sqlite,test,doc: accept Buffer and URL as paths

[geeksilva97]

Closes #56940

This PR adds the capability to the sqlite module to accept Buffer and URL as the database location.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 88.33333% with 7 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 90.25%. Comparing base (c864dea) to head (7d1111f).
Report is 11 commits behind head on main.

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src/node_sqlite.cc	88.33%	2 Missing and 5 partials ⚠️

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... and 29 files with indirect coverage changes

[cjihrig]

I think this needs a rebase to fix the CI issue.

cc: @nodejs/sqlite since this PR was opened before the team existed.

[louwers]

You should also check the happy path.

Can you try URL("file://path/to/db.db?mode=ro") and verify that writes error out?

Passing a file:// or file: as URL as a string or Buffer should also be supported.

[geeksilva97]

Done

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/65462/

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Landed in c7cf677