can be crucial to discovering who you are

by Mario I Juarez-Garcia

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On Japan’s Shinkansen trains, pork buns split reality in two

by Yusuke Fujioka

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Everyone says they have anxiety. Clinical anxiety is different

by India Sturgis

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Why romantic relationships matter more to men than to women

by Iris Wahring

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How to overcome task paralysis

If you have ADHD or you’re stressed, tired and stuck, goal management training can help you get started and keep going

by Joe Wilner

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How to handle jealous feelings

Jealousy can be a useful, insightful emotion – if you manage it well. Get curious about your jealousy to get a grip on it

by Carla Marie Manly

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The bookshelf builder

Ellah Wakatama is editor, agent, publisher and mentor, all rolled into one. Her mission: to put the work of gifted Black writers into the literary canon

by Carey Baraka

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How to enjoy food without feeling guilty about it

Through mindful eating and a shift in mindset, you can alleviate unwarranted negative feelings and embrace the joy of food

by Vivienne Lewis

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A sense of humour – even a dark one – is a moral virtue

A sense of humour is a moral virtue that can help people flourish, even in dire conditions that are conducive to unhappiness

by Mark Alfano & Mandi Astola

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Why we see faces in unexpected places, and what it says about us

Video by Mary McGillivray

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Don’t reduce emotions to biology – they’re contingent and emergent

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What life in Denmark shows about the power of emotional safety

A deep sense of ease – what the Danes call ‘tryg’ – is a collective responsibility that allows individuals to flourish

by Ruth Aharoni Nielsen

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How to overcome task paralysis

If you have ADHD or you’re stressed, tired and stuck, goal management training can help you get started and keep going

by Joe Wilner

A pink bicycle and a red bycycle leaning against each over on a bridge. Two people sit below on a stone ledge by the water, their legs visible.
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Why romantic relationships matter more to men than to women

For too long, men were told to be self-sufficient. The research shows they’re more likely to thrive in a loving couple

by Iris Wahring

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Want to be a lifelong learner? Don’t go it alone

The history of autodidacticism shows that learning has always been social. The right relationships open intellectual horizons

by Celine Nguyen

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Why moving on after a breakup makes you a better person

They say time heals a broken heart. But do the hard work of moving on, and you do more than heal – you improve yourself

by Matthew Barnfield

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How to handle jealous feelings

Jealousy can be a useful, insightful emotion – if you manage it well. Get curious about your jealousy to get a grip on it

by Carla Marie Manly

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What is hidden in the photographs we keep of each other?

Returning to family photo albums in my mother’s apartment in Japan, I was struck by the stories the images didn’t tell

by Sawa Kurotani

Two people on wide stone steps outside a large building adorned with garlands and a distant statue.

When giving up teaches you more than persevering ever could

Grit is all well and good, but sometimes abandoning your goals can be crucial to discovering who you are

by Mario I Juarez-Garcia

Explore: Symbols and myth

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Jung’s archetypes are a mirror that shows who and what we are

by Hugh McGovern

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A Navajo creation story illustrates why humans must forge their own path

Directed by Dallin Penman

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A Bronze Age pendant links lives centuries apart in this wondrous short

Directed by Samantha Moore

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How luxury brands engineer desire with behavioural economics

by Charlotte Wren