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You can’t fix a relationship with someone who treats your reaction as the problem and their behavior as normal.
LaShonda 🌸
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LaShonda 🌸
@firstladyships
Triggering the internet one truth at a time, Unbothered. Unfiltered. Unapologetically real
Joined April 2010
- Virginity doesn’t make a woman valuable. Her mindset, morals, and actions do. Purity isn’t between her legs, it’s in how she lives.
- Manipulation is when someone blames you for how you reacted to their toxic behavior, instead of acknowledging the disrespect that triggered your reaction.
- Not every marriage is misery. Some men adore their wives, some women honor their husbands. Real love still exists, loud, loyal and rare.
- Nature doesn’t negotiate. You’re born male or female. Pretending otherwise isn’t freedom...it’s confusion.
- He didn’t argue. Didn’t plead. Didn’t lose control. He just saw the disrespect, Swallowed the silence, And disappeared without a trace. That’s how men really leave.
- Most women think men leave because of another woman. Truth is, men walk away when the peace is gone. Without peace, no man stays, no matter the love. Agree or disagree?
- Replying to @firstladyshipsA woman’s worth isn’t defined by her virginity. True value is in her character, how she treats others, and the life she builds. Purity is a lifestyle, not a status.
- Men don’t crave love the way women think. They crave respect. Disrespect kills love faster than distance ever could. Agree or disagree?
- If you’re 35 and single, don’t pretend you’re happy with it. That’s not confidence, it’s denial. Stop lying to yourself.
- Most men want to be chosen. Not needed, not used, but genuinely wanted. ❤️
- A lot of people don’t actually want a partner, they just want financial rescue. That’s why relationships feel like business deals.
- Unwise woman think a man's silence under disrespect is peace. Wise woman know it's the start of losing him.
