“Love”! I always wonder why this word is so fascinating to everyone till I didn’t find it.
This isn’t something fictional rather its beyond reality. It is something which will make you realize how you are important to somebody who truly loves you. And i found mine when i hadn’t expected.
Though we were schoolmates but never talked to each other. He was my senior and an outstanding sportsman. At that very time i used to watch him playing but never had any conversation because i was bit rude to everybody.
When he passed out of school he went in his on way and I had my own. After years he found me on Facebook and messaged me and I recognized him by saying” tum woh he ho na jo girte pdhte har balls pick krte thy”…… I was like seriously we started like this. Though he was preparing for SSB so we rarely used to conversation and at that very moment i hadn’t thought about his feelings(which he never confessed).
After he cleared his SSB he confessed his love for me but I never bother ❤️
about his emotions ,because at that time I was into solitude mode where I never wanted any conversation and relationship. I was so rude to him, i blocked him from everywhere but still he used to call me through different numbers and i used to get frustrated with this kind of attitude.
Later when he went away on his training and his hundred calls became zero then i started feeling something is missing. I had no idea what it was till i realized he was so different and he is the only one with whom i can thought to share my everything. After month he called me and i thought to confess my feelings. And the moment i said yes, he was shocked altogether happy too and i was so happy that i found him. What touched me the most was his patience and his belief in his true love. He waited patiently for 1year, baring my stupid ,arrogant, rude and emotionless behavior.
And now he is world to me, even we had less conversation because of his busy schedule but still he gives me his every single time of his freedom there and i always thank him for loving me no matter how i reacted .
What is important is your patience to get something and patience to bare every up and downs. No relationship is perfect, it is something which both sides needs to work upon if it gets difficult to handle because thats your real test.
Everybody asks me how you both manage your long-distance relationship. I simply say we don’t manage it we just live it, we live its every moment, we celebrate our togetherness. And that’s simply love is to us now.
I wait for his calls and he waits to get free to have conversation that’s something only army couples can understand . Love never demands, it only when we expect something for which we never worked upon… ❤️
Indian Army Wives 
