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Wes, the Dadliest Catch
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Wes, the Dadliest Catch
@wfenza
Loving husband & doting father. Host of @mindkillerpod. Relationship libertarian. Go birds. Date me! tinyurl.com/call-me-maybe
Collingswood, NJ
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Joined April 2009
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Dec 30, 2023
    Here's a list of my best threads. If you're new here, check it out
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Jul 28, 2025
    Replying to @bashu_thanks
    Oh yeah. It's an arbitration clause. Everyone has them, but courts keep invalidating them because they bury them in the terms of service, so now some places are announcing them loudly
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Jul 28, 2025
    Dating issue: how do you balance not looking desperate with showing your enthusiasm for a person? People say to keep an abundance mindset, but people aren't interchangeable and every individual is a unique good
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Aug 5, 2025
    I got a huge crush on a girl so I desperately pursued her for 9 months despite her having a boyfriend. They ended up breaking up and we've been together for 20 years
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Sep 11, 2024
    Exhibit A in why I hate school. This is from Roxie's preschool. They don't let the kids inside until 9am, so if they show up early, kids will often play on the playground right next to the entrance. This is now banned. The reason is "the morning transition time is very important
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Mar 19, 2025
    "Why aren't young people having sex?" Idk, maybe it's because we've declared being horny a crime?
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    E X X ➠A L E R T S
    @ExxAlerts
    Mar 18, 2025
    BREAKING: 🚨 Liberal influencer Harry Sisson busted in massive SNAPCHAT scandal, reportedly convinced 11 different women to send explicit photos of themselves including one that was a domestic abuse survivor. ↪️ The victims are now speaking out.
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Jul 28, 2025
    Replying to @wfenza
    It seems insulting if your attitude is "it's fine if this doesn't work out; I won't have any problem meeting people just as good as you." And often not true! When I meet someone I like, it's a special a precious thing. I wouldn't want to treat it like no big deal
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Nov 19, 2024
    Every TERF take is like "I hate trans women because I hate men, and trans women are kinda men." And every response is like "look we all hate men but trans women don't count"
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    @wfenza
    Feb 4, 2025
    oh no. Trace has fallen victim to the trap of every indie journalist who goes mainstream - he's starting his article with a human interest anecdote and not getting to the actual story until, in this case, paragraph 19. Sad to see it happen to one of our best
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    @tracewoodgrains
    Feb 4, 2025
    New article from me. I'm very proud of this one—it took dozens of interviews and extensive trawling of the historical record. It should provide everything people need to know about the FAA's hiring scandal and the people who fought to bring it to light. tracingwoodgrains.com/p/the-full-sto…
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Oct 8, 2025
    Replying to @Romy_Holland
    I'm convinced that >50% of therapists make their living by saying "wow, I'm so proud of you" 10x per session
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Sep 13, 2024
    When people say "tpot is right wing" they mean that tpot is overwhelmingly left-wing but tolerates right wingers, so there are a handful of them in the scene
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    Tim is GOING TO VIBECAMP ⛺️
    @MasterTimBlais
    Sep 13, 2024
    vaguely leftie tpot over here, just usually avoid politics posting i'd be like a teacher or something without government-funded university, instead i get to be an artist-entrepreneur abortion is fine immigration is good social conservatism can suck it k back to ✨no politics✨
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Feb 6, 2024
    To expand on this a bit, when you're in a long-term relationship, both parties go through a lot of change. Nobody is the same person they were ten years ago. Sometimes (often?) people grow apart. They go in different directions and end up no longer right for each other, even if
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Feb 5, 2024
    Replying to @Aella_Girl
    Maybe at the beginning of a relationship, but I don't think most people operate that way after 10 years
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Aug 5, 2025
    Replying to @StatisticUrban
    I mean is she pulling $1 mil?
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    Wes, the Dadliest Catch
    @wfenza
    Jul 27, 2024
    Me: I wonder why The Kids aren't having sex anymore The Kids:
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