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abiola
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abiola
@abxola
marketing strategist for your faves.
I Have Notes. youtu.be/9SRvQL-d_rM?si…
Joined July 2012
- Everyone is tired because individually we’re trying to do all the things that can only really be achieved by communal living
- “Men are not socialised to be good people”. Let’s actually talk about this, because this is itThere’s a TikTok compilation of how men treat women they don’t find attractive and honestly men are not socialized to be good people. There are intersections of colorism and fatphobia. honestly as a woman, what think men shouldn’t even factor in how you see yourself.
- “It’s like you’re not going to be satisfied until I’m in my Insta live crying with a glass of wine. Like you really want to see pain. Like I’m sorry, but you’re not going to get it from me.” — @MayaJamaMaya Jama expertly calls out the sexist reaction to her break-up buff.ly/2uMf7Xb
- I find men who default to debating or immediately being contrarian really bizarre. Like why can’t you have a normal conversation?
- I love people “who make everything deep”. My tribe. Yes let’s unpack, let’s debrief, let’s sit down, analyse and diagnose.
- I can’t believe we’ve normalised asking random people on the street invasive personal questions and then posting it for views.
- God change my story by the end of the year that’s all I humbly request
- People dont talk about how when you get to "highly competitive" corporate jobs, there's a HUGE intellectual anticlimax. All of that assessment centre, interview prep & straight As malarkey to go and be a shiny suit??? Wow. I was just like "is this it"????
- Peoples jobs give them a sense of identity far more than I thought bc why is your work title and company in your IG when your posts are all personal?
- do we seriously think clothes from certain brands are worth recycling when they’re already on life support when they arrive?
- I’m very comfortable with confrontation because I know how it pays off. Because no matter how hard you try to save face and sweep things under the rug, eventually it explodes. Always. And it's so much worse.
- You really have to define success for yourself in this life. Otherwise you’ll make purchases, choose aesthetics, careers, partners and put pressure on yourself in a way that leaves you even more unfulfilled
