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Nelly V
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Nelly V
@whenwehaveeyes
born honest to a lying man
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    Oct 11, 2024
    Patriarchy kills love.
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    May 11, 2025
    Unless you’re descended from pure aristocracy, your female ancestors worked harder than many men do today. Smarten up, you’re not a wilting flower.
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    Mar 16, 2025
    Part of why I speak out against the trad/far right/extreme pronatalist trend is that I was trad before there was even a buzzword for it. An 18 year old virgin, knew how to bake, sew, knit, preserve food, and raise farm animals. I altered my dress by hand to be “modest enough.”
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    Mar 16, 2025
    Replying to @whenwehaveeyes
    I wish that little bride had been given a better chance, more knowledge, and tools to escape the glue trap of patriarchy, but I was raised to fit into a tiny little box, rather than embrace my potential. It nearly cost me my life, and I’ll never again be quiet about the danger.
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    Oct 10, 2024
    Former tradwives like myself who resumed sex quickly after birth, got in shape, cooked from scratch, kept the home, and still were despised by their husbands, watching the postpartum sex “need” debate 👀
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    Jun 27, 2025
    Please don’t pimp your sophomore on X
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    Mar 16, 2025
    Replying to @TCSDisciple and @4Kadhd
    We were married for 10y. He experimented with my mental health as a means of “discipline” for my depression, and almost drove me to suicide. Our cult wasn’t directly affiliated with anything, but the closest approximation is IFB. Doug Wilson, Vision Forum, and such teachings
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    Nelly V
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    Nov 7, 2025
    PSA: a man will never intentionally seek out a poorly educated wife unless he wants the option to hurt her and/or their children with zero repercussions.
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    Nelly V
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    Dec 27, 2024
    Replying to @emilykmay
    The longer I am with a good man, the more I hate the bad ones.
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    Mar 17, 2025
    Replying to @remusrisnov
    I had showed a decent amount of promise in art and animal husbandry- would’ve liked to pursue secondary education or apprenticeship rather than starting to have babies as a teenager and becoming completely burnt out before my mid twenties.
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    Oct 11, 2024
    Replying to @saintcharlie33
    Men who want tradwives are shitburgers, so yes
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    May 11, 2025
    Replying to @AI8MyJob
    Lotta words when you could’ve just told the class that you’re historically illiterate and need a Snickers
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    May 18, 2025
    Replying to @fincherslay
    If only there was shorter, more concise word for water based cooking
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    Nelly V
    @whenwehaveeyes
    May 22, 2024
    Replying to @emilykmay
    Are they evangelicals? This sounds like evangelical shenanigans
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