“The fallacy of personal validation”

Feb. 22nd, 2026 07:55 am
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I really believe people would be far less scammable if the Barnum effect were well known.

How I Look With He/Him In My Bio

Feb. 21st, 2026 09:08 pm
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The long-awaited fit post! (🦗🦗🦗) One of my resolutions was to work on my wardrobe, and another was to "become a normal adult... according to my own standards," which means being cool and desirable (among other things). Here are outfits that show my efforts towards that resolution so far ^_^ Right now I'm starting by working on a capsule wardrobe, 1.5 of them because I basically need "female" and "male" wardrobes, and then I'll just buy whatever makes me think "if I don't own this I'll die horribly." Fashionheads of Dreamwidth, please hype me up/tear me down.

The background is the only place in the house with good lighting OTL Sorry if the dog food kills the vibe. I'm surprised the dog herself didn't photobomb me, but maybe she instinctively knew not to get in the way of a good fit.
About the Fits )
I don't really know what kind of advice I'm seeking, but if you have anything you want to say to someone just starting to look ~cool~ let me know!! I have kind of read a lot of theory (video games about clothes + a long history of being a Tumblrina + some Pinterest use thrown in), but have done little practice (wore a uniform throughout my public school years, didn't want to buy clothes because I rarely went out, chronically uncool, etc.).

Wallpaper: "...Groovy?"

Feb. 22nd, 2026 11:59 am
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Title: "...Groovy?"
Artist: [personal profile] magnavox_23
Character/Pairing: Team
Rating: G

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candyhearts ex works (2 buck/eddie)

Feb. 21st, 2026 06:07 pm
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[personal profile] candyheartsex had creator reveals and this is what I wrote. :)

Title: i don't want anybody (but you)
Fandom: 9-1-1 (TV)
Pairing/Characters: Buck/Eddie
Rating: Teen
Word Count: 1821
Summary: The real reason Eddie doesn't date.

Title: not an ending (just a new beginning)
Fandom: 9-1-1 (TV)
Pairing/Characters: Buck/Eddie, Christopher
Rating: Teen
Word Count: 1565
Summary: When Buck watches Abby leave, he doesn't expect to immediately run into the two people who will be his future.

Sense8 s2 ep 6 and ep 7

Feb. 21st, 2026 01:30 pm
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Episde 6: This one was so sexy! The pride parade! The pool sex! Elaboration under here )

Episode 7: AKA not my fav. Elaboration under here )

P.S. If anyone knows a place to get Sense8 screencaps, please share :) I'd love to make icons.

The Birds Are on Their Way Back

Feb. 21st, 2026 05:06 pm
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Earlier in the week, a flock of robins and a flock of starlings descended on the small ornamental cherry (?) (I'm not so good with ornamental trees) and devoured all the remaining fruit.

For the last two days, I've heard the geese overhead and today I saw a pair scrambling at speed for the pond in the woods behind my house. I love living here so much.

I put a suet block out for the winter - the birds in Texas usually devoured it, but it looks almost completely untouched. Maybe all the birds leave? I'm still adjusting to life in the northern forest, and I don't remember enough about how it worked when I was growing up in the mountains. Surely cardinals stay all winter?

I'm planning to clean out the seed feeder and get it out tomorrow. Maybe that will be more tempting.

How Dare You!? final thoughts

Feb. 21st, 2026 09:17 pm
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Been a busy week & I've barely managed time for anything, but I've finished How Dare You!? & loved it.

It was pretty much everything I'd been hoping it'd be. Fun & hilarious, & totally nailed the vibe & tone of the novel, & took excellent advantage of the ridiculousness of the scenario for comedic purposes. I was absolutely dying at the scene where Xiahou Dan is marching through the palace grounds while the team of eunuchs carrying the palanquin that he's supposed to be riding in scuttle along behind him, desperately trying to keep up. And the scene where they're 'texting' each other where Mr Bei is running to & fro carrying the messages between them was another highlight. The fight choreography was also way better than expected for a comedy that wasn't especially action-focused.

Particularly loved the Empress Dowager. She was deliciously evil & charismatic & must have been wearing her teeth down with all the scenery chewing she was doing. She stole every scene she was in & the actress was clearly having a fantastic time with that role.

I have a few thoughts on the ending...

SPOILERS! Detailed summary of how the novel's ending compares to the drama's, & my thoughts on it. )

I still loved it, don't get me wrong. Absolute 11/10 drama, no question. Do not skip this because I'm being a little nitpicky. But considering how insanely faithful it'd been, & how funny & cute the novel version of the ending was, it felt like a weird choice, & I cant help comparing the two. If the drama was an original work & not an adaptation, or I'd watched the drama before reading the book, I'd be 100% fine but as it is, it's inevitable I'll compare the two versions & be a little 'aw c'mon!'.

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- I am currently typing this at a Panera Bread restaurant like it was 2009.

- I got a Nine Inch Nails ticket! I go next week! This is the first time I have seen NIN live since the disastrous show at Fair Park in 1995, when the opening act was The Melvins, and Trent Reznor almost didn't go on because some assholes in the pit were heckling and throwing things at The Melvins. (I was in the stands, I didn't do it.)

Someone posted about it on reddit here. And yeah, that's pretty much what happened.

- The last "goth show" and concert I went to previous to this one was the Sisters Of Mercy in October 2024. And goddamn it, we are getting old. It was like the Gothic Old Folks Home turned out for that one. I imagine I'll see a lot of familiar faces at the NIN show, too.

- I'm also going to see Carpenter Brut in May. Which is Gothic Synthwave.
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Week 3 of the Stuff I Love challenge!! 💞

This week's theme is music. I did a similar top 10 music list during the last Snowflake Challenge, so I think this time I should put some sort of restriction... so here we have top 10 covers by Hololive and Holostars members.

For those unfamiliar, Hololive Production is virtual YouTuber (Vtuber) company. Vtubers are basically content creators who use a virtual avatar—typically live 2D or 3D, using face/motion tracking—to present themselves. Hololive Production members (or talents, as they're sometimes called) usually stream video games, make both original and cover music, and sometimes perform as idols, among other activities. They're separated into subgroups, but the main ones are Hololive, which is composed of female talents, and Holostars which houses the male talents.

I don't frequently watch live streams unless it's a concert or karaoke stream—most of the vtuber content I engage with are through clips, but I'm always game for cover songs. A lot of vtubers (especially Japanese ones) actually started out or have some background as an utaite (JP cover artist), which I also loved listening to many years ago. I love them for both their aesthetically pleasing music videos (even if sometimes it's just png recycling lyric videos due to budget constraints) and for whatever spin the cover artists or arrangers can put into the song to make it their own.

CW: Some music videos might trigger those with photosensitivity. Without further ado, here are my 10 picks as well as 4 honorable mentions in no particular order! :"D


1187 words; lots of Youtube embeds inside )

Sanding begins!

Feb. 22nd, 2026 02:46 am
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This is entirely sanding-related babble. )

Not a lot other than that, really. It was super humid today - my hair was wringable again - but I still managed three work sessions, so probably about three hours? Which doesn't sound like a lot but it took me a stupid long time to recover each time. :/ Humidity is not my friend!!! :(

Looks like it's gonna be stupid humid tomorrow, too, so should try and get in a couple of work sessions in the morning/early afternoon. Maybe get up, feed cats/let out chooks, do a session? Will try that, I think. Supposed to be the least humid part of the day. (Still over 30% though. Ugh, so gross. But it's at 89% right now, so... yeah. Worth trying.)

Anyway! Now is naptime, yessss! >:

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Start of Part 3. As of this point, I had 40% of the audiobook left to go, and 1 week until it returned. So these next 2 posts will cover the final 2/5 of the book.

Light spoilers for the whole book in my annotations; comments are a free-for-all. Previous HDM-related posts on DW; see also The Reaction Posts of Dust on AO3.

Didn’t bother putting screencaps in this one. Too much of it was either “new elements introduced in the sequel trilogy” or “things that didn’t get visually adapted in the TV series.”

Onward.

 

Tiny Gryphon is good-guy-coded, so her idea of “who needs to die” is presumably correct and unproblematic in every way )

 


Filling done! For now.

Feb. 21st, 2026 04:50 am
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I did a LOT of filling today, and I think it's all done! Or, at least, it's all done until after I sand some things back, there are definitely bits that'll need extra filler and places that may or may not depending on how the sanding goes. Still! It was a lot of stuff to get done, and I'm pleased I managed it all! :3

I also baked! Three loaves of the choco zucchini bread, nomnomnom. (Two are going to be frozen, if I want more after I'm done with one loaf I can make more!) I definitely shouldn't've waited to make them until like 2:30, but, well. Sometimes we make very stupid decisions, that's just. How it is. Yes.

Tomorrow I get to try and figure out how the fuck the black chook got out of the run - she was perched on top of it napping when I went to put them to bed. I suspect the problem is she is very bored, which is. Not something I can really do much about. What with the foxes. :/

Also, sanding. Tomorrow is the return of Doing A Sanding, bleh. Important, but ugh the having to be so very careful and wear a mask and so much vacuuming ugh, hate it.

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Entangled Life: How Fungi Make Our Worlds, Change Our Minds & Shape Our Futures by Merlin Sheldrake

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Blurb:
When we think of fungi, we likely think of mushrooms. But mushrooms are only fruiting bodies, analogous to apples on a tree. Most fungi live out of sight, yet make up a massively diverse kingdom of organisms that supports and sustains nearly all living systems. Fungi provide a key to understanding the planet on which we live, and the ways we think, feel, and behave.

In Entangled Life, the brilliant young biologist Merlin Sheldrake shows us the world from a fungal point of view, providing an exhilarating change of perspective. Sheldrake's vivid exploration takes us from yeast to psychedelics, to the fungi that range for miles underground and are the largest organisms on the planet, to those that link plants together in complex networks known as the "Wood Wide Web," to those that infiltrate and manipulate insect bodies with devastating precision.

Fungi throw our concepts of individuality and even intelligence into question. They are metabolic masters, earth makers, and key players in most of life's processes. They can change our minds, heal our bodies, and even help us remediate environmental disaster. By examining fungi on their own terms, Sheldrake reveals how these extraordinary organisms--and our relationships with them--are changing our understanding of how life works.


This is the February read for [community profile] bookclub_dw so I'm going to reserve most of my review for the discussion post over there. But I will say that this is one of the more wild and entertaining journeys I've been on in a long time! Well worth the read!!!

Stores with rancid vibes

Feb. 20th, 2026 03:01 pm
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When we lived on the outskirts of Turku, going into downtown to run errands was already a bit of an Expedition, because it entailed a pleasant or idyllic walk to and from the bus stop of about 6-8 minutes, plus about 20-25 minutes on the bus, and then walking around the city center - possibly overcrowded, but full of beautiful buildings and trees.

Now that we live in the country, I'm still closer to the Turku city center than many people are who live in a North American metro area. I can walk to the bus stop (5 minutes, unpleasant scenery) and take a bus that puts me down near the center in about 50 minutes. But that trip feels excessive for a shopping expedition.

There's a big shopping center called Skanssi between us and Turku that is more convenient, about 35 minutes by bus, but the bus doesn't actually stop that close to it so you have to walk like ten minutes (it is very much designed to be visited by car, unlike the city center). And the mall itself just has RANCID VIBES. I hate being there! It's something about the interior architecture and the lighting maybe? The actual finishes are nice, the decor is fine, the lighting isn't UGLY. It is pretty dim inside, which has to be on purpose, but it's more like they were trying for a cozy or intimate or restful light instead of glaring? But instead it's oppressive in there. I always just want to get out. The K-Citymarket hypermarket attached to it is our closest Citymarket*, and it's much more brightly lit but still feels looming, oppressive, suffocating, sullen, and unwell. And I honestly do not know why! Maybe it's not actually the light, maybe it's sounds outside the regular hearing range or something?

So I've been thinking for a week whether it's preferable to go to this rancid-vibed mall, 35m by bus + 10-15m walk, or all the way to Turku, 50m by bus + 5-10m walk. The former SHOULD make me feel better because of the walking and fresh air, and I usually prefer less time on the bus because it's less chance to get trapped near someone's perfume; but would the rancid vibes counteract that?



*The other stores vary in vibes, but none of the ones near us are even close to this bad. Citymarkets Kupittaa and Länsikeskus are both reasonably Ok, and Prisma (Citymarket's competitor, the other Finnish grocery chain) Tampereentie is a little worse, while our closest Prisma at Itäharju is mostly nice, with some bad vibes in one end of the supermarket side. The nicest hypermarket near us is Citymarket Ravattula, Littoinen. I like this one so much more that I ALMOST would go to it instead (it's nearly 40 minutes by car, instead of 15 or so to Itäharju).

Auden’s Island

Feb. 20th, 2026 08:40 am
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All this is well-worn: the absurdly fast rise (TS Eliot published Auden’s 1930 Poems a couple of years after the latter had left Oxford), the vague but compelling leftism that turned to a strange deep religiosity, the abandoning of England on the eve of war. And this is the problem. The Auden story is so much a story, so uncannily representative of its epoch — he went to Spain! He was quoted by Lyndon B Johnson, and hated it! — that the real person vanishes. We’ve inherited a mythos, a mass of relics, some labelled ‘bitter poetry of imperial decay’ and others ‘property of Richard Curtis’. The dazzle of the name — Samuel Hynes wrote of an ‘Auden Generation’ — blinds us to the real, slightly dishevelled poet slinking out the back door. Almost everything I read about Auden leaves me feeling like a panting detective charging into the room to see an open window, curtains billowing. Auden eludes. Zoom out too far, and you make him the shapeless allegory of a century. Go microscopic, as Nicholas Jenkins does in his new book The Island — I now know which flight Auden caught to Copenhagen in January 1935 — and you risk losing some of a human being’s necessary holism.

Jenkins, in fairness, does also propose a big picture. (It was ‘the KLM morning flight from Croydon Aerodrome.’) The Island, roughly equal parts biography, social history, and close reading, reconstructs Auden’s life and work, and their various contexts, across his first three decades. (At over 500 pages excluding notes, this works out to about, and only occasionally feels like, six weeks a page.) The argument is that Auden’s early career, up until about 1936, is best seen in the light of his conflicted and changing idea of ‘Englishness’ — a word which, as is nicely observed, doesn’t show up much in newspapers until the 1920s.

Born in York in 1907 and raised mainly in Solihull, Auden spent the first decade of his writing life trying out various visions of nation and nationality. After an undergraduate Eliot phase, his first canonical poems are set in a blasted Northern landscape, scarred by abandoned mines and weighty with foreboding. ‘The bridges were unbuilt and trouble coming.’

Jenkins, mostly convincingly, reads these early works as indirect reactions to the trauma of the First World War, and the subsequent little-England period as a response to this response, a new and self-consciously idealistic pastoralism salvaged from the ruins of 1918. Auden himself had been too young to fight, but his father, a child psychologist, was on medical duty for the disaster at Gallipoli, and his absence hung heavy in the family home.

... But I want something more, or other. What I really want to know is why, for instance, the final lines of Part III of ‘1929’ are so obviously written by Auden and nobody else; how it is that, aged twenty-two (twenty-two!), he found himself in and giving voice to a ‘winter, winter for earth and us, / A forethought of death that we may find ourselves at death / Not helplessly strange to the new conditions.’

Maybe these are unanswerable questions. Still, if Auden can be found anywhere, it might be in lines like these: in the King James cadence of ‘that we may find ourselves at death’, the dry deflection of ‘Not helplessly strange’, the unplaceable tone, either a bored god or an office manager, of ‘the new conditions’.

‘The real “life-wish”’, he wrote in his journal, ‘is the desire for separation’. One of the few things that remained constant across his poetic career was this desire for dislocation, a sudden change of scene.

a review of Nicholas Jenkins’s new biography of W. H. Auden
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Dusty

Feb. 19th, 2026 07:37 pm
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The problem Dusty had was not a chronic bacterial infection...It was Bone cancer.

The evil tumor ate up whole her jaw. *sobs*

She must have been in massive pain for quite a while, the vet said.

We agreed that it would be too cruel to keep Dusty alive by giving her painkillers.

...So, Dusty is not here with me anymore.

A big void in my heart, it hurts so much. *weeps*

But why?? Dusty had X-ray tests regularly which were not cheap. Why couldn't her usual veterinarian find the cancer earlier? She had to have her medication for Hyperthyroid for two years and bloodwork test every couple months. So much regret now.
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3SF 26 #25

Feb. 19th, 2026 11:21 pm
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Welp, it's over for another year. I've still got a few more I want to write, but I might take a break from prompts for a bit.

Also, this is the first year I attempted to reply to all fills/comments. What I learned: I could not handle even a minor amount of Internet fame. I kept leaving two-word comments and I was still overwhelmed by it all. XP

Transformers G1, Hot Rod/Arcee - getting done in by a hot girl seems like a pretty good way to go out

FF7, Cloud, Sephiroth - reaching the check-out limit on your library card

Transformers G1, Springer/Hot Rod/Arcee - all the colors of the sunrise

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