Ending a relationship with a narcissist is not like a regular breakup, people always ask victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse why can’t you just move on? Why can’t you get over it? Why are you still thinking about this person who treated you so bad who mentally abused you
Can we normalize saying:
“We weren’t compatible”
“We wanted different things out of life”
“We weren’t on the same wavelength”
“We didn’t communicate well.”
“Our priorities/values/interests didn’t align.”
“We were holding each other back.”
yall do not have the communication skills yall think yall have. saying something and then dodging another persons response is not communicating. it’s avoidant.