Support cancel the timeout ExportJob is still in exporting

[WindyGao]

Proposed changes

Cancel the timeout ExportJob is still in exporting

issue-5777

1. Recurring problems
   See issue-5777 step 4

2. Compiling and unit tests with stuck job
   
   job 17006 unexpired is stuck at 99% progress
   
   job 17006 expired is canceled by my code

i have built it in docker
use sh build.sh

Types of changes

• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Documentation Update (if none of the other choices apply)
• Code refactor (Modify the code structure, format the code, etc...)

Checklist

• I have created an issue on (Fix #ISSUE) and described the bug/feature there in detail
• Compiling and unit tests pass locally with my changes
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• If these changes need document changes, I have updated the document
• Any dependent changes have been merged

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