I was approached by the foster care supervisor to talk about permanency for Daisy. When we were called for her I was specific and precise in letting her know that we have NO intention on adopting a baby girl. We are (after all) foster parents FIRST!!! Today we discussed how important it is for Daisy to bond and attach. We also discussed that if I had no intention on adopting her maybe it would be best to place her NOW rather than later. HELLO???!?!??! Does ANYONE listen when I speak??? I TOLD her this! I explained to her that although we were not looking to adopt a baby girl we could (however) love on her and give her a history. (ie- photos, baby book...) I know that God knows what He's doing...I just really wish He'd let ME in on it!!!!