[BUGFIX] Prohibit the use of the BLA_VENDOR flag when using MKL

[bgawrych]

Description

MKL version (BLA_VENDOR) is chosen basing on three flags:

• MKL_USE_SINGLE_DYNAMIC_LIBRARY
• MKL_MULTI_THREADED
• USE_INT64_TENSOR_SIZE

This PR forbid use of BLA_VENDOR because it can cause incompatibility between those flags and chosen vendor like in issue: #20301

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