I couldn't have imagined some of the things that happened during this past year. I had not a clue they were coming. Not a hint.
A year ago tonight I met a friend and her husband for what I was told were drinks and the chance to meet a new person in town who worked with the friend. She had called me about a week before and said, "hey we have a new person at work who doesn't know anyone. Will you meet him so that he knows other Jewish people in town?"
Little did I know that when I sat down at that table that a friendship would start that would blossom into a relationship and into being head over heals in love. Now I can't imagine my life without DL (is it too sappy to call him DL for dear love?) We speak and/or see each other every day. My day starts with a good morning phone call and often ends with a good night phone call. Yes, we are pathetic (in a good way.)
I had no idea this was coming - not.one.clue - as I wrote earlier in this post. I had come to a place in my life where I knew that I could be happy and whole as a single person blessed with great friends. And then, surprise surprise, DL becomes a part of my life.
Today we began the month of Elul, a month of reflection and preparation for the coming New Year. It seems fitting and appropriate that today is also the anniversary of the day we met.
I pray that the year to come is filled with strength, hope, love, courage, healing and good surprises for each of us.
Your sister thriver,
Leah
Welcome! This is a personal blog where I reflect on life, Judaism and my healing from an abusive childhood (including incest and other forms of abuse) and a bit of politics. If you are a victim/ survivor/ thriver, or a friend/ significant other/ spouse/ partner of one, or if you are looking for more information, read and comment below. I began this blog in June of 2003 when I was looking for a place to speak out and I found a community of friends and support. Come on in, ya'll.
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Wednesday, August 31, 2011
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