[fix](memory) Fix jemalloc hook deadlock at BE start

[xinyiZzz]

What problem does this PR solve?

Problem Summary:

It should be caused by the third-party library, but in any case, this fix should be possible.

Fix:

#0  0x00007f738432318c in __lll_lock_wait_private () from /lib64/libc.so.6
#1  0x00007f73843505ed in __internal_atexit () from /lib64/libc.so.6
#2  0x0000563f6a54db30 in malloc ()
#3  0x0000563f74e82b08 in operator new(unsigned long) ()
#4  0x0000563f6a6144bd in doris::ThreadContextPtr::ThreadContextPtr() ()
#5  0x0000563f6a54e21c in doris_calloc ()
#6  0x00007f7384350557 in __new_exitfn () from /lib64/libc.so.6
#7  0x00007f73843505fc in __internal_atexit () from /lib64/libc.so.6
#8  0x0000563f72c79c03 in ?? ()
#9  0x0000563f74e3b5fd in __libc_csu_init ()
#10 0x00007f7384339d18 in __libc_start_main () from /lib64/libc.so.6
#11 0x0000563f69ae302a in _start ()

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