[EPIC] Statistics Cache Improvements

[alamb]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

DataFusion currently includes a statistics cache for Parquet files (so that statistics don't have to be re-created when the same file is read multiple times)

This epic lists several improvements to the statistics cache infrastructure

• Bug: statistics not collected automatically upon creation of ListingTable #18952
• Add a way to show the contents of the FileStatisticsCache in datafusion-cli #18953
• Add limit to DefaultFileStatisticsCache #19052

[alamb]

I am going to claim success here and close it down. We can do additional items as follow on work