A lot of women do not see feminism as a protection of their personhood and autonomy. They see feminism as an attack on their desire to be partnered up.
When you tell them to protect their autonomy and personhood, they see it as you asking them not to marry.
That side chick - wife conversation is just very funny to me. Men have grouped us based on how they think we can fulfill their needs and managed to convince one party that they’re better than the other because they’re at home, with the ring and he introduces you as his wife
A memorable moment occurred at the Accra Conference Center last night during the GJA Awards when a Channel 1 TV award winner ascended the stage holding a placard that says, "Stop Galamsey Now!"
That’s how I told one cell leader that I want to go to church with my parents during vacation and resume CEYC when I reopen.
They told me to continue going to church with my parents if I want to end up like them. I still don’t understand that comment till today oh 🤣🤣🤣
That’s why they can’t wrap their head around the fact that there are feminist women who are happily married.
Because to them, marriage should come at the expense of your personhood and autonomy so how dare you put your autonomy before a man’s desire.
When you dissect this Madonna - Whore complex thing, at the end of the day, you realize that only the men are benefitting.
While you, a woman has tied your self worth to how a man perceives you. And judging another woman by how you think men will perceive her.
Sickening
The dating scene in Accra is wild. Someone can be so soft and gentle with you and you won’t even realize you’re getting played 😂. Till you put 2 and 2 together at dawn
Every year you people go to these shows and they waste your time
You come back to the tl to complain. Every single year. Birds learn faster than y'all.