gh-111062 CI: Update skip lists for resuable workflows

[hugovk]

Add all the top-level jobs on the needs and allowed-skips lists, and add the build_*_free_threaded jobs on the allowed_failures list.

Rename build_win32, build_win_amd64 and build_win_arm64 to build_windows and build_windows_free_threaded in the skip/allow lists now they're in reusable workflows.

Here's a test build on my fork showing a docs-only build completing: hugovk#58

Compare #111509 which "failed" the "All required checks pass" check.

• Issue: Add GitHub Action for checking free-threaded build #111062

[Eclips4]

LGTM

[hugovk]

@webknjaz How does this look?

[webknjaz]

@hugovk this should do. Although, the pre-reusable workflow might've required less jobs, IIRC. Nevertheless, this state is probably what you want.

[corona10]

LGTM