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crap i hate these. Let's do the label thing, it's fun :D. Bi-Poly-Pagan-Fat grrl-Gamer-Geek-Stoner-Rocker-Slacker. How's that?

Friends whom i may mention in my LJ ramblings:

Baa - Baa has been my friend for about 12 years. We 'dated' for a few months back in the early days. There was a point where we were ready to kill each other and called it off. A few days later he was hurt badly in a drunken stumble / brawl and his mom called to let me know. I rushed over to the hospital, coz i still love the dumb bastard - and we knew that we'd be awesome friends from that day on. For the most part we have been. I still love him very much as a friend. He can be very thoughtful at times. And also very much like a toddler having a fit at others. ;)
BandBro - See Matthew.
BarbJeamifer - barb_the_seeker She is one of my longest-had friends. We met in senior? Junior? year in high school. She was a goth, mean-ass, tough-skinned biatch - who was actually pretty cold to me for quite some time. I have no clue why i kept pestering her & trying to be her friend. Finally we bonded during art class. Coz she just couldn't get away from me - and mebbe she found i wasn't that bad, really. ~chuckle~ and we became fully two of the silliest bitches ever. Supa-Silly-Cows. After HS and after about a year of college or so there was a bit of..sexay-love-explosion-drama-craziness. I think it kinda rocked both our worlds for quite sometime. We have since been able to resolve all the drama and are happily settled as Soul-Sista's. I love her to pieces and miss her very much (she's in OK and i'm in PA).
Cicely - geeksdoitbetter was my girlfriend & part of The Fam (Triad) for about 7 years. I ended things between us 9/09. I hope to become friends again in the future. You'll most likely see her mentioned in older posts.
Daddy K - (see K)
dreamingbear - Dreamingbear & I chatter on-line alla time and hang out pretty often, she works right near me and has 3 awesome kittehs that think i'm pretty ok ~grin~. She introduced me to Fancy Tea. woo!
fatherbingo - This is an old HS buddy who i re-found due to the wonders that is ElJay. Hopefully we'll hang out somes :)
Foxes! - thefoxes eeEEEee! Foxes! Gosh, they've been my friends for quite some time too. Met crayfox through Po a long time ago. A wonderful Taurin foxie was later added to make -- The Foxes. Lij & Taurinfoxie will sit and chatter about art-stuff while cray & i sit in a corner and fix PC's and/or giggle at them. (we're the Big Dumb Boys, ya see :P )
Gar - bitmonger This is Cicely & Lar's sweetie & a friend of mine. We chatter on line a lot about random things. He likes to show me IT / Security related geeky articles that we can share a chuckle over. One day i shall wrastle him and i shall win. ~neener~)
ivymcallister - She's da bomb. Snarky, smart, sweet (u know, at times, i figure). I've met her once in RL and would like to increase that :D
+james+ - He's my favorite James ever! We are often ready to battle on the DDR Dance floor. And in Rockband!
K - This is my sweetie (as of 4/06-ish). I met him and his wife (Kitten)at a play party a few years ago & thought he was terribly cute & shy. I saw them a few other times (really i like them both just fine). a few months ago he popped up on my IM and we started flirting and chatting again. Happily they'z all at a spot in their worlds where a new sweetie (me!) could be added. He's a loverly man. We play a lot of video games together and have a fun time hanging out and being cute sweeties!
Kat - Kat we met through some mutal friends about 7 years ago. She became part of "da family" when she started dating Baa. ~shakes head~ that relationship lasted about 2 years longer than it ever should have, heh. She certainly has some *issues*, most the time i have compassion for her. Sometimes i want to strangle her. She's often lots of fun for me to have around. A great conversationalist, she knows a lot about history & travel (and purses and shoes) ;) She is diagnosed as Bi-Polar 1 (which is very intense) and therefore our friendship has some intense ups and downs.
Kitten - Daddy K's Wifeypoo. Very sexay lady and sweet. I enjoy her a lot.
Kitties - thekittypride Lotus, Little, Nubs, Big Kitty, Missay, Jinx. These guys are my babies. I love them. I can't stand them. They bring me joy. They bring me headaches. I wouldn't trade them for the world. They all have their own stories which would get far too long here. :) Gypsy has since passed away.
Lar - luluisme She is Gar's sweetie and my buddy. They come over once a month to hang out with me :D She's got super long hair & is very smart & enjoys laughing & bein silly.
libitina - This is a buddy i hang out with sometimes in RL too! I do believe she's my favorite kinky librarian w/lovely long hair :)
Lij - casfeshie Lijah is my hubby. We met about 12 years ago while i was dating my ex-James. Lost touch for a bit, then met up again while i was dating Baa. A while after Baa & i broke up, Lij was nekkid, both of us high on extasy, professing his love for me. A while after that i started to believe him ;) We have been inseparable ever since. In 2001 we were handfasted by Barb Jeamifer, with Cicely & Willyford as ringbearers, and many of our other friends around us. We behave as common-law-married folks, no official paper yet exists, and we may get one someday just to be sure we're all legal eagal.. He had a vasectomy close to a year ago and he does an awesome job of helping raise our kitties :)
Matthew - My middle brother (6 years younger) currently living on my couch ~grin~. He's recovering from.. well.. Life and trying to get on his feet as a grown up (seeing as my parents were such good skill givers ~rolls eyes~). He is working (at Radio Shack in Exton - go visit him, give him some sales), has a car, and is paying rent. Things are definitely looking up from where they were in 2007 when he was either gonna be dead, homeless, or in jail.
MeW/Michelle - She passed away around chrimmis of 2008. She was one of my dearest and closest friends for 3 years. Her boyfriend at the time, Jim, accidently killed her and then killed himself. It has still shaken my foundation and i'm sure i'll be recovering from it for years. I miss her very much.
MormonBro - My youngest brother (9 years younger). He's currently (2009) in colorado doing his Mission work. He is weird and full of ..Jesusy'ness. I'm sure eventually he will bring home a mormon wife and we will all be scared. ON a related note, check out www.mormonunderwear.com - yes, he really does wear that. Terrifying. (and yes, all 3 of us siblings had the same parents).
Ms S - contraddictions - Ex-co-werker. I still see her sometimes, she's super awesome :D
Neighbor C - The cool female neighbor chick. I hope to have her over for some crafting.
Neighbor S - He used to be cool neighbor dude, now he's kind of.. gone annoying. meh.
Po - erm..Lots of history here that i don't really want to get into. Let's leave it at..he used to be a fairly big part of my world - some of my still-friends came via him - shtuff went bad. No longer even civil friends.
R - ex-cowerker.
Sehr Jess - zoesmisery She's my longest had friend. We met back in middle school when i snagged her away from the even dorkier kids to come sit at our Cool But Still Dorks table :D She was probably my first, true, heartfelt Girlfriend. We skipped school once together, talked about boys, talked about the weenies in our school and how much cooler we were.. swam in her pool (Cherrybibcards!), bitched about school, pretty much grew up together from that point on. Her family is kinda my family & vice versa. I actually introduced her & her current man to each other as well! (see Wayze) Also important, we've supported each other in our fights against PCOS for many many years and my life would have been more difficult without a buddy like her to go through the struggles with. ~woojah~
skyethebard - Without her, i'm not sure i'd actually know any MILF's. Yay for Skye. ~grynn~ She's an awesome person and i really enjoy her company :)
Sous - Soooooous! We met like.. 4 years ago? She had randomly emailed me after seeing my profile on www.care2.com and my love of The Last Unicorn. I near deleted the email as spam - 'cept for the title of The Last Unicorn. She was a recent transplant to the area and on the hunt for some friends in the area. I'm generally game for new friends so The Fam met her and found a lovely sweet lil thang. She and I have done a lot of soul sharing and i treasure her as a friend. She's also very cute in a skirt w/the tall boots.
Spot - This is the J-supervisor guy, often staring at my boobs and/or not answering my questions coherently. He's pretty much the only bane of my exisitance @ werk. (AND HE FINALLY GOT FIRED!!!)
wayze - A friend of mine. Used to date Sehr Jess.
Willyford - or Will. Dear lord. Red-headed, grumpy-assed, biggest dumbest boy of a bear! We, as bears, have some shit in common. I felt connected to him from day one and there's been lotsa craziness (mostly mine) since then. Today, all is well. We are friends, there is often light flirting / light cuddling and it's fine. We tried dating a while ago and it didn't work out. I will love him quietly from the corner and see if on his own he makes his world a better place perhaps allowing for dating in the future - but for now..evr'thang is finally ~fine~ where it is. No matter what my dreams say :P