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imdatfeminist 🐆
@imdatfeminist
F*ck toxic relationships.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Dec 15, 2019
    If you catch yourself BEGGING someone for.....human decency? a response? time together? clarity? respect? some compassion? some kindness? You need to take a step back and realize that you're begging someone for the bare minimum. That's ridiculous and beneath you. Fuck that.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Mar 20, 2020
    Sis.... he’s quarantined and still isn’t texting you. He’s still not calling you. He’s still not taking THREE FUCKING SECONDS to reach out and let you know he cares about you in any way. I promise he isn’t cute, interesting or charismatic enough for you to be waiting like this.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Jun 16, 2023
    A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn’t deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go. That will NEVER be you again.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Nov 28, 2019
    If he brings out the “crazy bitch” in you..? Run. You will lose your sanity. Quicker than you thought. You will become an insecure, desperate, needy, devastated, pathetic version of yourself. Real quick. Run, very far. Trust connections that make you feel at ease, not on edge.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Nov 23, 2019
    Men are replaceable. That guy you can’t get over? You can find a new him. Easily. Men are everywhere. You can stand outside and throw a rock and it’ll hit a man. They’re replaceable so stop acting like that piece of shit dude is that only man out there. He’s not.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Oct 24, 2019
    Don’t unblock him. There’s no heartfelt apology coming. There’s no phone call with him pouring his heart out to you. You got to your breaking point and blocked him BECAUSE you fucking waited long enough. You waited for him to “change.” He didn’t and won’t. Don’t unblock him.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Apr 12, 2023
    It's crazy. I used to cry hard so over my ex. Cry with my whole body and soul. Over small things. His responses to me. His lack of response to me. When I felt confused about him, I'd sob. When I missed him, I'd weep. My body was physically rejecting him & I thought it was love.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Nov 17, 2019
    It’s not unrealistic to want a partner who adores you. It’s not unrealistic to want to be with someone who enhances your life, makes you feel special, safe and loved. Wanting someone to care about you and worship the ground you walk on? You deserve that. Don’t settle for less.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Apr 1, 2020
    “Boyfriends” are cancelled. Dating a boy is so 2019. In 2020, we’re interested in men with the emotional capacity to be compassionate and communicative. Manfriends.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Apr 5, 2023
    If your relationship doesn't make you feel loved, relaxed, and safe then it's not healthy for you. Your partner should remove stress from your life. NOT consistently add stress. Your partner should be your safe place. Not the root of your pain and fear and heartache. Know that.
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    Sep 29, 2019
    Chasing men is cancelled. CANCELLED! Ya heard me? It’s disgraceful. Disgusting. You’re a fucking goddess and you’re double texting this guy because why? why? He’s ignoring you ON PURPOSE because he knows he has nothing to offer you except the illusion of being busy.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Jun 24, 2023
    Stop torturing yourself by going back in your mind and doing a play by play of what happened, what was said, and what wasn’t. Just because things could’ve been different, that doesn’t mean they could’ve been better. It's time to move on. This is the sign that you're looking for.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Feb 29, 2020
    Remember this when seeking relationships: You’re looking for an equal, not a project. You’re looking for someone who takes care of themselves AND has the capacity to take care of you too. Someone on your level that you can respect & vice versa. Don’t fall in love with potential.
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    @imdatfeminist
    Jan 5, 2020
    Stop trying to understand why people have hurt you, and start accepting the fact that they’ve done it. They’ve betrayed you. They’ve disrespected you and their actions have said “fuck you.” Stop dwelling on why they did it and start moving on. It has to do with THEM, not you.