Hiya DW! It's Yuletide season again (!).

Yuletide is mostly a happy place for me, but one of the persistent bummers of the season is reading author letters where people express not wanting to receive BDSM content in thoughtless ways. (It is totally okay to not want kinky Yuletide fic. It is not okay to make it sound as if anyone who would consider writing kinky content is gross and icky and imposing their gross ickiness on you.)

I'm working on a post about how to respectfully decline BDSM content in request letters. If you know of an example of this being done well, I'd love to see it!