Make ArrayFormatterFactory Send + Sync and add a test

[tschwarzinger]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Closes (dyn ArrayFormatterFactory + 'static) can't be safely shared between threads #8875 .

Ping @alamb

Rationale for this change

FormatOptions is no longer Send and Sync.

What changes are included in this PR?

• Require Send + Sync for ArrayFormatterFactory
• Assertion that FormatOptions is Send + Sync

Are these changes tested?

• Yes

Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes, should fix the compiler error. I could compile DataFusion with the following patch adapted from the issue:

## Temporary arrow-rs patch until 57.1.0 is released

[patch.crates-io]
arrow = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-array = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-buffer = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-cast = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-data = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-ipc = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-schema = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-select = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-string = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-ord = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
arrow-flight = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }
parquet = { git = "https://github.com/tobixdev/arrow-rs.git", branch = "custom-formatters" }

[alamb]

Thank you @tobixdev 🙏

[alamb]

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