her ruined little princess dress βΉοΈ the kid was probably attending an event or simply playing princess like many little girls are supposed to be doing
if a female character is nice, she's "boring" or "plain"
if a female character is mean, you guys hate her
if a female character is somewhere in-between, you guys either don't care or hate her for being flawed
"you can still feel a little romantic attraction as aroace"
and
"an aroace person doesnt have to have romantic attraction at all"
are two statements that can coexist please get that in your brains