[C++][Compute] Improve performance of the hash table used in GroupIdentifier

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ARROW-11591 adds support for grouped aggregation with a very basic hash table.

Reporter: Ben Kietzman / @bkietz
Assignee: Michal Nowakiewicz / @michalursa

Related issues:

• [C++] Query engine umbrella issue (is a child of)

PRs and other links:

• GitHub Pull Request #10290
• GitHub Pull Request #9768

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-12010. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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Michal Nowakiewicz / @michalursa:
Support for big endian architecture is missing and has been moved to a separate task: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-12830 

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Ben Kietzman / @bkietz:
Issue resolved by pull request 9768
#9768