Today, the feminist ballet romance novel of my dreams is out in the world. It’s Centre Stage meets Under the Tuscan Sun (but in Sydney), plus First Wives Club. It’s sweet, it’s serious, it’s hot, it’s funny, and it’s… published.
Someone asked me yesterday if I worry people will read my romance novels and make assumptions about my own sex life. All I can say is if that's how you're reading books, you should probably check Stephen King's basement before you wonder about my bedroom.
If you're on the phone with your boyfriend as he boards a flight from CID to Chicago right now, and he's debating you when you say you don't feel safe at his house, loud enough for me to hear 5 rows away ("why do you keep coming there, huh, answer me that")... break up with him.
a contemporary romance in which a normal woman accidentally picks "Viscountess" while booking her flight and has to play the part for her whole trip, hijinks and unrealistically hot royals ensue
Dump him. Find someone who listens when you say you don't feel safe. Listen to yourself when you don't feel safe.
And men, if you can't listen to your partner when they say they don't feel safe, you shouldn't have a partner.
The best thing you can do this International Women's Day is to realize that your fate is tied to that of trans women, and then figure out what you'll do to defend them against a state that's determined to wipe them out.
Iowa's ban allows an abortion after "cardiac activity" stops, ie. a miscarriage. As someone who's had two miscarriages, I call BS on that exception.
My D&C for a wanted pregnancy wasn't any more valid or morally acceptable than the D&C of someone who doesn't want to be pregnant.
Anti-abortion folks like to talk about how gruesome abortion is, how visceral and violent, but this is actually one of the most ghoulish, inhumane things I can imagine a person saying.
Laura Strietmann, Cincinnati Right to Life leader, on the 10-year-old girl who was raped and went to Indiana for an abortion:
"While a pregnancy might have been difficult on a 10-year-old body, a woman's body is designed to carry life."
OH State Rep. Miranda (D) shuts her down.
Don't really know how I ended up in a version of my life where I get to type this but: the woman who wrote Center Stage has read PAS DE DON'T and she loved it. So. That's. Yeah.
No, I love constantly refreshing Twitter on a Friday night to learn what rights I'll have tomorrow, it's great and a totally acceptable way for half the population to live
Hard to describe how it feels to read this matter of fact observation:
"The Finnish chef Kim Mikkola...said that fine dining, like diamonds, ballet and other elite pursuits, often has abuse built into it. 'Everything luxetarian is built on somebody's back; somebody has to pay.'"