Making a difference...One Starfish at a time

Our family started fostering back in 2005. We have been blessed to love on many babies. There has been many twists and turns throughout our journey and in December of 2010 we were called for placement of a newborn baby boy. His biological mother worked a case plan for 18 months and after 23 months she surrendered her rights and we adopted 'Sprout' in December of 2012. Our faith has been tried and tested and we are still certain that God is faithful!

May 1, 2012

Bad news...  I called the county worker to see what the court paperwork will say.  They are NOT going for TPR on bio mom.  Because bio dad is released from prison in June they feel it is too close to the 15 out of 22 month mark.  He will have a chance to work the case plan and visit (supervised) with his son.  I know that it's my job to foster the relationship between the bio parents and Sprout but really...we're only delaying the inevitable.  I am concerned about Sprout's mental well-being at the end of all this.  That will be another loss for him.  Not to mention visits with bio mom 3 days a week (when she shows) and bio dad once a week.  He is getting older and he is a smart boy.  He will begin to realize when they do not show.   Then, when the county decides that reasonable efforts have been made...they'll TPR. 

I am praying that : 

* the judge sees bio mom's lack of effort and asks the county WHY they haven't started the process for TPR. 
* part of bio dad's parole is a 'no contact under 18' order.
* bio dad prolongs prison sentence by getting in trouble (I know it's mean but hey, it's how I feel).
*  or bio dad surrenders.

I am tired.  I don't want to do this for another 6 months.  I am tired of dealing with the county and the agency.  I am tired of visits.  But I know this sweet boy is worth every ounce of energy I have given. 
"For I KNOW the plans I have for Sprout,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper and not to harm Sprout, plans to give Sprout hope and a future." 
Jeremiah 29:11   

...Trusting God for an amazing testimony... 

3 comments:

Mandy said...

I just prayed for you and Sprout and the list. It's just some waves, keep your eyes on Jesus. I am preaching to myself here too.

Carrie said...

Great advice from the pp. Hearing that news must have been discouraging :( I too worry about my girls getting old enough to understand what is going on. Praying for special grace for Sprout and for you.

Endless Foster Love said...

Praying for God's Grace....