Check recent argparse API changes for compatibility

[kislyuk]

Python 3.11.9 introduced a number of changes: https://github.com/python/cpython/commits/main/Lib/argparse.py

[kislyuk]

The basic, breaking incompatibility is fixed in 54a4846, released in v3.3.0.

There are some other small changes that have been introduced and should be evaluated for compatibility in special cases.

[bebound]

This PR introduced the API change: python/cpython#115674