Mirabel Centre Records 10,000 Survivors

Lagos, Nigeria — February 3rd, 2026

Mirabel Centre, Nigeria’s first Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC), has recorded a significant milestone: 10,000 survivors of rape and sexual violence have sought and received support at the Centre since its inception in 2013.

This figure represents more than a number. It reflects 10,000 stories of courage; 10,000 survivors chose to speak, seek care, and begin the process of healing, often in the face of fear, stigma, and systemic barriers.

Since opening its doors, Mirabel Centre has provided free and comprehensive medical, psychosocial, forensic, and legal support to survivors of sexual violence, regardless of age, gender, or background. For many survivors, Mirabel Centre has been the first safe space where they were believed, protected, and treated with dignity.

“Reaching 10,000 survivors is both a moment of impact and a moment of reflection,” said Itoro Eze-Anaba, Founder of Mirabel Centre. “It tells us that survivors trust us. But it also reminds us of the scale of sexual violence in our society and how much more work remains.”

Nigeria continues to face a deeply concerning prevalence of sexual and gender-based violence. Reported cases represent only a fraction of reality, as many survivors remain silent due to fear, cultural stigma, lack of access to services, or distrust in the justice system.

Behind every statistic is a human cost: disrupted childhoods, trauma carried into adulthood, lost opportunities, and communities grappling with cycles of harm. The fact that 10,000 survivors have come forward underscores both the magnitude of the problem and the critical need for survivor-centered services.

Impact, Access, and the Road Ahead

Mirabel Centre’s work goes beyond crisis response. Through survivor care, prevention education, professional training, and advocacy, the Centre is working to build systems that respond faster, treat survivors better, and hold perpetrators accountable.

Yet the demand for services continues to grow. Survivors still face:

• Delays in accessing medical and forensic care
• Limited awareness of support services
• Insufficient survivor-focused justice outcomes
• Deep-rooted societal attitudes that silence victims

This milestone reinforces the urgent need for stronger policies, sustained funding, cross-sector collaboration, and cultural change to prevent sexual violence and support survivors long after their first report.

A Call to Collective Action

Mirabel Centre calls on government institutions, healthcare providers, law enforcement agencies, community leaders, the private sector, and the public to treat sexual violence as the national emergency it is.

“Supporting survivors is not the responsibility of one organisation alone, it requires collective commitment to prevention, accountability, survivor care, and justice.

– Alexis Adelu Kawa-Sanya (Senior Program Officer, Partnership for Justice, Managers of Mirabel Centre).

As Mirabel Centre marks this milestone, it remains committed to its core mission: ensuring that every survivor who seeks help is met with compassion, professional care, and the opportunity to heal, while working tirelessly toward a future where such services are no longer needed.

About Mirabel Centre

Mirabel Centre is Nigeria’s first Sexual Assault Referral Centre, providing free medical, psychosocial, forensic, and legal support to survivors of sexual violence. The Centre also engages in prevention education, professional training, and advocacy to strengthen responses to sexual and gender-based violence nationwide.

Written by Boluwatife Fawole-Aderemi, Edited by Nancy-Olive Tamuno

It’s another February, the month of Love. Stores have pink and red heart-shaped chocolates displayed, flower shops with roses and special cards, and love is in the air. Valentine’s Day has long been a celebration of romance, passion, and affection. But beneath all these grand gestures and candlelit dinners is an important conversation that often gets overlooked, which is the role consent plays in relationships.

While Valentine’s Day is portrayed as a time for lovers, statistics show a darker reality. A study by the University of Calgary found that during holiday seasons, including Valentine’s Day, there is usually an increase in sexual and domestic violence incidents. In Nigeria, where cultural expectations around relationships and romance remain complex, discussions around consent are more critical than ever.

At the Mirabel Centre, between 2020-2024, we have noticed an increase in the number of survivors of sexual violence that we treat at the centre in February in comparison to other months of the year, and this reinforces the importance of the concept of consent.

Romance Without Pressure: The Truth About Consent

There’s usually an unspoken expectation around Valentine’s Day, the belief that expensive gifts and grand romantic gestures should be reciprocated with physical intimacy. This mindset fuels a dangerous narrative that a date night, gift or existing relationship automatically translates to giving consent. But it is important to always remember that consent is not implied. Consent is not a given, neither is it your birthright. It is freely given, enthusiastic, and temporary.

Understanding the concept of consent in a layman’s terms can give more perspective to it. Think of consent as simple as FRIES: 

Freely Given: Consent should never be forced, pressured, or manipulated. An expensive gift or sophisticated dinner date does not mean consent, nor do societal expectations mean anyone “owes” you intimacy.

Reversible: Consent is not permanent and can be withdrawn at any time, even if it was given before.

Informed: There must be full disclosure of all details before consent can be given. 

Enthusiastic: A “yes” should be clear, excited, and without hesitation. Silence, uncertainty, or reluctance is not consent.

Specific: Saying yes to a kiss or foreplay, for instance, does not mean saying yes to sex.

The Valentine’s Day Pressure and the Reality of Assault

Many people feel obligated to meet the expectations of Valentine’s Day, leading to situations where personal boundaries are compromised. This is very common among young couples due to many factors, including the media influence, for instance, media portraying persistence, coercion or emotional pressure as cute, societal factors like the “you owe me” mentality and much more. 

Creating a Culture of Consent

Changing our perception of love, sex, and relationships starts with changing the conversation. Here’s how we can promote healthy, respectful love this Valentine’s Day and beyond:

1. Normalise Asking for Consent: Consent is not optional, whether you find it sexy or not, normalise asking questions like “Can I kiss you?” “Can I touch you?” “Do you want to have sex with me?” 

2. Respect Boundaries, No Matter What: If someone says “no” or seems uncomfortable, it’s not an invitation to persuade them, it’s a boundary that should be honoured.

3. Educate Young People on Consent: Young people have a lot to learn about consent, and it is more important than ever to dismantle harmful beliefs about relationships and autonomy.

4. Challenge Harmful Valentine’s Day Culture: Call out media, movies, or personal interactions that romanticise toxic relationships, jealousy, or coercion as signs of love.

This year, let’s redefine love and make consent a part of every romantic gesture, every intimate moment, and every relationship we build. Because the best Valentine’s Day gift anyone can give is safety, respect, and the freedom to say “yes” or “no” without fear.

The Mirabel Centre marked its 9th anniversary on the 1st of July and our friends at the British High Commission hosted a reception in honour of the centre on the 5th of July, 2022. We are indeed grateful to the British High Commissioner, Catriona Laing and the team for this honour.

Photos from TikTok’s interactive workshop to educate NGOs and CSO on Tiktok’s approach to safety which was held on August 4, 2022.
The workshop was designed to establish collaboration between TikTok and NGOs to address key issues such as Sexual assault, GBV, Misinformation, Mental Health, Self Harm and Suicide and get them familiar with how TikTok works and the in-app safety tools available for users”

The Mirabel Centre is delighted to announce that HRH The Duchess of Cornwall has become the Centre’s first patron.

Founded in July 2013 by Itoro Eze-Anaba, the Mirabel Centre is Nigeria’s first Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC), providing succor and a safe place to survivors of rape and sexual assault. Survivors who have recently or in the past been sexually assaulted can access free post-incident support services at the Centre. In the last eight years, the Mirabel Centre has provided free medical and psychosocial support services to over 6,450 survivors (including persons with disabilities).

For several years, The Duchess of Cornwall has highlighted the work of domestic abuse and sexual assault charities in the UK and overseas in supporting victims and survivors, with the aim of breaking the taboo around the subject. Her Royal Highness has visited shelters and support centres around the world and in 2020 became Patron of the UK domestic abuse charity SafeLives. Her Royal Highness has attended round table discussions on domestic abuse in Australia in 2015, in New Zealand in 2019, and as part of the Women’s Forum at CHOGM in London in 2018. The Duchess visited Nigeria together with The Prince of Wales in 2018 when her engagements included joining a discussion hosted by the Women of the World Festival (WOW) saying, “Women get together to discuss things that matter to them so I think especially here in Nigeria it is a fantastic place to start.”

“I am delighted to become Patron of the Mirabel Centre in Lagos. It is a truly trailblazing organisation, supporting survivors of rape and sexual assault as they seek healing and justice. Their vital work means that women need no longer suffer in silence and I am deeply grateful to all Mirabel’s wonderful staff and volunteers”. – HRH The Duchess of Cornwall

In a statement, Mirabel Centre founder, Itoro Eze- Anaba, said: “it is an honour to welcome HRH The Duchess of Cornwall as our first Patron. We are pleased that the Duchess has agreed to be our patron. We have followed her work with charities working in the sexual and gender-based violence space and have seen how passionate and committed The Duchess is towards providing support for survivors.

“Indeed, this announcement is timely considering the devastating nature of sexual violence and the increased advocacy for survivor support services which has led to an increase in the number of survivors who require the services of the centre. The current COVID-19 pandemic has further revealed the endemic nature of sexual violence. We have seen a huge number of children and women coming forward to report cases of sexual assault and rape. Our youngest survivor is a 3-month-old baby and the oldest, an 80-year-old woman. We are confident that the support of The Duchess will make a difference.”

Speaking also, the UK’s High Commissioner to Nigeria, Catriona Laing CB said: “I am absolutely delighted that HRH The Duchess of Cornwall has agreed to become Patron of the Mirabel Centre in Lagos Nigeria. In this role, she will help showcase the essential work the Mirabel Centre does to support sufferers of sexual assault and domestic abuse. HRH The Duchess of Cornwall has been a long-standing supporter of women who have suffered from these crimes. Sexual and Gender Based Violence (SGBV) is a global epidemic ravaging all levels of society, and one of the most prevalent and devastating human rights violations. It cuts across all social, national, economic boundaries and, sadly, remains largely unreported due to the stigma and shame too often associated with survivors, and the impunity too often enjoyed by the perpetrators.

“The Mirabel Centre is the first of its kind to provide holistic and high quality psychosocial and medical services to these survivors in Nigeria, and this patronage will no doubt help to ensure safe and continued support to sexual assault survivors, particularly in the wake of the COVID-19 crisis. This will complement the UK Government’s other partnerships in Nigeria to tackle SGBV.”

Located in a modest two-room building within the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital in the heart of the city, the Centre is currently expanding its residence to make adequate room to serve survivors of sexual violence promptly.

Rape has become so pervasive in Nigeria that one would be forced to ask: Is there truly justice for victims? Do survivors get the support that they truly deserve?

About a week ago, Mirabel Centre, founder, Itoro Eze Anaba received a prestigious award from the Federal Ministry of Women Affairs; the award was in recognition of her tireless effort in fighting for justice for survivors, and seeking support for women, children and persons with disabilities. Itoro notes that whilst the activities and ceremony were on, her mind drifted to the young girl Ini Umoren who was brutally raped and murdered in Akwa Ibom State a few months ago.

According to Itoro: “As I listened to speech after speech, I kept remembering #justiceforhinyumoren, the young girl who was lured with the promise of a job, raped, murdered and buried in a shallow grave, a few kilometres from where I sat. As I scanned the faces in that large hall, I could not help but reflect on how we collectively failed Ini Umoren. I wondered who heard something, suspected something but kept quiet. I wondered who said something but was told to keep quiet, to mind her business, to forgive, and shuddered at our collective failure as a society to take action, to protect vulnerable ones. The youngest person to receive treatment for sexual abuse at Mirabel Centre is a 3 months old baby and the oldest is 80 years. Think about the number of people within that age bracket. I am safe when you are safe. It really is a collective responsibility.”

Ini’s attack was one of many attacks in the last 18 months. Unilorin undergraduate, Omowumi Olajide was raped and murdered in June 2021; last year, Uniben undergraduate, Uwa was raped and killed in church and Barakat was ganged raped and killed in her home. There are several other cases and the spate at which these crimes happen, can make anyone terrified.

According to Gender Advocate, Soyem Osakwe, rape and gender-based violence continue to go unchecked because: a large part of the society condones it and our laws do not serve as enough deterrent to offenders and others who might want to commit this crime. There is also the problem of she terms, “a long road to justice”. Take the case of 13-year-old Ochanya who was raped by two relatives and died of complications in 2018, the case is still in court and one of the suspects is still at large. In a video account before her demise, Ochanya gave a detailed account of how she had been abused several times by her guardian’s husband and son.

These are only a handful of cases. With the spate of kidnapping of school children in the North West and North Central, there is no telling just how many children have been sexually abused.

That is why we must raise our voices and call for stiffer punishment for rapists; because Rape cannot be our new normal.