[fix](replica) Fix inconsistent replica id between BE and FE in corner case of tablet rebalance

[platoneko]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Problem summary

tablet which has different replica_id from clone req in _do_clone may be a dropped replica in FE, e.g:
BE1 migrates replica of tablet_1 to BE2, but before BE1 drop this replica, another new replica of tablet_1 is migrated to BE1.
We MUST NOT allow to clone success on dropped replica, otherwise replica id may never be consistent between FE and BE, which may affect operations that depend on the replica id (i.e. drop tablet, cooldown).
Also, when FE tries to add replica in handling tabletReport, it MUST create new Replica with replicaId reported by BE to maintain replica meta consistent between FE and BE.

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[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[platoneko]

run p0

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[hello-stephen]

TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 35.96 seconds
stream load tsv: 475 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 150 MB/s
stream load json: 38 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 59 MB/s
stream load orc: 68 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 15 MB/s
stream load parquet: 28 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 29 MB/s
https://doris-community-test-1308700295.cos.ap-hongkong.myqcloud.com/tmp/20230221104027_clickbench_pr_101034.html

[platoneko]

run feut

[platoneko]

run buildall

[platoneko]

build p0

[platoneko]

build feut

[platoneko]

run buildall

[platoneko]

run clickbench

[platoneko]

run p0

[dataroaring]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.