Pharaoh is the name of the throne. Ooni of Ife for example, the name of the seat is “Ooni of Ife”, which includes Ojaja II, Okunade Sijuade, these are their names, but when referring to them, you say “Ooni of Ife”
But with emotional intelligence, you'll know when to be sensitive or not... lack of emotional intelligence will cause you to be sensitive to things that hold nothing and have no effect whatsoever to you
Your second paragraph is toooo real, because one time with my guy, we were going through stuff when his babe came and asked him to do TikTok 🤣🤣
He went to do it and came back to the sitting room and said “see Wetin we dey face, see my babe dey ask me to do video” 😂