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@yoadri_n
Professional writer. Semi-pro advice giver ๐Ÿ–ค๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿฝโ€๐Ÿ’ป๐Ÿ“–๐Ÿฆ‰โœ๐Ÿฝ. Want advice? View pinned tweet to get in touch.
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Born March 3, 1900
Joined January 2013
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    Jun 18
    And we have a date for this! Aug. 16! Sign up here!
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    Jun 10
    Twin cities folksโ€” join us for a quarterly Literary salon series at Strive Bookstore! First up: we are reading On Witness and Respair by the incomparable Jesmyn Ward. docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIโ€ฆ
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    May 28, 2020
    Two reminders: 1. murder is worse than rioting. 2. Rioting could be prevented if you stopped the murders.
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    @yoadri_n
    Aug 6, 2024
    The ticket canโ€™t just feel good it needs to do good. -free Palestine -invest in community rather than policing : schools, libraries, infrastructure (thatโ€™s failing btw), CHILDCARE
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    @yoadri_n
    Nov 11, 2025
    As someone dating in my late 30s I co-sign having deal breaker convos like kids early and also CANNOT believe women get painted as baby hungry, NO ONE is thirstier for babies than 30 something men ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ญ
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    Ashley Reese
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    Nov 11, 2025
    Replying to @offbeatorbit
    And honestly Iโ€™m surprised by how long some younger couples (like say 20s) wait to have frank conversations about this. I think thereโ€™s this impression among women who want kids that asking about that early makes you look baby hungry but man who gives a shit? Itโ€™s YOUR time.
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    @yoadri_n
    Dec 21, 2023
    Public goods cost. Thatโ€™s fine. They arenโ€™t businesses, they are investments in people and quality of life
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    The Minnesota Star Tribune
    @StarTribune
    Dec 20, 2023
    Minnesota program to provide free school meals for all kids is costing the state more than expected startribune.com/minnesota-progโ€ฆ
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    Nov 10, 2025
    The viral church thing obviously demonstrates the contradictions and hypocrisies in American Christianity but I think it also highlights another quiet barrier to supporting programs like snap which is the ILLUSION that there is more help out there than there is. Iโ€™ve heard people
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    @yoadri_n
    Feb 16, 2021
    Got my year end daycare statement. ๐Ÿ˜ญ just under $21,000.00 for my two kids this year. reminder that maternity leave and FREE universal childcare is a feminist issue, an equity issue, a racial and economic justice issue. not advocating for those is anti woman and anti child.
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    @yoadri_n
    Jan 15, 2024
    30+ folks, what is your best piece of professional advice?
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    Jan 26, 2024
    Lead is back, child labor is back, Coca Cola it is time for you to do the thing!!!!
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    @yoadri_n
    Oct 6, 2025
    Hardest co-sign of my life! Beyond being invasive, it gets in the way of your own ability to move on! Block people!
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    jourdain searles
    @judysquirrels
    Oct 6, 2025
    I donโ€™t know what any of my exes are doing. I donโ€™t know what any of my former friends are doing. and youโ€™re not supposed to! there was a time when you just never saw a person again. Iโ€™m nostalgic for those times. disappear like a ghost! woooo!
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    Apr 2, 2024
    I grew up around it too but for the safety of all on trains, itโ€™s important to make the distinction between feeling unsafe and actually being unsafe.
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    MollyPeonies
    @mollypeonies
    Apr 2, 2024
    A narrative I loathe is the shaming of folks who feel unsafe on the trains. As someone who grew up around addiction and who lost a sister to it, being in an enclosed space with drug use *feels* very unsafe. It is triggering, anxiety-inducing, and a reason I avoid the trains.
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    @yoadri_n
    Jun 13, 2025
    I feel this way and it informs the advice i give. Cheating is shitty interpersonal behavior but the way people want folks to lose jobs, etc over very common / private behavior is weird. Not to mention, cheating is hardly the only / worst interpersonal bad behavior so???
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    @yoadri_n
    Jun 20, 2022
    I think a lot of people hear capitalist criticism as โ€œI donโ€™t want you to be able to accumulate wealthโ€ and the reality is I donโ€™t want you to have to. Wealth hoarding is a tactic that isnโ€™t necessary where meeting needs and community care are prioritized.
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    @yoadri_n
    Apr 28, 2023
    The โ€œsheโ€™s crazy and just mad I donโ€™t want her anymoreโ€ framing is such a ๐Ÿšฉ. Itโ€™s so transparent I actually get alarmed when I hear men describe an ex this way even sans abuse accusations.
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