branch-3.1: [fix](catalog) Prevent removing catalog from refresh queue on CREATE/ALTER

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Problem Summary:

catalogs are incorrectly removed from the auto-refresh queue when:

• Creating a new catalog with metadata_refresh_interval_sec
• Altering catalog properties via ALTER CATALOG SET PROPERTIES

This causes auto-refresh to stop working even though metadata_refresh_interval_sec is configured.

Root Cause:
CREATE/ALTER CATALOG
→ resetToUninitialized()
→ onClose()
→ CatalogIf.super.onClose()
→ removeFromRefreshMap(catalogId) ❌ Wrong!

Fix:

1. Remove CatalogIf.super.onClose() call from ExternalCatalog.onClose()

• Prevents wrongly removing catalog from refresh queue during CREATE/ALTER

2. Explicitly call removeFromRefreshMap() in CatalogMgr.removeCatalog()

• Ensures catalog is properly removed when actually dropping it

Related: #57680

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