I know this is unpopular but I'm going to say it anyway: I'd rather work a $120,000/year job I don't like than a $60,000/year job that I love.
Providing for your family is your #1 priority, NOT loving what you do.
My phone is on mute 100% of the time.
Because no one should be able to grab my attention any time they want, on their schedule and not mine.
Value. Your. Time.
In 99.99% of cases, “I don’t have time” is another way of saying “It’s not important enough to me.”
You’re an adult. Adults make time for things that are important.