lib: make ALS default to AsyncContextFrame

[Qard]

I've marked AsyncContextFrame as stable and made it the default. With this we should see the substantial performance improvements to AsyncLocalStorage as the default case for users on future versions of Node.js. Getting more users on this will also help to identify if there are any perf outliers to tweak further.

I hope to land this in v24. I assume we would generally consider this change as major, but I'm happy to downgrade it to minor if we think it's safe to do so.

(Pushing from the train somewhere between Valencia and Barcelona! 🚅💨)

cc @nodejs/diagnostics APMs have had some time to try this out and there have been no further issues after the initial iteration. I'm taking this to mean it seems to be stable. If you disagree, please speak up.

cc @nodejs/electron-installer Note that this makes use of the ContinuationPreservedEmbedderData API which Chromium also makes use of. This likely means Electron will need to change to default to disabled due to this conflict. I believe it's possible for Electron to do some work on their end to enable layering embedder data providers. If anyone is interested in picking this up to support both please reach out, I'm happy to help however I can! 🙂

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lgtm

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