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Apr. 6th, 2012 05:37 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
squigglefishAnother day, another younger trans girl gets a surgery date.
It's not a race, of course. If surgery is something someone desires/needs, I'm glad that they are able to get it.
But dealing with mental health, holding down a damn stressful job and newly discovered disabilities... these things don't mix with losing at least 20Kg :(
(and that's not to mention how much better the results would again be if I lost more, and the whole problem of not having much 'donor material', shall we say)
It's not a race, of course. If surgery is something someone desires/needs, I'm glad that they are able to get it.
But dealing with mental health, holding down a damn stressful job and newly discovered disabilities... these things don't mix with losing at least 20Kg :(
(and that's not to mention how much better the results would again be if I lost more, and the whole problem of not having much 'donor material', shall we say)
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Date: 2012-04-08 07:54 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2012-04-10 04:35 pm (UTC)Think I may know who you do mean though, and yeah, that is biting at me too. Wish it didn't, because I genuinely am happy for anyone who gets there, especially those who aren't put through mountains of suffering and delays to do so.