[fix](mow) delete bitmap is not deleted if commit compaction job failed

[mymeiyi]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #xxx

Related PR: #xxx

Problem Summary:

delete bitmap kv is leaked:

[delete bitmap check fails] can't find corresponding rowset for delete bitmap instance_id=113100978, tablet_id=1759979382398, rowset_id=0200000000000027bc46eb5855e1afdc75b79046710c329f, version=13, segment_id=0

this is because:

1. when update delete bitmap for compaction, does not write pending key
2. when commit compaction job failed, the delete bitmap kv is not deleted
3. when delete tmp rowset kv, the delete bitmap kv is not deleted

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