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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨

@notdebbyroar

lover • yearner • fairy • writer • thought daughter • demarginist • intersectional feminist • 🩷💜💙 • 50/50📚

neptune • 25 • they/she

debbyroar.wordpress.com

Born July 29

Joined September 2014

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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Jul 19, 2025
i read my piece titled “Auditions for The Perfect Victim” at @Ouida_Lagos open mic on thursday i hope that you watch this video, and that it gives you something to think about ❤️
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Jul 18, 2025
yesterday’s open mic was so so beautiful 🥹❤️ i got to perform my piece to a warm, lively audience, listen to amazing storytellers, poets & musicians, eat delicious puff puff, and be around cool people i’ll publish my piece on my blog, and perhaps post a video of my performance
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Jul 26, 2025
may lightning strike down all rapists & their apologists.
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Oct 12, 2025
this app will make you so reactionary that if you’re not careful, you too will start throwing nuance out the window and arguing in binaries, extremes & absolutes.
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Aug 10, 2025
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Sep 11, 2016
#IwillStandUpForNigeriaIF There is no need for the 'IF'. I will stand up for Nigeria no matter what. There is no condition, it's my country.
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Sep 23, 2025
stfu you biphobic piece of shit. stop trying to tie paedophilia & predatory behaviour to bisexuality & goth culture.
Looper Vandross
@shepardsounds
Sep 22, 2025
The D4VD situation really validating my disdain for these performative weirdo black goth bisexual vampire niggas
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
May 20, 2025
because it seems you people are losing the plot 🙏🏽
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Sep 6, 2025
i think more of us need to remember that feminists/progressives are disruptors to the norm. misogyny is the norm. classism is the norm. desirability politics is the norm. our activism is a disruption to the existing social order. we are literally breaking the rules. (a thread)
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Sep 16, 2025
under capitalism, NO work is empowering. all work is exploitative. that doesn’t mean that workers don’t deserve rights and protection.
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Aug 5, 2025
you can draw a straight line from purity culture to rape culture. this is why i get so upset when i see puritanical rhetoric. purity culture IS a tenet of rape culture.
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Jul 28, 2025
i think a lot of people attach their sense of self to the books, music, fashion, art, etc, that they like (myself included). so they internalise negative reviews and interpret them as personal attacks: “are you saying something is wrong with me because i enjoyed this? 😡”
foxygen
@foxypiano
Jul 28, 2025
i specifically look for negative reviews of film i liked. i want to know if there's possibly a reading i didn't attempt, a way of seeing of which i am deprived. it rather intellectually stimulates than revs up vitriol. to me it's a way of probing the limits of perception & biases
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Nov 7, 2025
yes, you have sexual agency. yes, you can choose to have or not have sex for a myriad of reasons. you may even choose to only have sex in committed relationships. however, the idea that sex *devalues* or *taints* you as a woman is purity culture 101. stop conflating the two.
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Nov 4, 2025
anddd this is why you shouldn’t get married, guys 🙂‍↔️ it’s not pre-marital if there’s no marriage 👍🏽
Amke.
@amukelani_02
Nov 3, 2025
sex before marriage is a sin btw.
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Mar 18, 2025
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ijebu/igbo barbie 🧚🏽‍♀️🌸✨
@notdebbyroar
Aug 15, 2025
you don’t just “leave” an abusive relationship. you ESCAPE an abusive relationship.
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