Sunday, February 22nd, 2026 12:27 pm
Brian's organs all failed, and his doctors and I agreed therewas no point in trying to keep him alive. The man I loved, who actually loved my surly truthful self, was gone. Never coming back. A vegetable on a machine. Time to pull the plug on the respirator. That was what he trusted me to do. To be wise and loving and know when to give up. I wish I could cease to miss him all the time. I've tried rekindling friendship with my husband, but he's hopelessly no fun. He's just a d/s/our old man who, it turns out, can't remember his past without physical manifestations of it.
Wednesday, February 18th, 2026 10:32 am
So, you got my opinion on Heated Rivalry, but I gotta say, I will never not read fanfics structured like ongoing internet sagas.

Also, gotta love the one dude, BostonSportsBro69, who posts in both /r/relationship_advice and /r/hockey going around in /r/hockey saying "Uh, no, it's just normal sportsbro rival stuff, you're all reading way too much into this" when because he absolutely knows better. (I don't think he's supposed to be one of Ilya's teammates, just a fan.)

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Sunday, February 22nd, 2026 09:33 am
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Can America's well-financed, highly-experienced, heavily-armed war machine hope to prevail against a numerically insignificant, poorly-armed, American teen movement?

Dance the Eagle to Sleep by Marge Piercy
Saturday, February 21st, 2026 08:19 pm
The Canadian federal government should do for the Heritage Foundation what they did for the Proud Boys: designate them as a terrorist organization.

(Noting that I have been privately and rightly warned that this might backfire given the setting of precedent, depending on who forms government over the years and decades to come.)
Friday, February 20th, 2026 03:50 pm
The evening darkens over
After a day so bright
The windcapt waves discover
That wild will be the night.
There’s sound of distant thunder.

The latest sea-birds hover
Along the cliff’s sheer height;
As in the memory wander
Last flutterings of delight,
White wings lost on the white.

There’s not a ship in sight;
And as the sun goes under
Thick clouds conspire to cover
The moon that should rise yonder.
Thou art alone, fond lover.


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Tuesday, February 17th, 2026 08:48 pm
And lemme tell you, my team picking was solely on the basis of "Are people in this team active" and "Do they have an open slot for me", because active team members send you more lives and you're more likely to win prizes in the team competitions, but most teams are 100% people who joined and never play.

But you can talk to each other, great, except that there's this one person who is very active and posts every single day about how they've changed the game so she can't win, she sucks, she is always stuck, she doesn't like it anymore, she's gonna quit - this all prompts a flood of "Oh, don't go, please stay" responses, and I can't help but wonder if that's the sole reason she posts like this.

One day I'm going to tell her that if she really feels that way she ought to quit, or at least shut up about it, because her posts bring my enjoyment of the game way down. Don't know what sort of response I'll get from everybody else who isn't her, but I can't be the only one who's itching to say it.

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Saturday, February 21st, 2026 09:02 am
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Seven books new to me. four fantasy, one horror, one ostensibly non-fiction, and one romance. Three are series. Yeah, there does seem to be a shortage of science fiction.

I had a bunch of stuff come in just after the cut-off time for these. Next week will look very different.

Books Received, February 14 — February 20


Poll #34247 Books Received, February 14 — February 20
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Which of these look interesting?

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I Want You to Be Happy by Jem Calder (May 2026)
3 (7.5%)

In the Realm of the Last Man: A Memoir by Francis Fukuyama (September 2026)
5 (12.5%)

A Divided Duty: An October Daye Novel by Seanan McGuire (September 2026)
14 (35.0%)

Wickhills by Premee Mohamed (September 2026)
16 (40.0%)

Hallowed Bones: A Sons of Salem Novel by Lucy Smoke (October 2026)
2 (5.0%)

Falling for a Villainous Vampire by Charlotte Stein (October 2026)
6 (15.0%)

I Am the Monster Under the Bed: A Novel by Emily Zinnikas (September 2026)
14 (35.0%)

Some other option (see comments)
0 (0.0%)

Cats!
33 (82.5%)

Saturday, February 21st, 2026 12:31 am
My Baltimore Street cat, Buster by name, ate raw carrots! There was a lot of other stuff, but somehow, IT GOT LOST! Oh thankx!
Saturday, February 21st, 2026 12:08 am
I can't trust you wankers to post my entries all, can I?! I write, you lose it all into the nowhere. Thanks a lot! You assholes don't have to care,do you?! You just sit back and let the computers fuck up and it's only a little sort of maybe glitch. Y'all are HATED. And now I shed it. It's on you
Friday, February 20th, 2026 11:42 pm
Where is the entry I was just entering?! Assholes!?
Friday, February 20th, 2026 07:44 pm
So... I spent a little money.

I bought a Super Snark guitar tuner. It clips onto the head stock of the guitar and can be used for both electric guitar, base and acoustic guitar. It's made tuning much easier. This is important because with my decaying physical hearing, I'm trying to train my brain to hear better. I've been working on it for several months by playing almost every day. I've noticed that my left ear hears better than the right when it comes to hearing things in tune.

I've bought a bunch of guitar straps!! My 12 string kept slipping off my knee when trying to play it so putting a strap on to keep it stable really helps. I've been having problems finding strap locks that I like locally so I may have to check online. There's these cute button ones that look like they come off of Grolsch beer bottles. They should be fine for lightweight acoustic guitars but I wouldn't trust them for my base. I still have my old strap locks which still work just fine for my Phony Fender.

They Phony Fender is getting new strings. It's about time. I've put them on but I haven't tuned it up yet. I want to give the strings time to settle. In addition, the initial stress of stringing it up the E string caused the nut to pop off. I've glued it back on and I want the glue to set overnight.

I've got a no-name short scale electric guitar that needs new strings. Also a classical guitar that needs them. I've got the strings, I just need the time to put them on. I really dislike stringing guitars - it's a pain in the neck.

The Hagstrom hollow body bass (in the picture) may need some technical help: a neck shim, maybe a new nut and complete set up. It also needs a new case. Because it's an unusual base the local shops are unable to find one that fits. I may end up building a case. I'm putting both ideas on the back burner right now.

When I started losing my hearing about a decade ago I practically gave up on music: I didn't play and I barely listened to any. I regret stopping. I have to build up my strength and my fingering all over again. Still, I think I'm making progress.
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Friday, February 20th, 2026 09:10 am
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A successful businesswoman has the opportunity of a lifetime offered to her, only to have an old friend greatly complicate matters.

The Friend Zone Experiment by Zen Cho
Friday, February 20th, 2026 07:00 am
Welcome to the Zoo Crew! An eclectic mix of posters of all sizes and shapes!

From me expect snarky political comments, nerdy posts on how great Linux is and occasional hair pulling entries on how bad my writing sucks.

Oh, and getting on in years.

Enjoy!
Thursday, February 19th, 2026 12:10 pm
TTRPG campaign idea.

PCs are field agents in charge of finding and dealing with arcane occupational safety violations. That six-sided summoning pentagram? Flagged. That storeroom where the universal solvent is next to the lemonade? Flagged.

That deadly-trap-filled dungeon abandoned by its creator when the maintenance fees got too high? Red tagged.

This isn't the same as my recent FabUlt campaign. That was about discouraging the worst excesses in a world run by oligarch mages and there weren't really regulations. This would be set in a regulatory state, and would be more an exploration of normalization of deviance.
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Monday, February 16th, 2026 11:04 am
and then read the books, and I gotta say, I think the author and I fundamentally disagree on a key principle of storywriting.

I believe, strongly, that if you have two viewpoint characters, or two love interests, or two viewpoint characters who are also love interests, then they need to have balanced problems - and, ideally, the interaction of those two characters should affect those problems in some way - by making them realize that they have problems, by making them realize that those problems aren't so bad, by solving or exacerbating those problems - who knows? But they need to start off with the same level of problems, and then by the end of the plot those problems need to have been changed in some way.

And pretty much that never happens in these books. Just look at the two that make up the TV show. We have two couples.

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This opinion on problems was brought to you by: The Overnight Shift! I have so much time on my hands, guys!
Sunday, February 15th, 2026 10:48 am
Why am I better than all other men?
I do not have to prove it. I admit it.
Here is the nail, and I am here to hit it.
A blow that glances somewhat now and then.
With pure intention I take up the pen
That writes the truth, if any ever writ it.
Venom is vulgar. I decline to spit it.
Still if I must—Well, nine times out of ten

I do. I am tired. That book must be a bore.
Jones wrote it. He was rude to me at lunch,
And nobody quite likes him in our bunch.
Smith said he liked my novel. In my bones
I feel that I like Smith. But more and more
My conscience tells me to eviscerate Jones.


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