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Feb. 20th, 2026 09:44 pm
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Guess I won't be reading BBC news any more, as they appear to have erected a paywall in the very recent past. It had long been too US-centric, anyway. I'll read more Al Jazeera to get actual WORLD news.

Wearing Thin

Feb. 20th, 2026 08:04 pm
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It's a "fizzy sweet wine in a 16 oz tumbler (at least it's not straight from the bottle) and cozy Christmas lights (because my life is so stupid the tree's still up)" kind of evening.

These days I'm starting my work weeks relatively OK, but by Fridays I Hate Everything. Talked to my old boss today, who's going to come up for a week to help intro-train the new PM starting in a couple of weeks, plus get some additional training to the newer one (about a year into the title, but only recently really stepped up in responsibility). Someone outside my management chain wanting to lecture me on how I need to focus more on the important than the urgent and that I need to do less and then immediately responding to "here's a quick thing your team could help me save time and labor in the near term" with "let's define all the requirements for the full-blown project that little thing is a part of and which you didn't ask for help with" is NOT helping. I put off that meeting for when my entire head wasn't on fire because I knew it was going to be exactly what it ended up being, and as expected it was neither urgent, nor important.

Finally got Mom's phone number transferred to the new place today, a month after I'd asked. Next will be cancelling the phone service off the cable bill, getting an alternate email set up and redirecting the important things to a new one, and then canceling the cable modem too. Still need to find the time to get to the post office during counter hours to change her address (have to show off POA paperwork)...maybe tomorrow morning. Also need to drop off her taxes with her tax guy sometime on the way to work. And call her long term care insurance company to make sure they actually got the last surprise set of eligibility evaluation forms back from the doctor's office (so many fucking hoops).

Also in the finally category, Mom was downright pleasant to hang out with last Saturday, for the first time since we moved her there a month earlier. She kept admiring the view and asking me how I found the place, and agreed that it kind of has the same vibe as her house, and she finally let/helped me hang some more pictures. She still won't go eat in the dining room, or even go walk the halls for some exercise and to see what's what, but baby steps. I'm planning to shift her to the on-site meds provider when we go see her doctor in a couple of weeks (wanted to use up existing already-purchased supplies first), and I hope that might help shift her to an earlier clock and make her more likely to go down for meals.

Enjoyed the federal holiday off this past Monday, though after breakfast out with my sweetie before his work, it was mostly a catch-up day for errands and clearing snow from Mom's house's driveway while picking up her mail. Don't think I'll have another day off for a while yet, and definitely nothing until the end of May where the backlogged work penalty won't be higher for the privilege. We'd been talking about going to Houston and to see Josh's family over spring break, but it's invoicing week, and I just mentally and emotionally can't right now, especially as I'd have to be working, and the in-laws' guest bed is literally painful to sleep on. They may still go, esp as Lillian's last great grandmother recently entered hospice (though I guess she technically still has a living step-step great grandmother).

In short, I'm tired, my to-do list is 3 miles long and most every completed item spawns two new ones, and it's going to remain bad on a personal and professional level for a while longer yet, completely aside from the whole "world descending into pedophiliac fascism" thing. Also, all my lovely snow melted this week, though it's not like I've had any time to go play in it. It is a nice little break from the 3 weeks of constant snow and a stretch of super cold we had starting on mom's moving day, though. All the local roads, even the well-traveled ones, were inch-thick packed snow for a couple of weeks solid. (As a child, I taught myself to ice-skate on that shit.)
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The first time I did one of these it was a review of 2015 and was geared at reminding me that I do actually do things other than just work and futz around on my home computer. I like the comparison here that what's stuck around from that one to this is the Toronto Comic Arts Festival, local dive bar karaoke (thwarted for 2026 by the fact it moved again at the end of the summer to be less local), visits from my aunt and uncle, and doing Shakespeare in the Park type things, oh, and also heading to Hamilton sporadically for Supercrawl or the Bach Elgar Choir. I've also gotten a heck of a lot of use out of that bike I picked up in July of that year (the July of last year was full of trail rides and I also biked to a couple of evening events, like the Lathe of Heaven gig) )
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I dearly hope it is actually worth it.
The whole phone thing has been impossible and I screwed up moving phones and maybe what's wrong is I used the wrong google account comma but I don't have my apps back and I don't know if my message history and I can't get into facebook unless I can get into an authenticator on my old phone , and at this point I can barely get into the old phone at all.

And then i'm probably going to lose a nearly two years streak on finch.

Anyway comma
FYI for people in DC - a fun last minute music/activist event tonight at Lamont Plaza in Mt Pleasant, 5:45 - 8 pm.

The Minneapolis band Brass Solidarity is in town as part of a larger delegation from MN demanding the end of ICE in their communities (and all communities). The DC Activist Street Band has invited them to come out and play together, in support of our neighbors from city to city and state to state.

Brass Solidarity is an incredible group and expect this will be a great time. Some video of them from IG: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTeWR5CDETW/?


I'm so very tired period
And I'm so tired of my leg being a problem and I went and did a massage this yesterday and it was good for a little bit, but same problem with waking up with it, middle of the night. And i'm worried about sharing a bed for the next several nights.

force is machine

Feb. 10th, 2026 10:47 pm
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Dear Father, it has been a month since my last confession.

I am so tired, y'all. I've been working overtime for the past three weeks trying to stash some money away for the inevitable basement bullshit and it's been exhausting. (You wouldn't think a job that requires sitting at a desk would be tiring, but I feel like somebody threw sand in my eyes by the end of the day.)

Permit-wrangler is still trying to find an engineer. Apparently the problem is that I can't just dig a hole and have an engineer look at it and yes the foundations are good, they have to figure out how to reverse-engineer whatever was done to create new drawings - and that's going to be expensive regardless.

I sicc'd permit-wrangler on the engineer who got the original permits. "Tell him if he helps me out I might leave him out of the lawsuit."

***

I looked out my window this morning and there was a huge raptor in the trees behind my house. Couldn't get a clear enough view to make a guess at what it was but at least twice the size of the red-tail hawks I normally see back there.

I reiterated to the venerable Lord Brock that no, he is not going outside no matter how much he bonks his head on the window. (He is enormously offended by the squirrels.)

***

Last time I visited my dad I took my laptop over and started quizzing him about family. His memory is shot, but he does remember incidents from his childhood. What's hilarious is that he remembers the kids who pissed him off - I suggested one possible connection and he was all, "Oh yeah, Joey, he visited from the States. What a little prick."

He also remembered the aunt who baked cookies and the heavy-drinking aunt who was a huge bruiser and all the men were afraid of her. So if they left an impression he had me stories about them, even if he doesn't remember how they're related to him.

***

Somebody here was talking about how Skip The Dishes made up a new address for them, and it reminded me that I had the exact experience last time I ordered from them. The system sent the driver to an address a couple of blocks away and I only caught it because I got the ping that the order was five minutes away and when I looked at the map I didn't recognize the streets.

Calling their customer service did nothing because the driver was already showing as "arrived". But as soon as I hung up I got a call from the driver because the address they had given him was a park, so I was able to redirect him and get my food after all.

***

We have reached the part of the winter where I start to worry that I have run out of places to put snow. My yard is maybe five feet square and the snow is already piled up in a pyramid.

I keep wanting to go out with a hose and ice it up and build an igloo or something.

All Work and No Play...

Feb. 10th, 2026 09:40 pm
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I've been in this job 4 years now. We have one of those fancy "unlimited leave" policies (that statistically lead to people taking less leave). After 2 decades of working government contractor jobs where I had to record all my time and budget my leave, I keep up the habit (also, we're going to get to the point of needing a similar policy sooner than later at this company). I allot myself a generous 4 weeks a year of pretend vacation time, which is what I was getting when I worked for an oil-adjacent company with a spaceflight division, plus I keep track of pretend comp time, and I have no caps on my pretend leave banks.

I have 90 days of pretend leave banked right now. Not including the sick time that became real with a new Michigan law last year.

That ain't right. That's negative vacation for the 4 years. No wonder I'm burning out. Another new PM starts in a month, but she's starting from a more experienced PM place than our other PM. Maybe by summer I can reduce my workload to a sane level.
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Well I just posted this over on FB:
One thing about FB deciding I'm a "digital creator" is I get to see how many times it has served something and to how many people.

I'm saddened by how low those numbers are for my post about the Jewish event tomorrow compared to those for other posts, although I guess I should compare against other screencap posts which it's probably smart enough to understand aren't the same as other pictures.

At this point the conflict I thought I had turns out to be WAY earlier in the morning (like requiring getting out of the house a couple hours earlier than I've lately been waking) so maybe I can get there, but then there's the whole "it would be so nice if my ankle and TA weren't mad, to the point of waking me mad." And I have a pretty on my feet planned weekend coming up. But I guess it's also reasonably warm tomorrow, warm enough I could grab a bike. Tho I'd probably be wearing my skirt with the stars on.

I got out to Best Buy today and have a low end phone it seems I could transfer my life over to. Of course the advice I got AFTER buying something with a $45 restock fee has me far more comfortable with doing that factory reset on my own current phone, now that I understand how transfers and backups work a little better. Bleh. Still kinda want some handholding.

I also was at costco and am amused by all the preserved duck eggs and indeed things like quail eggs (which Lynn mentioned and they're $5something rather than $8 so I bought a pack.) I tried one a few minutes ago. Tasty, but with each of the 54 quail eggs in the pack being individually wrapped it's an appalling amount of packaging. THAT said, though, it's pretty portable. Which reminds me maybe I should hardboil some eggs ahead of the weekend.

There was also a sample of a protein and sugar free cinnamon toast crunch like cereal which I was tempted to buy but decided I would fail miserably at portion control.

Yesterday my leg wasn't bothering me during the day and I hadn't taken any aleve. Today it is and I have. Feh.

I would add some pics but they were sent to me over SMS and, well, there's a reason I just bought a backup phone. Maybe I'll add some later. But if I can't get both phones behaving at the same time then moving things over will become difficult.

I should go load the dishwasher. Or pack. Or something.

I also should contemplate where I'm willing to post about tomorrow's thing, because too many places seem likely to invite harrassment :(


The Jewish thing I'm referring to is This group of Jewish groups who plan an anti ICE protest. TBH there's a bunch I'm not familiar with, along with a bunch of local synagogues I am familiar with, along with only one or two groups I'd usually not want to deal with, and so far as I can tell, NOT the one group I'd say fuck no to.

I'm impressed by the webpage's clear "ok it might be cold (it actually won't be), and it'll suck to park becauase of the snow, and here are songs to listen to ahead of time, and here are sign suggestions and good things to bring or wear and please don't bring flags."

I hate that there's a couple chats I'd ordinarily signalboost local stuff to but it feels fraught.

I also initially shared the fb post from T'ruah, but then decided that was a rabbit hole of right wingers, although some of the comments were a good reminder of how lonely it is as a Jew in a lot of progressive spaces where once upon a time we helped with so many causes. I read recently that a good half of the non-Black freedom riders were Jews.

Anyway. Tired, and I don't know why. Not sure what's going on with the rest of my night. And I don't know how I'm ever going to get anything set up for the weekend, either. I need to at least know what I want.



In other news, enjoyed going out to Volt's for Superbowl and then staying up entirely too late but a lot of talking. And it's been fascinating reading more about the various cultural references in the show. (This particular article doesn't mention that was a real wedding he'd been invited to but couldn't attend because Superbowl.)


In still other news, Discord plans to start enforcing age verification by requiring pictures or IDs. Urg.
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Back in August of 2025, we announced a temporary block on account creation for users under the age of 18 from the state of Tennessee, due to the court in Netchoice's challenge to the law (which we're a part of!) refusing to prevent the law from being enforced while the lawsuit plays out. Today, I am sad to announce that we've had to add South Carolina to that list. When creating an account, you will now be asked if you're a resident of Tennessee or South Carolina. If you are, and your birthdate shows you're under 18, you won't be able to create an account.

We're very sorry to have to do this, and especially on such short notice. The reason for it: on Friday, South Carolina governor Henry McMaster signed the South Carolina Age-Appropriate Design Code Act into law, with an effective date of immediately. The law is so incredibly poorly written it took us several days to even figure out what the hell South Carolina wants us to do and whether or not we're covered by it. We're still not entirely 100% sure about the former, but in regards to the latter, we're pretty sure the fact we use Google Analytics on some site pages (for OS/platform/browser capability analysis) means we will be covered by the law. Thankfully, the law does not mandate a specific form of age verification, unlike many of the other state laws we're fighting, so we're likewise pretty sure that just stopping people under 18 from creating an account will be enough to comply without performing intrusive and privacy-invasive third-party age verification. We think. Maybe. (It's a really, really badly written law. I don't know whether they intended to write it in a way that means officers of the company can potentially be sentenced to jail time for violating it, but that's certainly one possible way to read it.)

Netchoice filed their lawsuit against SC over the law as I was working on making this change and writing this news post -- so recently it's not even showing up in RECAP yet for me to link y'all to! -- but here's the complaint as filed in the lawsuit, Netchoice v Wilson. Please note that I didn't even have to write the declaration yet (although I will be): we are cited in the complaint itself with a link to our August news post as evidence of why these laws burden small websites and create legal uncertainty that causes a chilling effect on speech. \o/

In fact, that's the victory: in December, the judge ruled in favor of Netchoice in Netchoice v Murrill, the lawsuit over Louisiana's age-verification law Act 456, finding (once again) that requiring age verification to access social media is unconstitutional. Judge deGravelles' ruling was not simply a preliminary injunction: this was a final, dispositive ruling stating clearly and unambiguously "Louisiana Revised Statutes §§51:1751–1754 violate the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution, as incorporated by the Fourteenth Amendment of the U.S. Constitution", as well as awarding Netchoice their costs and attorney's fees for bringing the lawsuit. We didn't provide a declaration in that one, because Act 456, may it rot in hell, had a total registered user threshold we don't meet. That didn't stop Netchoice's lawyers from pointing out that we were forced to block service to Mississippi and restrict registration in Tennessee (pointing, again, to that news post), and Judge deGravelles found our example so compelling that we are cited twice in his ruling, thus marking the first time we've helped to get one of these laws enjoined or overturned just by existing. I think that's a new career high point for me.

I need to find an afternoon to sit down and write an update for [site community profile] dw_advocacy highlighting everything that's going on (and what stage the lawsuits are in), because folks who know there's Some Shenanigans afoot in their state keep asking us whether we're going to have to put any restrictions on their states. I'll repeat my promise to you all: we will fight every state attempt to impose mandatory age verification and deanonymization on our users as hard as we possibly can, and we will keep actions like this to the clear cases where there's no doubt that we have to take action in order to prevent liability.

In cases like SC, where the law takes immediate effect, or like TN and MS, where the district court declines to issue a temporary injunction or the district court issues a temporary injunction and the appellate court overturns it, we may need to take some steps to limit our potential liability: when that happens, we'll tell you what we're doing as fast as we possibly can. (Sometimes it takes a little while for us to figure out the exact implications of a newly passed law or run the risk assessment on a law that the courts declined to enjoin. Netchoice's lawyers are excellent, but they're Netchoice's lawyers, not ours: we have to figure out our obligations ourselves. I am so very thankful that even though we are poor in money, we are very rich in friends, and we have a wide range of people we can go to for help.)

In cases where Netchoice filed the lawsuit before the law's effective date, there's a pending motion for a preliminary injunction, the court hasn't ruled on the motion yet, and we're specifically named in the motion for preliminary injunction as a Netchoice member the law would apply to, we generally evaluate that the risk is low enough we can wait and see what the judge decides. (Right now, for instance, that's Netchoice v Jones, formerly Netchoice v Miyares, mentioned in our December news post: the judge has not yet ruled on the motion for preliminary injunction.) If the judge grants the injunction, we won't need to do anything, because the state will be prevented from enforcing the law. If the judge doesn't grant the injunction, we'll figure out what we need to do then, and we'll let you know as soon as we know.

I know it's frustrating for people to not know what's going to happen! Believe me, it's just as frustrating for us: you would not believe how much of my time is taken up by tracking all of this. I keep trying to find time to update [site community profile] dw_advocacy so people know the status of all the various lawsuits (and what actions we've taken in response), but every time I think I might have a second, something else happens like this SC law and I have to scramble to figure out what we need to do. We will continue to update [site community profile] dw_news whenever we do have to take an action that restricts any of our users, though, as soon as something happens that may make us have to take an action, and we will give you as much warning as we possibly can. It is absolutely ridiculous that we still have to have this fight, but we're going to keep fighting it for as long as we have to and as hard as we need to.

I look forward to the day we can lift the restrictions on Mississippi, Tennessee, and now South Carolina, and I apologize again to our users (and to the people who temporarily aren't able to become our users) from those states.

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