[After Jamil's had the chance to ask around, speak with Akira, and maybe ask Elsa a few questions... he braves asking Krivesk to walk somewhere with him. A quick one-on-one about something he NEVER imagined he'd be asking someone about.]
Hey.
[Jamil's shifting a little bit awkwardly, and then letting out a heavy sigh.]
... First things first, I'm not admitting anything. This is embarrassing enough already, so please spare me any teasing like I'm some teenager?
[Not that he's actually a fully grown man, but! Ugh, why is he overthinking even this much...]
My parents didn't actually give me any talk. The most they did was shove a book at me, and I learned from that and a lot paying attention to how classmates talked. And, where I'm from, I'm expected to marry some girl and make more future servants. Even a hint that I'm not strictly into the opposite sex would have been enough to ruin my family's reputation...
[He takes a heavy breath, adjusts his hood a little.]
So... point is, I know how to make babies. That's it.
[ There is a slightly amused look on his face at the first part of being asked not to tease him, but Krivesk does start to look more serious the longer Jamil talks. How his parents just shoved a book at him and expect him to make children rather than care about what Jamil actually wants.
He nods to a couple of rocks that are close to each other, taking a seat on one of them. ]
First of all, sex should be about the people you're interested in. No matter what sex or species they are. You could have casual or committed partners. If anyone gives you a hard time about that here, you tell me.
[ Before Zai, all he had were casual partners. ]
Sex between men is different between a man and a woman. When two men have sex, they will have anal sex. This is something that needs a bit of care before putting into practice.
[ He'll wait for Jamil to sit before continuing. ]
It is. You can coat your fingers in it and use it to help stretch your partner until he's ready to take your girth. Or he can do the same for you, depending on who is receiving. Start with one, and work your way up in numbers. Get them to relax by pleasuring him in other ways. Men still enjoy their nipples being played with or you can stroke his own penis or balls.
[ Foreplay works for everyone. ]
If you or your partner is or has been with other people, you'll want to use a condom - if diseases are something that either of you can spread. [ Krivesk is a vampire, so he's not worried about it. ] It does also help to not make a mess.
Men can be stimulated just through anal sex, by targeting the prostrate gland. Do you know your anatomy or should I draw it for you?
[ A serious question. He doesn't know if Jamil has been taught this somewhere. ]
[Jamil continues to listen intently, ignoring any thoughts his imagination tries to intrude with. Stupid brain.
The part about diseases is one he clearly isn't surprised by. His mother liked to use that as part of her discouragements. Overly friendly girls supposedly had all kinds of diseases, according to her.]
Prostate...?
[He thinks back for a moment, and then shakes his head.]
I think that's what my father tried to bring up, once, to explain why seeing a doctor is especially important in my later years. He got too distracted to finish, as usual.
It's true that a doctor does need to check for prostate cancer when you're older, but it can also feel good.
[ Krivesk gets a rock and draws a rough anatomy sketch in a place not easily seen. Then points to the prostate. ]
This is what you want to stimulate. Using fingers or a penis will bring pleasure to you or your partner. With enough experience, finding it will get easier. But experiment, find what feels good. You'll know when you've found it.
[ He does wonder about Azul's biology - in both forms. While Krivesk can compare Azul to the people of the Water Clan, he doesn't know for certain. ]
If both you and your partner are experiencing your first time, I'd actually recommend the individual who is receiving - or bottoming - straddle the person giving - or topping. It gives the bottom more control over the situation and makes it less intimidating in general. If your partner is more experienced, then it can simply come down to trust. If you trust them to not hurt you, should you be the one bottoming.
[Thank goodness it's easy to sketch out and won't be too visible later...
Jamil does his best to memorize the general location, nodding to show he understands. The recommendations are considered, and he thinks he has an idea of what he'd prefer, overall... Maybe. It really does sound like something that'll be easiest to figure out as he goes.
He dares to look up at Krivesk, tilting his head a bit at the mention of trust. Hah... trust? Trust is the entire reason he's been so wary of even the idea of intimate anything. But... with these mentions of being able to have more control, it does have him more curious than anything now.]
That does sound more reassuring.
[Jamil isn't really the type to voluntarily give over control in anything - or so he likes to think. Even when playing the role of submissive, he tends to be doing everything he can to have the upper hand.]
[ Krivesk will use the rock to scratch out the drawing, which he does a pretty good job of considering his strength. If Jamil needs another sketch, he'll just make one.
He's giving advice for both being a new partner and one more experienced. While honestly he thinks Jamil is asking because he's perhaps interested in being intimate with Azul - who also seems inexperienced - there's no saying if they'll be committed partners. Trust in the bedroom doesn't have to extend beyond it. That's where casual partners come in.
In the case of Azul and Jamil, he feels like they'll fight to be on top. ]
Be sure that whoever is topping also uses lube on their penis, to make it easier for you both.
[ Krivesk leans back and looks at Jamil straight on. ]
Now, when you're having sex with a merman...
[ He lets his voice trail off, just to see whether Jamil is or isn't interested in this particular topic. ]
[Jamil nods at the initial recommendation, and then he blinks at the next part.
For a brief moment, it's right back to that offended fluster that was shown earlier. He grits his teeth for a moment, clearly wrestling... He looks away, letting out an annoyed sigh. Finally, after holding a blink, the sigh softens a touch and he shifts to look at Krivesk.]
If.
[Even admitting that much is filled with very obvious and very reluctant acceptance. It's probably a step towards a healthier mindset.]
[ Krivesk waits for whatever Jamil's decision is. Whether he should continue or not. There's no real pressure, just two individuals sitting there in silence while Jamil looks for his own answer. ]
If you were to have sex with a merman, while he was shifted - it would certainly depend on his species. I've found that many have their sex organ and their anal hole very close together in the front. Their sex organ and hole is usually hidden inside of a slit, only appearing when erect or gently pulled out by hand.
Many can even secrete their own kind of lubrication, so you wouldn't have to rely on an outside source. You can slip your fingers into their slit, into their hole and pleasure them the way you would with a man, it would simply be from the front rather than the back.
[ It would probably take work, getting Azul to have sex while shifted in the first place. ]
I may be wrong and if a merman is willing to be intimate with you while shifted, don't be afraid to ask him how to best pleasure him. Maybe it'll be embarrassing at first, but neither of you will feel that way when you're in the heat of the moment. Be open to try things, you never know what he could do in return that will bring you pleasure.
[Never in all his years of knowing Azul has he legitimately let himself think about what that merform must look like. Sure, he's skimmed books, sites, etc... but Azul had never been anything more than just some pretty guy who's annoyingly pushy. Who's clearly terrified of heights, terrible at accepting help, and so damn fixated on winning Jamil's trust.
Why the hell were they brought here, together? In this place that clearly revolves around teamwork? They're as cohesive as oil and vinegar!]
They sure can be slimy enough... [It's muttered with a sigh. Why is he think of Floyd and Jade, suddenly? Tch...] Alright... so, I'd have to ask a lot of questions, either way.
[And that isn't really seen as a bad thing. Jamil genuinely enjoys learning new things. This is just going to take a ton more self-reflection, first and foremost.]
... Is kissing necessary? In general.
[For a moment, he's backtracking to the most basics - much more vanilla things he's never done. Now is as good time as any, he things.]
[ A faint chuckle at that, because he doesn't think the first part is about Azul at all. Perhaps there are more merman where Jamil is from and they're the other kind of slimy.
He shrugs at the question. ]
It can feel good. But if you want to keep your emotional distance from your partner, it's not necessary. They may find it odd, unless you clearly state the kind of relationship you want with them upfront.
Some people just want a good fuck, and don't care about any other kind of intimacy. There's always rough kissing. Biting at their bottom lip, drawing a little blood, dominating the kiss - making sure they can't say stupid things.
[Sure enough, he'll be right there after lunch! He definitely looks less casual than his text might have implied. It's pretty obvious Aiden is a little nervous about all of this...
Possibly for more reasons than just the topic itself, but not like he'll be elaborating on why or anything.]
[ Krivesk will be waiting outside, watching Zai go about some of his daily things - looking over when Aiden approaches. He nods at the teen and waves to his partner before heading out into the woods. ]
It's a nice day for a stroll. [ A bit bright, perhaps, but Krivesk sticks to the areas shaded by trees.
He doesn't jump into it right away, waiting until he's certain they'll be out of earshot before bringing up the conversation. ]
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Date: 2025-01-08 03:12 am (UTC)Hey.
[Jamil's shifting a little bit awkwardly, and then letting out a heavy sigh.]
... First things first, I'm not admitting anything. This is embarrassing enough already, so please spare me any teasing like I'm some teenager?
[Not that he's actually a fully grown man, but! Ugh, why is he overthinking even this much...]
My parents didn't actually give me any talk. The most they did was shove a book at me, and I learned from that and a lot paying attention to how classmates talked. And, where I'm from, I'm expected to marry some girl and make more future servants. Even a hint that I'm not strictly into the opposite sex would have been enough to ruin my family's reputation...
[He takes a heavy breath, adjusts his hood a little.]
So... point is, I know how to make babies. That's it.
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Date: 2025-01-08 03:24 am (UTC)He nods to a couple of rocks that are close to each other, taking a seat on one of them. ]
First of all, sex should be about the people you're interested in. No matter what sex or species they are. You could have casual or committed partners. If anyone gives you a hard time about that here, you tell me.
[ Before Zai, all he had were casual partners. ]
Sex between men is different between a man and a woman. When two men have sex, they will have anal sex. This is something that needs a bit of care before putting into practice.
[ He'll wait for Jamil to sit before continuing. ]
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Date: 2025-01-08 03:53 am (UTC)Ah...
[Well, the last part at least makes some sense! It's just... different. Way different, in fact, from the kinds of things that book described.]
So, that's where the lube you mentioned comes in...?
[Jamil is learning, but he's plenty intelligent enough to connect things. And, well, it shows he was paying attention through all the fluster.]
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Date: 2025-01-08 04:09 am (UTC)It is. You can coat your fingers in it and use it to help stretch your partner until he's ready to take your girth. Or he can do the same for you, depending on who is receiving. Start with one, and work your way up in numbers. Get them to relax by pleasuring him in other ways. Men still enjoy their nipples being played with or you can stroke his own penis or balls.
[ Foreplay works for everyone. ]
If you or your partner is or has been with other people, you'll want to use a condom - if diseases are something that either of you can spread. [ Krivesk is a vampire, so he's not worried about it. ] It does also help to not make a mess.
Men can be stimulated just through anal sex, by targeting the prostrate gland. Do you know your anatomy or should I draw it for you?
[ A serious question. He doesn't know if Jamil has been taught this somewhere. ]
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Date: 2025-01-08 04:33 am (UTC)The part about diseases is one he clearly isn't surprised by. His mother liked to use that as part of her discouragements. Overly friendly girls supposedly had all kinds of diseases, according to her.]
Prostate...?
[He thinks back for a moment, and then shakes his head.]
I think that's what my father tried to bring up, once, to explain why seeing a doctor is especially important in my later years. He got too distracted to finish, as usual.
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Date: 2025-01-08 04:54 am (UTC)It's true that a doctor does need to check for prostate cancer when you're older, but it can also feel good.
[ Krivesk gets a rock and draws a rough anatomy sketch in a place not easily seen. Then points to the prostate. ]
This is what you want to stimulate. Using fingers or a penis will bring pleasure to you or your partner. With enough experience, finding it will get easier. But experiment, find what feels good. You'll know when you've found it.
[ He does wonder about Azul's biology - in both forms. While Krivesk can compare Azul to the people of the Water Clan, he doesn't know for certain. ]
If both you and your partner are experiencing your first time, I'd actually recommend the individual who is receiving - or bottoming - straddle the person giving - or topping. It gives the bottom more control over the situation and makes it less intimidating in general. If your partner is more experienced, then it can simply come down to trust. If you trust them to not hurt you, should you be the one bottoming.
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Date: 2025-01-08 05:06 am (UTC)Jamil does his best to memorize the general location, nodding to show he understands. The recommendations are considered, and he thinks he has an idea of what he'd prefer, overall... Maybe. It really does sound like something that'll be easiest to figure out as he goes.
He dares to look up at Krivesk, tilting his head a bit at the mention of trust. Hah... trust? Trust is the entire reason he's been so wary of even the idea of intimate anything. But... with these mentions of being able to have more control, it does have him more curious than anything now.]
That does sound more reassuring.
[Jamil isn't really the type to voluntarily give over control in anything - or so he likes to think. Even when playing the role of submissive, he tends to be doing everything he can to have the upper hand.]
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Date: 2025-01-08 05:21 am (UTC)He's giving advice for both being a new partner and one more experienced. While honestly he thinks Jamil is asking because he's perhaps interested in being intimate with Azul - who also seems inexperienced - there's no saying if they'll be committed partners. Trust in the bedroom doesn't have to extend beyond it. That's where casual partners come in.
In the case of Azul and Jamil, he feels like they'll fight to be on top. ]
Be sure that whoever is topping also uses lube on their penis, to make it easier for you both.
[ Krivesk leans back and looks at Jamil straight on. ]
Now, when you're having sex with a merman...
[ He lets his voice trail off, just to see whether Jamil is or isn't interested in this particular topic. ]
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Date: 2025-01-08 05:31 am (UTC)For a brief moment, it's right back to that offended fluster that was shown earlier. He grits his teeth for a moment, clearly wrestling... He looks away, letting out an annoyed sigh. Finally, after holding a blink, the sigh softens a touch and he shifts to look at Krivesk.]
If.
[Even admitting that much is filled with very obvious and very reluctant acceptance. It's probably a step towards a healthier mindset.]
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Date: 2025-01-08 05:49 am (UTC)If you were to have sex with a merman, while he was shifted - it would certainly depend on his species. I've found that many have their sex organ and their anal hole very close together in the front. Their sex organ and hole is usually hidden inside of a slit, only appearing when erect or gently pulled out by hand.
Many can even secrete their own kind of lubrication, so you wouldn't have to rely on an outside source. You can slip your fingers into their slit, into their hole and pleasure them the way you would with a man, it would simply be from the front rather than the back.
[ It would probably take work, getting Azul to have sex while shifted in the first place. ]
I may be wrong and if a merman is willing to be intimate with you while shifted, don't be afraid to ask him how to best pleasure him. Maybe it'll be embarrassing at first, but neither of you will feel that way when you're in the heat of the moment. Be open to try things, you never know what he could do in return that will bring you pleasure.
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Date: 2025-01-08 06:12 am (UTC)Why the hell were they brought here, together? In this place that clearly revolves around teamwork? They're as cohesive as oil and vinegar!]
They sure can be slimy enough... [It's muttered with a sigh. Why is he think of Floyd and Jade, suddenly? Tch...] Alright... so, I'd have to ask a lot of questions, either way.
[And that isn't really seen as a bad thing. Jamil genuinely enjoys learning new things. This is just going to take a ton more self-reflection, first and foremost.]
... Is kissing necessary? In general.
[For a moment, he's backtracking to the most basics - much more vanilla things he's never done. Now is as good time as any, he things.]
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Date: 2025-01-08 06:25 am (UTC)He shrugs at the question. ]
It can feel good. But if you want to keep your emotional distance from your partner, it's not necessary. They may find it odd, unless you clearly state the kind of relationship you want with them upfront.
Some people just want a good fuck, and don't care about any other kind of intimacy. There's always rough kissing. Biting at their bottom lip, drawing a little blood, dominating the kiss - making sure they can't say stupid things.
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Date: 2025-01-08 06:30 am (UTC)I guess I can't deny it... That part makes it sound far more appealing.
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Date: 2025-01-08 06:35 am (UTC)Thought it might. It's how I'd stop Zai from tearing himself down. Some people even like roughness with their partner.
[ More than just kissing. ]
Any other questions?
[ Krivesk doesn't make it seem like he's ready to run Jamil off, just making sure he has all the answers he could possibly get. ]
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Date: 2025-01-08 06:49 am (UTC)The only question he has left is because something about this person keeps reminding him of the fae.]
If it's alright to ask... How old are you?
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Date: 2025-01-08 06:53 am (UTC)Seven hundred and twenty-one years old.
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Date: 2025-01-08 04:01 pm (UTC)[At least he isn't surprised. Unlike Krivesk, he came here with some experience on human-meets-non things... so that helps his side of it a bit.]
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Date: 2025-01-08 06:27 pm (UTC)[ So he will always look this fantastic, he means to say. ]
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Date: 2025-01-17 08:03 am (UTC)a.zaen; some point before CR reveals; text
Date: 2025-02-16 05:01 pm (UTC)Whenever you have time to speak with me in person, there's something I feel you're the best for me to learn from.
I'd like to learn more about sex, if that's alright.
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Date: 2025-02-16 05:26 pm (UTC)Sure, I've got time today. Come to my place after lunch, we'll stroll through the woods as we talk.
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Date: 2025-02-20 02:29 am (UTC)[Sure enough, he'll be right there after lunch! He definitely looks less casual than his text might have implied. It's pretty obvious Aiden is a little nervous about all of this...
Possibly for more reasons than just the topic itself, but not like he'll be elaborating on why or anything.]
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Date: 2025-02-20 02:36 am (UTC)It's a nice day for a stroll. [ A bit bright, perhaps, but Krivesk sticks to the areas shaded by trees.
He doesn't jump into it right away, waiting until he's certain they'll be out of earshot before bringing up the conversation. ]