I'm lazy and I think a woman should be readily attracted to me. If she's not I'm not going to bother her lol. I'm past asking women to let me be a part of their lives.
I only want to have kids after I've made good money and enjoyed that money for a while. I never want to feel like I sacrificed anything to be a parent.
Being a good/decent person will actually get you really far. It's the only way to build a solid community/support system of friends and family around you.