Share the Mental Load | Family Task App for Couples

Shared family calendar app · for couples

Take the mental load off your mind

RemindHer is a shared family calendar app for couples that finally splits the mental load.

Overwhelmed mom carrying the mental load

Sound familiar?

  • You’re the only one who knows the milk ran out and when daycare sign-up closes.
  • You read all 84 messages in the class group chat to see if they asked for money.
  • You book the appointment two months ahead, then remind yourself again and again.
  • Your partner genuinely helps — he just needs you to tell him what to do.

And the asking itself is the work. Remembering, planning, following up — that’s what’s exhausting.

How it works

Your whole home in one app

Not another list you manage. RemindHer actually shares the load.

Add a task by voice
Voice to task

Say it — and it’s on the calendar

No typing, no remembering. Say “remind me to buy winter clothes for Maya” out loud, and in a second it lands in one place your partner sees too — with the reminder, the date and the ownership. The thought leaves your head the moment it’s born.

Shared family calendar
Shared family calendar app

The whole home in one calendar

Activities, appointments, birthdays and parent meetings — all in one shared family calendar app that syncs automatically with Google Calendar and both phones. No more “I didn’t know,” no more two realities. You both see the exact same week, and that alone cuts half the arguments.

Kids schedule
Kids’ schedule

Every kid and their routine

Who’s picking up today, when the class starts, what to bring to daycare tomorrow. Each child gets a clear, colorful schedule that’s visible to both parents — so it doesn’t all live in mom’s head, and dad can just open it and see for himself.

Earn rewards for completing tasks
Perks for couples

Complete tasks, earn discounts

Every task you check off earns you both points — that turn into real discounts and perks from brands you already love. So sharing the load doesn’t just make life easier, it pays off: a little incentive that makes “who does what” worth doing together.

Built for the working mom

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For the working momwho feels she’s running a second shift after work hours.
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For couples with young kidswhere one partner runs the home in their head, and the other isn’t really aware of it.
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For anyone who’s tried it alllists, calendars and sticky notes — and found she’s still the one managing everyone.
Working mom managing the home
What they’re saying

Moms who already shared the load

★★★★★

“Suddenly I’m not the only one who remembers when there’s a vaccine or what ran out in the fridge. It changed our whole home.”

Noa
Noa C.Mom of two
★★★★★

“For the first time my partner takes a whole area and doesn’t wait for me to tell him what to do. Simply amazing.”

Shira
Shira L.Tel Aviv
★★★★★

“I stopped being the family’s walking reminder. I finally have some headspace in the evening.”

Dana
Dana M.Working mom
RemindHer

You can start today

Download the app, invite your partner, and pick one area to hand over. Just one thing you no longer want to remember alone.

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