branch-3.1: [chore](tablet) ignore_load_tablet_failure default to be true #55109

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Cherry-picked from #55109

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[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 32683 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 74c4118229718ac2379462d88b9e64ee7e7b12aa, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17594	5655	5468	5468
q2	2045	289	157	157
q3	10438	1327	740	740
q4	10200	871	459	459
q5	7627	2366	2118	2118
q6	180	161	134	134
q7	908	733	611	611
q8	9329	1435	1209	1209
q9	5593	4932	4946	4932
q10	6752	2280	1794	1794
q11	498	288	269	269
q12	342	356	211	211
q13	17767	3612	3014	3014
q14	226	218	210	210
q15	533	462	457	457
q16	419	423	371	371
q17	612	880	361	361
q18	6961	6468	6432	6432
q19	1205	952	560	560
q20	345	354	211	211
q21	2911	2196	1978	1978
q22	1051	1007	987	987
Total cold run time: 103536 ms
Total hot run time: 32683 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	5664	5484	5481	5481
q2	232	327	229	229
q3	2274	2643	2313	2313
q4	1328	1777	1339	1339
q5	4415	4836	5034	4836
q6	176	168	126	126
q7	2109	1980	1858	1858
q8	2643	2844	2689	2689
q9	7198	7167	7189	7167
q10	2992	3314	2778	2778
q11	583	519	486	486
q12	665	756	587	587
q13	3417	3728	3215	3215
q14	282	290	254	254
q15	518	484	474	474
q16	444	480	450	450
q17	1227	1730	1250	1250
q18	7676	7595	7315	7315
q19	792	1169	1039	1039
q20	2015	1999	1882	1882
q21	5239	4936	4806	4806
q22	1130	1134	1055	1055
Total cold run time: 53019 ms
Total hot run time: 51629 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 189027 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 74c4118229718ac2379462d88b9e64ee7e7b12aa, data reload: false

query1	974	395	378	378
query2	6529	1942	1876	1876
query3	6705	214	224	214
query4	34059	23584	23425	23425
query5	4334	607	466	466
query6	261	191	183	183
query7	4624	490	320	320
query8	299	253	245	245
query9	9735	2639	2613	2613
query10	488	328	268	268
query11	18507	15425	15203	15203
query12	158	110	109	109
query13	1649	562	407	407
query14	9239	6671	6892	6671
query15	224	190	183	183
query16	7840	647	470	470
query17	1677	806	591	591
query18	2046	412	335	335
query19	225	200	176	176
query20	126	121	118	118
query21	206	129	108	108
query22	4395	4541	4640	4541
query23	34833	33551	33525	33525
query24	7530	2610	2639	2610
query25	524	478	417	417
query26	1212	280	176	176
query27	2505	454	341	341
query28	5589	2161	2105	2105
query29	783	589	467	467
query30	260	185	153	153
query31	986	874	821	821
query32	90	62	60	60
query33	523	382	324	324
query34	764	824	518	518
query35	770	794	727	727
query36	982	1015	964	964
query37	100	96	71	71
query38	3820	3864	3829	3829
query39	1479	1435	1445	1435
query40	212	118	108	108
query41	53	57	52	52
query42	119	109	104	104
query43	501	528	478	478
query44	1319	804	822	804
query45	187	176	170	170
query46	886	1042	674	674
query47	1907	1961	1867	1867
query48	407	437	348	348
query49	815	519	406	406
query50	684	668	426	426
query51	7195	7238	7069	7069
query52	101	106	96	96
query53	236	254	186	186
query54	533	535	466	466
query55	81	79	81	79
query56	281	273	253	253
query57	1215	1225	1149	1149
query58	241	224	223	223
query59	2939	3091	2894	2894
query60	318	294	275	275
query61	112	111	111	111
query62	803	736	656	656
query63	232	197	192	192
query64	4423	985	611	611
query65	3235	3159	3216	3159
query66	1030	402	307	307
query67	15993	15770	15672	15672
query68	7214	821	534	534
query69	485	328	268	268
query70	1148	1112	1092	1092
query71	556	306	272	272
query72	5647	3691	2497	2497
query73	635	743	345	345
query74	10434	9365	8961	8961
query75	3396	3131	2704	2704
query76	3422	1186	784	784
query77	552	376	296	296
query78	10422	10397	9652	9652
query79	3847	847	594	594
query80	847	560	457	457
query81	529	257	222	222
query82	571	127	94	94
query83	176	166	144	144
query84	281	104	77	77
query85	790	361	292	292
query86	403	308	302	302
query87	4346	4307	4167	4167
query88	5057	2405	2350	2350
query89	401	334	293	293
query90	1874	188	193	188
query91	144	150	107	107
query92	67	59	52	52
query93	2291	892	541	541
query94	682	406	278	278
query95	344	275	277	275
query96	493	599	299	299
query97	3206	3270	3116	3116
query98	240	221	201	201
query99	1552	1443	1295	1295
Total cold run time: 295160 ms
Total hot run time: 189027 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 28.35 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 74c4118229718ac2379462d88b9e64ee7e7b12aa, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.03	0.04
query2	0.06	0.04	0.03
query3	0.24	0.06	0.07
query4	1.61	0.10	0.10
query5	0.53	0.50	0.53
query6	1.13	0.73	0.72
query7	0.02	0.02	0.02
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.56	0.52	0.53
query10	0.56	0.55	0.55
query11	0.14	0.10	0.10
query12	0.14	0.11	0.10
query13	0.62	0.61	0.59
query14	0.78	0.79	0.81
query15	0.85	0.83	0.82
query16	0.38	0.40	0.40
query17	1.02	1.07	1.06
query18	0.24	0.22	0.22
query19	1.95	1.79	1.78
query20	0.02	0.01	0.02
query21	15.40	0.95	0.57
query22	0.73	1.01	0.62
query23	14.95	1.48	0.57
query24	3.26	0.38	1.76
query25	0.15	0.14	0.24
query26	0.29	0.14	0.13
query27	0.03	0.05	0.05
query28	13.18	1.01	0.43
query29	12.57	3.96	3.28
query30	0.25	0.09	0.07
query31	2.83	0.58	0.39
query32	3.23	0.53	0.46
query33	3.01	3.06	3.02
query34	16.63	5.20	4.50
query35	4.61	4.52	4.57
query36	0.65	0.50	0.47
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.06	0.04	0.04
query39	0.03	0.03	0.02
query40	0.17	0.14	0.13
query41	0.07	0.02	0.02
query42	0.03	0.03	0.03
query43	0.03	0.04	0.02
Total cold run time: 103.17 s
Total hot run time: 28.35 s

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